Marriage & Divorce - 15 June 2007

i am just filing for diviroce from my husband, geoff, and i have been dating a new man for the past 8 months named pablo. he started out so sweet in the beginning but now he is showing his true cultures. he has been smoking cigarettes and drinking red bull and never complimenting me anymnore. i dont know if he is attracted to me anymore. he says he loves me and we will marry next year in the fall when our child, trayshawn, is born but i have 2nd doubts about the man he is becoming. any advice appreciated.

2007-06-15 09:28:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are geminis compatible to scorpios?

2007-06-15 09:25:06 · 17 answers · asked by ninaderald 1

I'm not certain if its the whole wanting what you can't have, or the no strings attached nothing serious aspect. But i've always been turned on by married woman is this wrong?

2007-06-15 09:23:59 · 38 answers · asked by Joseph 4

This is a bad situation.My brother in-law & I have been sleeping together for a year now.We both agree that we are wrong and sinned BIG time.Now I'm 4 weeks pregnant with my brother-in-law's child. We don't know what to do.We know abortion is not right but the situation we are in MAY call for it.Our two options: (1) Have an Abortion so we can spare my husband & he will never know or (2) Keep the baby & pretend it's my husband's.My brother-in-law & my husband look very much alike.The ONLY problem with this is,my brother-in-law says he will always know that it's his child if we keep the baby. He might ONE DAY want the child for himself. He says he would feel guilty seeing another man,even his own brother, raising his child. Any advice on keeping or abort?

The brother-in-law is getting sick about because he sees my husband everyday. They are both lawyers & have a law practice business together.My brother in-law has been married for just 1 year> i have been married for 3 yrs. I don't

2007-06-15 09:22:59 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

Over a year and a half ago I started talking to another woman. It was the wrong thing to do, but my wife and I had been having problems since our marriage began. I found someone to talk to who enjoyed me and I enjoyed being wanted. I know it was the wrong thing to do. After going through the whole deal with my wife she believe that I slept with this woman. I did not. However it is still an emotional affair that is not fading. I look at other couple with similar situations and see that, no matter how distant the problem it persists for the life of the marriage. My wife nor I want to feel like this forever. Councelling is out, my wife is not interested although I am. Do we have a chance of getting past this?
Thoughts?

2007-06-15 09:18:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it the thrill? then when they get caught why are they sorry then and lot of the time they want to work things out?

2007-06-15 09:16:59 · 25 answers · asked by evets3423 1

I broken off with him because he cheated, I don't want him no more and I'm not jealous at all, but I just can't help myself to checking on him with the woman,am I being sick?

2007-06-15 09:16:11 · 7 answers · asked by sska 1

2007-06-15 09:12:05 · 35 answers · asked by Supersirroux 2

Wow enough with the anger... are there any mature women out there that can relate of give advise. I am not going to defend myself to a bunch or clueless young adults...

2007-06-15 09:05:07 · 42 answers · asked by No Drama for this Queen 5

She met this guy on a business trip. She said nothing happened. I found out that they have been talking for hours at a time on the phone for the past month and a half. She is interested in him and he in her. I am not sure what to believe, I just know that this is wrong. What should I do?

2007-06-15 09:01:55 · 22 answers · asked by J-LO D 1

2007-06-15 08:49:17 · 32 answers · asked by over the moon 2

I want to fid out who.

2007-06-15 08:40:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Question on dating and a person's beliefs on Christian theology?
I have been dating a born-again Christian for about 5 months now (I am a born-again Christian also). We have since the start of the relationship questioned each other's beliefs to make sure we were on the same page and not dating each other in vain. All along it seemed we agreed on the basics, such as how to become a Christian, what it means to be a Christian, the importance of church, and also major moral issues. Now we have figured out that we disagree on the more in-depth issues such as speaking in tongues, prophecy, modern-day miracles and a few other things. How important is it that a couple agree on EVERYTHING that has to do with their Christian beliefs? I would really hate this issue to break me and my boyfriend apart.

2007-06-15 08:27:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-15 08:24:25 · 24 answers · asked by panicos m 1

I've noticed (and I'm guilty as well) that women who normally have good sense and a fairly decent home are willing to throw caution to the wind for an ex. It usually has something to do with how wonderful he is and how he listens. Ladies, what's wrong with us? Where's our will power?

2007-06-15 08:21:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know I'm going to get slammed for this, but I honestly want to know if there's any way for me to maintain any shred of integrity... so please, if you have an answer I'd like to hear it but if you just want to tell me how horrible I am, I'm already aware of that.

My husband is a good man, works hard, pays the bills, loves me and our 4 year old daughter. He's 100% committed to marriage, and divorce has never been in his vocabulary. However, because of me, we've never had a good marriage and after 6 years of tension, I kissed somebody else. I admitted this to my husband, who flipped out. He gave me a second chance, as long as there was zero contact with the other guy. I still have a relationship with the other guy (no, I have not slept with him).

