Marriage & Divorce - 13 June 2007

2007-06-13 02:11:12 · 35 answers · asked by LALAS 1

For the past 5 years I have been involved with a man . He is my first love. He cheated on me , many times. But , obviously , the good must have outweighed the bad because for 5 years , I stayed. He recently moved away to another state to get his life together. We forgave eachother for a lot of hurt we caused eachother in the past . While he has been away , I met someone, he , has a child whom he and the childs mother may/may not still have a relationship ( that part is unclear!).My first love recently came back and asked me to marry him , he wants me to move away with him and for us to try that "happily ever after thing". But the truth is , I am in love with the new guy.I can do better , I know that I deserve better . But I want him . I have had some seriously rough breaks in my life and my first love is offering a life I have alwayswanted-family , home, love.Should I try with the new guy , or should i just go with my first love?

2007-06-13 02:06:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

She says she will not sigh the paper work so she can keep on getting the army's bennifits is the anything i can do about this

2007-06-13 01:54:53 · 11 answers · asked by jeffery a 1

I LOVE my husband (person A) but I am IN LOVE with someone else (person B). Person A and I have been together for almost 6 years; there have been wonderful times and there have been awful times, but we have made it this far and I feel comfortable with him. Person B, I have known for almost 13 years. We know eachother's thoughts/feelings, if you will, at a much deeper level than Person A and I do. Person B is getting married this weekend, to someone else.
Although Person A and I love eachother, I feel like there is an uneven amount of effort being put into maintaining our relationship. I am not sure if I can be happy with Person A for the rest of my life. Person B warned me about Person A, but I though I new best, now Person B and I have been talking about this very situation that I am asking advice on. Person B says everything happens for a reason. Person A says he will always love me, but he doesn't let me tell him how I feel; that I may not be as happy as he is with us.

2007-06-13 01:54:32 · 14 answers · asked by In Need Of Advice 1

This may sound a strange question.

Marriages were designed for people to raise a family... and even if couples are not into children, I've always thought sex is an important ingredient in a couple's life...

But is it possible that people may marry and don't have sex?
(I ask this because recently I read an account of someone who said she had lived with her husband for 3 years before they married, and they had never had sex until they married... I have also read about a married woman who said she was a still a virgin, as far as I remember because her husband had sexual problems...)

And how about those who marry late in life, or over age 50 (as I've heard)?
Given to the hormonal alterations that occur as people age, sex may lose a lot importance.
I think I've heard that some people even become incapable of having a sexual relationship.
So...?

2007-06-13 01:54:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really felt sad everytime i heard some couple who brk up... u????

2007-06-13 01:51:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-13 01:49:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-13 01:39:34 · 21 answers · asked by JULS 1

I was married about 17 years ago in the Bahamas. We are now about to go through a divorce. We never at any point filed any certificate or paper work in the U.S.. Is our marriage legal in the U.S.? Thanks!

2007-06-13 01:35:27 · 3 answers · asked by jwsou812 3

2007-06-13 01:21:37 · 13 answers · asked by mysterious gurl 1

i do should i do ask the friend about it. when we are at church she go and get him tea and if she is going to the shop he sit and waited for her and he even allow her to sit in the front of the car while me as is wife have to drive in the back , she visited the house every thursday should i confront her about it.

2007-06-13 01:10:18 · 32 answers · asked by DENISE E 1

He's so busy at work, plus we have a 2 year old and a 1 year old that take most of our energy. He just seems like he's never in the mood. Masterbating just doesn't do it for me, and I have a feeling he's just quickly taking care of himself if you know what I mean.

2007-06-13 00:31:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to rehab 1 year ago and have been sober 1 year. My husband and I are currently seperated and I am thinking about going home. I asked him not to have alcohol in the house. He asked me if I was that weak. I told him that it was the point that I thought he should support me. His answer was that the refrigerator in the garage was his and he would keep beer if he wanted. I need some guidance. I don't know what to do- move back or go through with the divorce.

2007-06-13 00:05:21 · 26 answers · asked by sw 1