Marriage & Divorce - 15 June 2007

Has it always been that way, or did it come about gradually? (Like my relationship with my husband - it used to be a democracy, we used to talk about things and compromise, now everything is his way "or else"... I don't know why I didn't pick up him changing so slowly, but now I'm neck-deep. You know?) How does it make you feel when you basically have someone else running your life?

2007-06-15 02:40:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My b/f and i got engaged...he gave me the ring and later bought the band to match. Further in the relationship i find out he was cheating, and now we are broken up. He has not mentioned the rings, but should i give them back, or keep them?

The way i see it is...he is the one that cheated and caused the relationship to go sour, so don't i deserve to keep the ring on the pretence that i held up my part of the deal in this? I dont want the rings to continue to wear them though, I just dont think he should get them back. what do you think?

2007-06-15 02:35:44 · 62 answers · asked by knk724 3

I love my husband dearly and I will do just everything to keep him happy. Unfortunately my skin is allergic for leather and I have proposed to get some tailor made black vinyl mini-skirts and strepless tops. My husband doesn't agree with this and now he has threatened to divorce me.
What 'r to do? i love him sooo much ...

2007-06-15 02:00:13 · 21 answers · asked by Mariska 5

2007-06-15 01:51:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-15 01:50:05 · 20 answers · asked by Seshan 2

When I first discovered my husband of 19 years was cheating, I took it very badly to say the least. 18 months later, we are still together although he stays in our house 4 days a week and 3 days in his apartment to be near to his work. I should in a way be pleased that he didn't leave me for the other woman as such. He has never said much about the affair except that it is over and that he is not willing to commit to anyone, although he is married to me. When he comes over we carry on as if nothing has happened, but he has never said he is staying because he loves me. If I ask him he answers, if you can't work it out then I can't help you. The problem now is that I am finding it difficult to respond to him and to take the initiative with him. I seem to have gone very quiet and hardly ever make a first move with him. Whenever he shows affection, I tend to think that he is pretending. Why am I behaving like a fool when I wanted him to stay? Is it his motives I am wary of

2007-06-15 01:49:18 · 20 answers · asked by Angela O 1

I am bipolar, and a little paranoid so i look at things on the net and relate them to myself but i am recently thinking that im codependent on my spouse. Not really sure could anyone help me out a little...please? =)

2007-06-15 01:46:47 · 3 answers · asked by tamuriilanaclime 1

Finally after 2 months of searching I finally found my girlfriend and served her joint custody papers. She has 20 days to reply to the courts.
My question is:
what is the process i have to go through now that she has been served? And what am I looking foward to?
Thanks for your help.

2007-06-15 01:40:30 · 6 answers · asked by Lilkryptonite 4

my friend gave me a car and i dont have insurance, but a guy hit me this morning, will his insurance pay for it?

2007-06-15 01:37:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 25 year old stay at home mom with a soon to be 2 year old son. I haven't really worked since my son came along and I have no college education. I have recently been checking out some online schools because going to a traditional college is not an option for me. I am very unhappy in my marriage. My husband feels that the money he makes at work is his money that he uses to take care of us. He makes me ask for money and he goes shopping with me so I wont buy anything we don't really need. I get 20 dollars out of each check for myself. I am thankful for all he does for us but I don't think of the money as his money. I feel it is the family money. We fight all the time about this and he tells me if I don't like him having control over the money then I should get a job.1) How can I get a job? 2) What about our son? I feel depressed but I can't talk to my husband. I love being a mom but what about my identity? What happens to me when my son grown and no longer needs me?

2007-06-15 01:32:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im getting married soon and noticed my boyfriend has a box of pictures of ex girlfriends..(also had a pic of his ex in his wallet i found while he was in the shower(yes im nosey)..but none of myself)..should i ask for them to be thrown out?? they dont bother me too much but i just figure they aren't needed any longer and i dont have those things anymore..what do you think?

2007-06-15 01:21:04 · 32 answers · asked by julie092179 3