I know my husband deserves MUCH better. I love him but we're not IN love. At all. That's the problem. What should I do? For my husband's sake? For my daughter's sake? What do people think of women who initiate divorce?

2007-06-15 08:18:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I'm a 45+ femal that joined classmates last year and got in touch with an old boyfriend. We shared the summer of '78 and what a summer it was... anyways we have stayed in touch through emails, and phone calls. Heres the problem, He is divorced and a very religious man, he would never even consider kissing me cause I'm married, even though I know he wants to be with me. To him even having sexual thoughts about a married women is a sin. I want this man sooooooo bad I can't think straight sometimes. I'm not that happy in my married lide (bored). Even when he does say something sexual to me if gives me goose bumps.. what to do???? HELP

2007-06-15 08:16:15 · 30 answers · asked by No Drama for this Queen 5

I don't want to disappoint my little brother because he has always looked up to me & I love him very much.

2007-06-15 08:08:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

"once a cheater always a cheater". how much of that saying is true? do u think that once someone commited infidelity and was remoreseful, do u think they can be capable of doing it again once that bump on the road smoothed out?

do u think that once your're capable of cheating you'll want to do it again?

2007-06-15 07:22:00 · 21 answers · asked by Shrimpboat 3

I have tried lingerie, leather, cuffs, hood, piercings, threesome, etc.

2007-06-15 07:08:25 · 20 answers · asked by Mariska 5

Do I have to believe this? I try hard, but my average highest score over the past 6 months is only twice a week. I would like to verify the poll's outcome. How about you?

2007-06-15 07:08:21 · 11 answers · asked by Mariska 5

I will not go back b/c he don't love Me ,I understand that now,b/c what he did to me was not out of love,and if it was I don't need that kind of love.He was not the prize,he was the man that had my heart,what a waist,but what I need to know is how long do it take to get my heart back from him,b/c I do love him but I also know that he's not good for me,but I will move on with out him,and it hurts

2007-06-15 07:03:24 · 7 answers · asked by Susan O 2

I think most of her questions are funny.

2007-06-15 06:53:29 · 3 answers · asked by joyce 5

It's been a year, but if I see her I'm thinking I wanna beat her a$$. After a split we got back together, and are better than ever before. Still it wasn't just my man that did wrong, she did too. She knew all about me and even after I found out I confronted her and she still didn't care. She had no shame in it.

2007-06-15 06:53:10 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Miss X♥ 3

I am running out of creative things to do for my girlfriend. I was wondering if I can get some help to get or do something for her that's creative.

So far I have done the following:
1.) I have sent her bouquets of flowers once a week.

2.) Recently bought her a necklace from Swarovski and TIffany

3.) Dinner on the deck of a restaurant in Tiburon, with the view of San Francisco night life.

4.) Sent her last week a dozen large chocolate covered strawberries, hand delivered by four Godiva associates. I had them also sing the theme to " Sound of Music". I know it was corny but, I got her to laugh. i did this at her work!

5.) I write her letters a few times a month, handwritten in calligraphy and then I would snail mail it.

6.) Taken walks with her on a secluded beach.

7.) Chartered a helicopter to fly her around San Francisco prior to dinner.

Now I am running out of ideas at this point. Can I please get some creative ideas to do..something meaningful

2007-06-15 06:49:12 · 13 answers · asked by Cerealkiller 2

We have sex regularly and still enjoy to experiment. But since he has made a trip to Amsterdam he likes it a bit more rough. He has gotten into spanking and wants my bottom up for a 'warming up' before engaging in the final ...
It hurts and I don't enjoy it. I know he has dropped his eye on our (much younger) neighbour and I am afraid he will go next door when I do not cooperate. What am I going to do?

2007-06-15 06:47:59 · 37 answers · asked by Mariska 5

Does having premarital sex affect the quality of marriage? If you have premarital sex with a partner, whom you later marry, will you have a better marriage, a worse marriage or does it not matter? Is the sex worse after the marriage?

2007-06-15 06:46:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you like about the place...what was the most you ever spent at a strip club...how much money do you think is ok to spend? and men why do you buy the woman a drink when you know she wont sleep with you?

2007-06-15 06:44:16 · 12 answers · asked by bmxq8 1

why is it topics like women talking about having sex with stranger or guys talking about having affairs get the most responses...

2007-06-15 06:40:58 · 13 answers · asked by bmxq8 1

We were married 9 years. I fought really hard to get him back. I filed for divorce but we tried to make things work out. It's been about a year. I do forgive him, but I just don't feel the same about him. I feel that he could not have really loved me if he could go outside our marriage. Anyone ever feel this way?
I also feel that we are falling in to the same agruments, the same direction.

2007-06-15 06:38:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous