Marriage & Divorce - 15 June 2007

i was bored one night and daughter in law was lonely and so
we just ended up in bed ...it was a one time thing and we dont even look at one onother...is this too strange...son will never know.

2007-06-15 23:23:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi all. I am an NRI, currently residing in Australia.
I have been happily engaged for the last 6 months and my fiancee is residing mumbai but born in Kerela. I am currently applying for spouse visa's for her to migrate, but I need to be married to do that.

We are having a traditional style wedding early next year, but I need to get a registered marriage done to get visa applications underway so she can accompany me once we are traditionally married.

My dilemma is I can only leave my workplace for a max of 5 days, so I need to get a registered marriage done in a day or two max allowing for flying time.

-I have heard numerous stories so I seek your advice.

-I have been told:

- We cant have a valid registered marriage in Bombay as she is from Kerela and her passport details have her Kochin address.

-I need to be in Kerela for 30 days prior to lodging a registered wedding in Kochin , which means I need to be there for at least 6 weeks.

Can anyone advice??

2007-06-15 23:21:58 · 7 answers · asked by Rushabh S 1

people say they don't dont know sometimes at the moment it feels good but then after it takes a while for them to go away....what do you think

2007-06-15 20:58:26 · 6 answers · asked by 1990gurl 1

2007-06-15 20:51:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-15 20:50:30 · 10 answers · asked by Becky 1

my partner works nightshift and even if we see each other in afternoon he rings me at 6pm everynight and i am expected to answer. i used to find this sweet and even look forward to it but now i find it annoying most of the time cos i have to drop what i am doing and answer phone. i feel like..my life does not just stop at 6pm every night i am busy girl. so if i answer ..then cool. but i wont always. am i nasty?

2007-06-15 20:48:10 · 17 answers · asked by darkling 5

My husband would never go along with paying someone to help in the house, but we both work full-time and I sure would appreciate just a couple or three hours of help a week.

I was thinking about having someone come over in the evenings while he's at work....

I guess I wouldn't want him hiding it from me....

what do you think?

2007-06-15 20:44:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got online today and that was the search history i found. How do i ask him? What do i do? should i say anything? we have a daughter weve been married for 8 yrs. Hes a manly man but we never have sex. Now I found this. I feel sick to my stomach...
HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-06-15 20:41:52 · 11 answers · asked by lilistar 2

8 years 5 children and the woman breaks up with you....what do you do?....

2007-06-15 20:24:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a mother of three, my husband has been having affair with another marrried women when confronted he told me that that's his weak point and i must accept and live with it as he has been a gd husband, gd faTHER, he bring s out out, gives me cash for home expenditures, comes back but very late, i dont want a divorce or a brokien marriage he already told me that if i cant accxept and gtive him any pressure he would choose to leave me . i need help i am keep on crying of my state and loneliness, i do not have friends to share too, i want my marriage and want my hubby but he is treating me with no feeling, how come he got no heart to think of me and

2007-06-15 20:16:48 · 19 answers · asked by susan r 2

2007-06-15 20:06:47 · 20 answers · asked by Emme T 1

We seem to have lots of things in common and yes, we did become intimate.

I'm confused and I'm not sure what to do?

2007-06-15 19:54:26 · 20 answers · asked by Emme T 1

two weeks ago, i had posted a question about my soon to be ex husband contacting me (he wanted space - wanted out of the marriage of 7 yrs. - got a gf, etc.). since getting the responses here, i have stopped communicating with him. this week again he sent me a couple emails about how poorly he was doing and left me a v.m. in which he sounded awful and said he would understand if i did not want to talk to him (but never saying he wants to come back). my heart broke when i heard his voice - i wanted to be there for him. now, i am very tempted to call him back. i know calling him will only leave me with pain and hurt. how do i stay strong and not give in to the temptation? how do i fight my instinct to take care of him (at my own expense)?

2007-06-15 19:39:25 · 19 answers · asked by stuck 2

I met a man about 3 months ago, we started dating. After about 2 months we became sexually intimate. When I asked for a solid commitment he told me he was married! I followed him to see if it was a lie, but it isn't. He has a wife and two small children. Should i tell her? Or Just leave it up to fate?

2007-06-15 19:27:49 · 44 answers · asked by softball00rawks 1

i have 2 kids ,been with this man for 12 years he has already gotten me to mortgage my home which was paid for.im on disability because of COPD.he has left now ,been gone 1 week,hes at his moms,.he doesnt know if we have food or what.hes a trucker,last week he flipped out on some kinda drug and has never came back his dad had to go get him,his dad delivered his load and hes been laid up at his moms .he hasnt called or nothing.im getting cutoff notices on bills and stuff,he acts if ive done something to him.i dont know what to do.his mom want talk to me or the kids its like they are the royalty and me and kids dont exist,im scarred im gonna loose my home.can someone tell we what to do or where to go.i need help bad.its plain he doesnt love me or he would be here,right?but isnt there a law he cant just leave me and the kids with nothing but cut off notices

2007-06-15 18:59:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I seperated 3 months ago, I kicked him out because he's an abusive alcaholic. He's still drinking and I don't want him back, he does want to come back tho, but I have told him no. I have a friend who wants to "see" me. Since I am still married I have been putting it off, but since my husband and I no longer live together and it's basicly over would it be considered cheating if I started dating? I have filed for divorce, should I wait till it's final?

2007-06-15 18:59:12 · 26 answers · asked by funnychic30 2

i just split after 16 years of marriage is it my feet with on - line dating

2007-06-15 18:53:28 · 18 answers · asked by mary kay s 1

My husband and I have been married almost three years now, together for a total of six years. In the first six months of our relationship he had to talk to me about how he needed more sex in our relationship, so I stepped it up a notch. A few months later, the sex came to a screetching halt. For the past 5 years and still now, we MAYBE have sex once or twice a month. I don't know what to do. He says he isn't cheating and a part of me believes him, but what can I do to make him want me more? I have needs that he isn't fulfulling and I don't want to go outside my marriage. I want my husband to want me again. I am a young attractive woman who enjoys sex. Please help before this ruins my marriage.

2007-06-15 18:48:39 · 27 answers · asked by A3Mama 2

As wrote earler that myself and my are hubby are living in different far off cites & i am working inDelhi. I am living with a maid of my age . She is widow. Once on a sudden visit my husband caught us in compromising situation. He asked me that maid should also join us or quit her. This i asked from readers most of them say to get rid of maid. I saty with my hubby for hardly 30 days in a year for rest with the maid. Maid is so nice that she is raedy to join us in the bed or quit as i like. So again it is a great problem for me as i do not want to loose a companion like her. She hates man but she is ready to sacrifice for me. I am fully satisfied in all respect with her. So please guide me waht to do.

2007-06-15 18:46:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I found out my husband cheated on me, and i took him back, the one of my close friends died, then my husband told me he didn't love me anymore and that is the reason he cheated on me. As if I wasn't hurting enough, I found out that another one of my friends is in the hospital on life support and they don't know if he is gonna make it. I just don't know what to do. How do I deal with all of this??

2007-06-15 18:42:30 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer 2

I have been married slightly over two months. My husband is a musician and is working toward producing. We are living in my home, a home I purchased 8 years ago. My husband has been using part of the house as a recording studio. A co-worker of mine has been wanting to record her poetry. She and her husband came over yesterday to work on her material. So I did the hostess thing and prepared some light snacks in case they got hungry. I stayed out of the way. About 2:00 I went and picked up some chicken in case they were hungry. Tonight he had a comment about what I did- preparing snacks for the "work session" I didn't see it as anything else other than being hospitable...he sees something else. What I don't know but his comment was to the effect that if I am going to feed people every time he invites people over for a session, then he will need his own space to work. It was a pointless arguement to me. I see it as picking at me for being thoughtful and trying to be a good hostess.

2007-06-15 18:38:47 · 22 answers · asked by femmenoire@sbcglobal.net 4

We have been fighting all night becuse she is pissed that it cost too much. It does not affect family finances as I have money. She says she hates motorcycles. I am having fun with the bike. Will she get over it?

2007-06-15 18:15:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married for 15 years small town. She leaves me for a coworker total shock and very painful. I divorced her very quickly as she did not want to seek any kind of help and my pleads to give her the world fell on deaf ears. I set up the custody agreement 50/50 everyother week. If a spouse moves out of the school district the spouse who remains becomes primary and the one who leaves gets them everyother weekend.....Its 8 months later shes out of lust and wants to move 300 miles away and take the kids. She signed it 8 months ago and I'm squiky clean no abuse drugs or alcohol. I coach my kids baseball teams and do everything with them. Does she have a chance if she takes me to court to change the custody agreement???

2007-06-15 18:13:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my father died 2 years ago and my mother has a partner today who is a married man. he made my mother believed he loves her so much but he is just leaving with my mom for money reasons.this man broke a lot of families in our place including our family. but my mother don't believed us and she left us, abandoned us, sell our properties and lived with this man. i was really hurt, feel depressed and feel hopeless. 5 years from now she'll turn 53 years old, she has diabetes and i know this man gonna leave her alone soon.if she comes back i dont know if i'm gonna forgive her. please help?

2007-06-15 18:02:04 · 5 answers · asked by oni_roan 1

I got married in West Bengal and moved to Mumbai just after the ceremony. since I am working here from last 2 yrs. I Was not abler to register the marrige there. we are hindus and married as per hindu rituals. Need to know what I need to do to register the marrige here. What are the documents needed or what proofs are needed.

2007-06-15 18:01:28 · 4 answers · asked by sabusomu g 1

I have an oppurtunity to work at my dream job for a little money (definitely not enough to live on), or keep my current position working for a company that I hate for more money than I have ever made before in my life. What should I do?

2007-06-15 17:56:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm 17. i've been with my bf for 2 years. they've never approved of me. they're rich and i'm certainly not. but he loves me to death. they think i'm a liar because in the very beginning i would sneak to see him, beings that i was only 15 and i wasn't supposed to have a bf. we are supposed to have a talk, my bf and his parents, some time soon. i need to know how i can make them like me. i know i'm a good person. i know i'm right for their son. but they have been very mean to me through time. they've tried to destroy us, so theres bitter feelings. how can i just make this go smoothly??? i want them to approve of our relationship..

2007-06-15 17:55:25 · 7 answers · asked by Lauran Elizabeth 2

I have been married for nearly ten years and have two children. My husband isn't bad at all. There is no abuse, he is a hard worker, and he is a simple man. However, I do not like his negative traits - things that are so part of who he is, I'm not sure if a lifetime of being his wife is worth it. He has no social graces, he is rude and abrupt, rarely smiles, and he yells at the kids. He is also a recovering alcoholic / pothead, doesn't want to try anything new, and seems like he is nicest to me when he is horny. Otherwise, he is like an orge. He has ballooned up to almost 300 pounds, and simply, I am not attracted to him anymore. Yeah, yeah, people have suggested married counseling, but really guys, "talking" about better communication is not something he has ever been good at. And will practicing "kissing" and talking about sex with him going to turn me on someday? I may stay for the sake of the kids, but for those of you who can relate and have stayed, is it worth it?

2007-06-15 17:49:17 · 12 answers · asked by BarbWireBarbie 1

My husband and I have been together for 6 yrs now and have 2 kids. I am currently 60lbs. over weight. I have gained 30lbs since we've been married. He has gained 50lbs. He asked me today if I was gonna let myself get as big as my ex-sister-in law who is 300lbs. I am nowhere near that. I said no but what if I did? And he said that he would leave me. This hurt so much b/c I feel like if he loved me then it shouldn't matter what I look like. I don't eat alot but I don't excersize either. And he will not get healthy with me. So what do I do now, punch him in the face or try and lose the weight?

2007-06-15 17:43:22 · 43 answers · asked by ~Charity~ 6

I am American girl Married to a Sikh punjabi Man we live in the US but when it comes to him going home once a year I find my self feeling jealous because I dont want him to go Is it normal to not want to share my husband with his family?

2007-06-15 17:35:55 · 17 answers · asked by kimsierra2000 1