Marriage & Divorce - 15 June 2007

What does that mean help me plz....

2007-06-15 06:37:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been thinking about this friend of mine way to much as of recently.. we were hanging out a party.. and such.. and it lead to some kissing.(that is all i ran away before it could lead to much more.. ).he told me a pile of things that i liked hearing..just compliment after compliment.. and i'm not really use to that type of attention from boys.. as i've never really had many boys say that type of stuff you know?

anyways.. i saw him the other night.. and we didn't really get a chance to talk about it at all. as our signicant others were there... (yeah i know that doesn't help either)

i realize untill were both single nothing more can become of it.. but why can't i stop thinking about him.. and wanting something else..i'm not even sure what he thinks of the whole situation. but he seemed interested that night..

2007-06-15 06:36:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is it so hard for my husband to have sex without a BJ first? for a while he denied it, saying that he just likes to have one before sex... and btw, this started with me; he never had this issue with any other girls. but last night pissed me off so badly that i've cut him off until further notice. and i changed the password on our computer so he can't look at porn anymore... until i see an improvement. so last night, i thought he was asleep, so i changed into some pjs and brushed my teeth and went to bed... but then he started with the whine (which means he wants something)... i told him, "no. i don't feel like doing that and i've already done it once today." he said, "fine. goodnight." i called him a jerk and told him to go whack it. he fell asleep like two seconds later.
usually i give in... but last night i didn't, just to see what would happen. now i'm really disappointed. so my question is why do guys do this? and how can i change it?

2007-06-15 06:21:40 · 22 answers · asked by termite choking on the splinters 4

The latest affair that I found out about on Good Friday 2006, from the biatches mouth lasted two years. He just says that he felt I no longer loved him and he didn't want to be alone. He bought her diamonds and pearls, took her to amusement parks and even bought her a passport so that they could go away. I don't think that it has stopped but I can't prove it. He was and is very sneaky, I never know where he is and he controls all of our money. Well he did, I just stopped my direct deposit from going to our joint account to my own personal one. This really has him ticked off, even though he says that my salary doesn't even pay the bills and one of his deals is much more than a full year of my pay. He is a real estate agent and she is a lender, he hasn't sold anything since Dec. 2006 they carry on a 9-5 any hotel relationship. She has since divorced her husband and expected him to do the same. He says she is nobody and that he could never find anyone take care of him like I do

2007-06-15 06:02:09 · 37 answers · asked by MaryAngel 1

I have a 16yr daughter who thinks her Dad is so great and her step-father and I are monsters. We pay tuition to a private school, bought her a car for her 16th b-day, pay her insurance, clothes, etc. She get pretty much anything she wants. Her Dad refuses to pay for anything in addition to the measly little child support he wouldn't be paying if it wasn't court ordered and automatically deducted from his paycheck. My daughter sees no problem with this, it is his choice she says. First she said he couldn't because he couldn't afford what we can afford, then he bout a 2006 Mustang GT for himself. He has her convinced it wasn't expensive. She falls for his BS constantly and it is driving me crazy! We have rules and discipline that go with all the benefits she gets from my husband and I and that is what makes us the jerks/monsters. I am so sick of it I don't know what to do!

2007-06-15 05:50:54 · 25 answers · asked by firegirl 2

Whats the difference between an alcoholic and a man who tends to drink say once a week and gets drunk?

**This relates to a previous question**

2007-06-15 05:41:17 · 25 answers · asked by Kaualani E 3

Wife and highschool sweetheart of 15 years had an affair and left me for her coworker. Its was a shock and happened soooo fast. She was in "lust" and wasn't thinking very clearly. She had to rent a shack in town literally because he could lose his job if they moved in together. We have two kids and they suffered a great deal in the beginning. Its been 8 months now.....hes leaving and moving 300 miles away, She is having a hard time with money and wants to move about 200 miles away. She cannot take the children, I willbecome the primary guardian when she moves. She loves her kids as much as I do but she didn't think it all out and now reality has hit both of them. We live in a small community and alot of people have no respect for her now so she feels alienated. I begged for her to stay when she left and wanted to give her the world. I wanted karma to get her in the beginning but now I'm feeling somewhat sad for her because I know it will be hard for her being a weekend parent. should I

2007-06-15 05:22:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have always had this fantasy, I can't get it out of my head, my wife says shes up for trying most things, but refuses to try swinging, 3somes, or role play. I can forget about most of my fantasies, but the 2some with 2 women just WONT go away, I know I can't truly settle in until I at least try it. I love my wife but how can I be happy and content where I am if I have things that I just NEED to try that she wont be part of?

2007-06-15 05:10:29 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, let me make this clear first I am not wanting to date now. I would like to know what other people think is a reasonable time to start dating again. Remember I am not in a hurry I want to take care of my baby girl and get are lives straight first. ok, My boy friend of 3 years is leaving me, we have a baby girl together. After I get my life straight when is it a good time to look for someone new? How long did you wait? I ask because I don't want to be alone (without a man) my hole life.

2007-06-15 05:03:12 · 14 answers · asked by gia00601 3

We live in a small town so I see them all of the time. He is still legally married to his wife who also lives in the town. I thought that I would get joy when my kids starting hating him (He is known town-wide as a azzhole so it was a mtter of time). How long did it take you.

I know that I shouldn't hate and that I should fotgive but that is not my reality now. Even Billy Graham acknowldges that what I feel is normal. Just how long before it goes away? I have tried dating others but I feel that I am just using them.

2007-06-15 05:02:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter and her boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. I have never liked him. My daughter is way too good for him and can do much better for herself. He is 21 years old jobless, high school drop out and isn't trying to do anything to improve his life. My husband and I desperately want to see our daughter with someone who is up to her standards and can possibly make a good husband for her.

Just last night, my husband suggested that I should try sleeping with our daughter's boyfriend to prove to her that he is a no good dog. My husband says that by doing this, she will see that her boyfriend is a low life looser and she will break up with him and find someone better. Do you think this will work? Should I try sleeping with my daughter's boyfriend so that she will see that he is no good and break up with him? Help please!

2007-06-15 04:58:44 · 86 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i find a good girl for marriage in the this big world ( in all our world) do you konow a site or ..?

2007-06-15 04:52:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ONLY INTERESTED IN MENS ANSWERS....

Why would a man leave his spouse or partner during her most difficult time when she's pregnant, feels isolated, tired, ugly (some feel beautiful i did but i had a supportive husband). I run a support group for single mothers and this is our number one unanswered question. Most of them didn't even see it coming.

2007-06-15 04:47:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you dance close with another girl at the club?

2007-06-15 04:46:36 · 33 answers · asked by Dylan B 2

Why do you get upset when a married man won't leave his wife for you? Why do you believe everything a married man tells you? Why do you date a married man at all? Are you that stupid in thinking that you actually mean something to him after you sleep with him? Do you think your something special or worthy to good, honest, SINGLE man after that? I've already asked this question directed at men but I'm sure homewrecker women can come up with better excuses.

2007-06-15 04:44:54 · 14 answers · asked by EspysMom 3

if you are no longer in love with your spouse.

2007-06-15 04:42:35 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-15 04:38:51 · 12 answers · asked by brent1 2

cheat on your husband/wife? Why or why not?

2007-06-15 04:31:58 · 46 answers · asked by Ruby Tuesday 3

I have a boyfriend I have 3 kids none are his. we have been together for 3 years, Now one of the dads at my kids school is calling me consatnly texting me our kids are friends. we live near each other He always wants me and the kids over. He is so obvious the other moms notice too,. What do I do it is flattering too. I am 36 and have had no one look at me this way since I was 23. I Love my boyfriend we have been together three years. We laugh alot so why am I having thoughts? What do I do?

2007-06-15 04:28:40 · 20 answers · asked by cmcbmc1025 1

why are numbers in divorces rising???
and are celebratys to belame for the rise???

2007-06-15 04:26:05 · 24 answers · asked by JOOOOOSIE 1

I mean, i don't just ask questions because i want LOTS of responses. I ask because i want an answer, but for some I had like 70 responses and now like 10-20.

2007-06-15 04:22:20 · 23 answers · asked by erwafredsfdsfsdf 5

Just curious. I had a "no head, no wed" policy when I was dating -- I wouldn't even consider a LTR with a woman unless she was willing to meet my criteria. Before I found my wife (who met the criteria) I had dated a woman briefly who wouldn't. Ran into her recently and she gushed about how perfect we would have been together if I only didn't have this silly rule. She's still single, lonely, and bitter, considers me "the one that got away", but still hasn't mended her ways. Was I unfair to exclude her from consideration, or was it proper to stick to my guns?

2007-06-15 04:10:48 · 30 answers · asked by terry m 3

He calls me lazy and stupid sometimes, and that I act like my mother. He tells me the house should be spotless, but I'm taking care of him, our two small children and HIS three dogs. I have to clean multiple times a day to pick up the small mess my children make ( they pick up the big mess) He says hurtful things like "maybe you should just leave" or " go ahead and cheat I want you to" He is very bi polar and refuses to take medication. He comes from a broken family because his dad's family killed his mom. he is really stressed out from work, and I sort of add to the stress a little bit. When he puts me down I feel depressed and detached from my children. Other days he is good and treats me well. He has this guy friend where he works and when the friend is happy my husband is happy, when the friend is mad he takes it out on everyone including my husband and my husband brings it home.

2007-06-15 04:07:32 · 12 answers · asked by Barbie Girl 1

I still have feelings for him even after he filed for divorce. If I could just get over these feelings I 'll be free. Right now I get these strong urge to call him an I do, we get into fights. I want to get over these feelings of missing him and the hurt and anger. I just want to be free.
Also, I cannot help but feel hurt that he has forgiven his mother who caused this divorce. He says that she's his mother that's why he has forgiven her. I hate her to hell !!!

Sorry fo ranting but right now my emotional level is very very high.

2007-06-15 03:58:06 · 7 answers · asked by Centered 4

My wife has been gaining weight. And the sex is non existant. This girl is so much hotter than my wife. I am torn. What should I do?

2007-06-15 03:40:50 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-boyfriend, was horrible to me. He used to shout and swear at me, humilitate me, pressure me into doing drugs and going to things I didn't want to go to, tell me I was f.cked in the head (I've been suffering depression from childhood trauma), told lies to me about one of my friends and vice versa to weaken our relationship, told me what to think, do and how to feel, and was emotionally inept. He told me that unless we stopped arguing (i.e. I stopped agreeing with him) then we didn't have a future. And at a critical moment in my life, let me down really badly.

But, we had some good times too, mostly revolving around parties, yes, but he also did take me out to a few nice places, pampered me on my birthday and it made me so happy when I was making him happy.

Why do I miss him so much? He was never 'there' for me when I needed him, but I know in his own way he loved me. I just feel really empty without him, and want him here so badly. How do I stay strong?

2007-06-15 03:38:43 · 24 answers · asked by rollacoasta 3

I am consumed with thoughts of my ex wife.Everyday i want to talk to her,i want to hear her voice.I live 300 miles away now and its so hard.I never wanted a divorce but she just went forward with it.I feel like im stuck in the past.Its strange,all of a sudden a memorie will flash in my mind of a moment i long forgot.Little snap shots of a happier time.When this happens my heart rate jumps up and i feel a sense of panic.Is this normal.I try so hard to move on but i am stuck in the past.My heart won't let her go.I am so in love with her still.

2007-06-15 03:26:53 · 12 answers · asked by Rodger M 1

I would rather do that on his birthday or the day he went to heaven. I have to make sure my husband has a good day..

2007-06-15 03:21:07 · 18 answers · asked by Holiday 2

we always go to court since we been here closer to my husband ex

2007-06-15 03:14:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

And the signs that it may be worth trying to make it work?

2007-06-15 02:53:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous