Why do women think it's O.K. to lie to their husband about money when it serves them. But condemn a man for being dishonest about sexual matters. Aren't they both forms of betrayel?
2007-06-13 11:19:15 · 11 answers · asked by quiettype 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I should add that I would give her anything thing she asked for(and have). So her dishonesty only makes me look elsewhere for companionship. The money isn't the issue, the betrayel is. Suddenly I feel that I am justified in seeking a meaningful relationship with someone that loves me, and not just money.
2007-06-13 11:39:47 · update #1
Yes they are both forms of betrayal and both are grounds for divorce! Remember, both parties are human and deceit is a human trait not a gender one.
2007-06-13 11:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes both are a form of betrayal, but one has greater consequences than the other. You can always got more money...
Solve the problem with cash about having separate personal spending accounts then that should settle the problem a bit.
2007-06-13 11:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lashadon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We don't necessary lie about money, we just don't tell you until you find out we spent the money. But you give us a descent amount of money to go shopping with we won't have to dip in the money with asking. You can't give us$100 dollars for groceries,personal items and cleaning supplies and expect us to have something left for ourselves to go shopping with.Now we can either buy a shirt or a pair of pants, or put gas in the car and buy you a 2piece box of chicken for 1.99.We both have desires to shop.So when he wants to go shopping,give her some money so she can shop too.
2007-06-13 12:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women do that. And money issues are very different than breaking vows and putting the other person at risk for STD's plus breaking up the home.
2007-06-13 11:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's very accurate of you to make that general of a statement. Not ALL women think it's okay to lie about stuff. Sounds like you just have had a bad experience with one who did.
And yes, they are both forms of betrayal.
2007-06-13 11:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is betrayal but men are narrow minded so sometimes we have to work around that trait. My husband and I have an agreement. What is mine is mine and what is his is mine! But I am never to take advantage of it and to use the resources wisely. Which I do.
2007-06-13 11:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people will always try and get away with as much as they can. My lies are harmless, but are hurt full. Its all a matter of perspective. When its about me I always side it in my favor. It human nature be a little selfish.
2007-06-13 11:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say, money and sex are two very different types of betrayal. Money doesn't hurt the heart.
2007-06-13 11:31:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not the same cause sexual matters can get you a std and extra money on the side can get you to vegas. there's no comparison.
2007-06-13 11:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by auroa26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, no justification at all, two wrongs don't mean a right. You are LOOKING for justification, but you are fooling yourself.
2007-06-13 11:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