Marriage & Divorce - 13 June 2007

I have been married for a long time. My husband has not hardly touched me for ten years. What is wrong and how can i fix this. I have tried everything. I am about ready to divorce.

2007-06-13 11:40:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-13 11:36:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend wants to know

2007-06-13 11:26:56 · 13 answers · asked by savannahkali 2

Why do women think it's O.K. to lie to their husband about money when it serves them. But condemn a man for being dishonest about sexual matters. Aren't they both forms of betrayel?

2007-06-13 11:19:15 · 11 answers · asked by quiettype 2

For the past year my parents have been going through a divorce that won't be official until August 13 of this year. My dad moved out last year and pretty much wiped his hands clean of me and my mother. My brother went to live with him and now he is moving back with me and my mom because my dad is moving into a house with his girlfriend but my brother is not allowed to move in with them but her kids are. Now personally i prepared myself for the divorce and it didnt really bother me, but now my dad is really ******* up by not paying any of the mortgage or any of the other bills in the house which by law he is responsible to pay half. I have not spoken to my father in about 3 months and i also dont plan on speaking to him ever again. I am 22 years old and at this point in my life I have accomplished a lot without him and I feel like I will never need him ever again. Do you think I am right, or am I being petty, I would add more but i only get so many characters to type.

2007-06-13 11:17:36 · 8 answers · asked by dancinphil24 1

this is for my essay, and i need to know what you think about divorce. like advantages and disadvantages, and why should it stay legal or in some countries illegal and vice versa. THANKS!

2007-06-13 11:17:10 · 5 answers · asked by pinkpaperdoll♥ 2

2007-06-13 11:16:09 · 17 answers · asked by goingcrzy 1

Please share your nighmare with me.

And no...I'm not a homo

2007-06-13 11:12:17 · 14 answers · asked by Guy 1

panties ?

2007-06-13 10:56:51 · 6 answers · asked by zOe 1

Do you look at other men's wives and compare your wife to them? Not just physically, but in how nice they treat them, the level of respect they show, etc.

2007-06-13 10:53:29 · 9 answers · asked by casey308 2

I can't get this girl out of my head or my heart we knew each other since we both was 11 years old, I have always loved her and we had our proubles in the past she ask me out then told everone she didn't i was picked on by all her friends then I did some silly things back to her because I was hurted then she went out with my friend and both of them used to wait till I come back from school and stand outside my house kissing and doing sex things which yea it hurted me then everthing went to court and I won the court they use to stand out of my house ever day for 2 full years (1998-2000) once I said Hi to her when no one won't with her then she smiled and said Hi back anyway after the court we haven't seen each other untill this past march we both walked alomost into each other in town and we both just stop and looking at each other's in the eyes then this posh guy got her hand and walked past me, why does it hurt me so bad when i think of that I love her ever since we was 11

2007-06-13 10:46:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband had his first investigation 4 years ago, they do one every 5 years... we got married in the middle of the last investigation. do they investigate me as well?

2007-06-13 10:39:20 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2

I just recently started working out again. I get off of work at 5 and make it to the gym about 6:30-7. I'm usually there about an hour. My husband wants me to. cut my workout short so I can get home and spend time with him. (He has to get up early in the morning and we usually don't see eachother until I get home from the gym. We have a short time to eat something and settle for bed before doing it all over again the next day. We both have weekends off. I feel like we spend plenty of time together. He doesn't he says that I'm neglecting my family... am I being selfish?? Theres a 10yr reunion in two weeks and I need to work out. It FRUSTRATES me when he asks me to cut my gym time either in half or to not go at all.... This schedule won't be like this for long. Just for a short while. Once again, am I being selfish and what should I do? Thanks to all..

2007-06-13 10:33:00 · 29 answers · asked by Shronn 1

She is getting on my nerves. Why won't she go home? Who in their right mind will stay in there ex husband and new wife house. She is rich, if you don't want to go home, go to a hotel room. If you don't want to be by yourself, you should of thought of that before you did what you did. She needs to go and see about Daniel and his problems.

2007-06-13 10:32:39 · 11 answers · asked by Ash Kat 4

Okay, I have already posted some of this.. my wife is having a long distance relationship (California to Chicago) via email, phone, text message. I have asked her to end it. I have explained that with anohter man in the picture we cannot repair us. I have explained that NO MAN can be Friends with a woman, sorry my opinion. She really see nothing wrong with it because they have not had sex. The only thing she is truly sorry for is hurting me.

My question is this: what the world am I going to do ifshe does not end it after I have asked her to and told her exactly how I feel??

2007-06-13 10:22:07 · 18 answers · asked by jdesey 1

says that it's best for only the husband to do it under his name because of credit reasons is that a bad thing because the woman wouldn't have her name attached. would she still be considered as owning the home too even if they couldn't place her name on the agreement

2007-06-13 10:07:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is one of you in charge of the finances? Do you do your bills together? Which do you think is better? why? Has it ever caused discord in your relationship?

2007-06-13 10:00:05 · 33 answers · asked by TBECK 4

men who do all that they should do. pay their support on time, see there kids, regularly get screwed by the courts and the district attorneys office. we are persecuted for the men who dont pay. the d a is allowed to ruin someones life without even the due process requirement for criminals. whats everyone think about this?

2007-06-13 09:58:15 · 23 answers · asked by copdude5150 1

pls share ur view on it................

2007-06-13 09:51:18 · 16 answers · asked by sume 2

Cussing allowed?

2007-06-13 09:47:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

That's what we want sometimes right? Spice things up! What are some ways, don't matter what they are. Let me hear these ideas or experiences.

2007-06-13 09:45:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

spouse owns house and been married for 25 yrs--no pre-nup --do I own half?

2007-06-13 09:44:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hypothetically speaking.... You cheat, he/she will never know, do you say something? Or do you keep it to yourself?

2007-06-13 09:38:05 · 29 answers · asked by boomquisha 2

Is it normal to fantasize about other people? Do you ever feel you want to act on it? How do you make the feelings stop?

2007-06-13 09:37:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not upset that he does it....I am upset that he hides it from me. He thinks because he deletes it out of the history that there is no record of it. I ask him if he did it and he has said no repeatedly. Why does he lie when I don't get mad about the porn....should I be mad because he lies??

2007-06-13 09:36:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love him dearly!! But I have to think of my future here! I'm gonna need help with mortgage payments and bills once we get married! I told him I would not make any marriage plans until he's settled at a job... I can't do it all on my own and I'm sick of him not working! He tries and looks for jobs but I think he can try harder. He's the type that would NEVER work at a fruitmarket or McDonalds just to get paid. I feel he has no choice at this point.

2007-06-13 09:35:24 · 59 answers · asked by ♥ 3

and are pregnant now by another man,can you give that child your maiden name? my ex-daughterinlaw finds herself in this situation.she and my son have 2 little girls together.she was seeing someone and did not realize he was married and also into drugs, so he will not be involved in his sons life.she has said she is using her maiden name because the father wants nothing to do with it or her.can she do this? it would be wrong to stick our family name on a child who is not of our blood.my son has remarried and would never accept her bi-racial child under any circumstances.i find this hard cause my 2 grand daughters are of course excited about having a baby brother.i just dont want world war 3 over this and i dont want my son to be ridiculed for his ex wifes choices,any advice?

2007-06-13 09:30:25 · 2 answers · asked by dixie58 7

Here is the scenario...a divorce situation, but paperwork isn't filed yet. The lease in an apartment is up in a month. The husband is moving out, says he wants to take the kids (one an infant, the other 2 years old), the mom doesn't agree to it. He says he is going to shut the power, phones, etc when he moves out. She spends all day trying to find a job, has yet to find one. Only family she has to move in with is out of state. What can/should she do? It sounds like he is abandoning them.

2007-06-13 09:19:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My live-in girlfriend of two years is great, but lately she's been pressuring me for marriage. Previously this seemed to be a foregone conclusion...we were both confident we'd get married one day and have kids. Now I'm not too sure. We're both in our mid-20s, and I've done a lot of growing up and changing in the past year. I feel like I'm a different person, and who I've become doesn't dovetail with what my girlfriend wants out of our married life.

The thing is, she's the absolute epitome of a great girlfriend. Sassy, demure, beautiful, panther in bed. I've met dozens of guys who would love to be in my shoes, but for some reason I feel that I'm moving away from her and turning my back on our relationship.

I'm no dumbass either...I'm keenly aware of what I stand to lose if I end this. Sometimes it seems like it's just a matter of me accepting a few of her negative aspects and moving on.

She's expecting a ring before the end of the year....please help.

2007-06-13 09:06:22 · 19 answers · asked by Comrade 1

My B/friend saw a guy she likes & has been wanting him for 6 months now.They ve never dated bcoz he's not interested in her & frankly has never been.The Problem is, He & I ve been interested in eachother from the start(for 6 months) but we can't date until my friend approves of it.You Americans may not understand this BUT it's cultural for us not to date a GUY your friend says she likes(All one has to do is say,"I want that Guy", meaning that Particular guy is off limits to all her friends)UNLESS she approves. The Guy is American & he thinks it's stupid(I agree but it is instilled in us).I tried to talk to my friend about it but she cut the conversation short.Our other friend told me that my B/friend knows that the guy wants me.The Guy is getting upset with me bcoz i ve been putting him on HOLD for sometime now.I ve kissed him once & no one knows.It's killing me not to be with him.I see him most of the times bcoz we are in the same social circles.should I secretly date him? MOre INFO

2007-06-13 09:04:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous