I have a boyfriend I have 3 kids none are his. we have been together for 3 years, Now one of the dads at my kids school is calling me consatnly texting me our kids are friends. we live near each other He always wants me and the kids over. He is so obvious the other moms notice too,. What do I do it is flattering too. I am 36 and have had no one look at me this way since I was 23. I Love my boyfriend we have been together three years. We laugh alot so why am I having thoughts? What do I do?
2007-06-15 04:28:40 · 20 answers · asked by cmcbmc1025 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell this guys wife to get him off of your door step.
2007-06-15 04:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by bg4gb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you say in the headline that he's married. But you don't mention it in the body of your question. So is he? If he is, stay away! It is already obvious to the other moms that he is flirting with you. Do you want to pursue it and then be the talk of the other mothers? They will look down on you, will constantly talk about you, and will want to keep you away from their husbands.
It is apparent that you like the attention you are getting from another man. You like how he looks at you and how he makes you feel about yourself. It's a dangerous game that many men and women play. Making you feel special and wanted to see how far they can get with you.
You boyfriend sounds great. He's with you, caring for your children and he accepts you as is. You say you laugh a lot, so you have fun together. Maybe you are missing something in your relationship. That's why you are thinking about the other man so much. But don't go looking somewhere else for what you don't have at home. Look to your boyfriend, or break up before you cheat on him.
2007-06-15 11:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by torn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hint# 1: In a world with already too much non-sense why add to it. Instead try believing the age old saying; EVERYTHING THAT LOOKS, FEELS AND SOUNDS GOOD TO YOU ARE NOT ALWAYS GOOD FOR YOU. Never before has this saying been so exact as in this case.
Hint#2: He is married which means that if he is willing to cheat on his now wife he will surely cheat on his now favor of the month........you.
Hint#3: You have children and don't we all as parents pass up on selfness things in life because we know it will not be good for them.
Ahhhh finally resolution: Show this man and all the starring eyes of the moms that you are a lady, a real woman and mother to be reckoned with and as such you have principals and boundaries by very rudely telling this A$$HOLE to F-OFF!!!!!!!!
2007-06-15 12:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure the attention is exciting. Chalk it up as someone thinks your hot, Just don't act on anything you will regret later, and don't let yourself get in a situation that you can't get out of easy. Where is his wife during all this? You don't want her on your back, she could trash your name to all the other PTA mothers, what an embarrasment for your kids and parents are stupid enough to talk in front of their kids and they will say something to your kids.
You may also consider that if he is that obvious and others see it this isn't his first time out of the gate, he's left the yard before...you probably aren't the first, you won't be the last, and you may not be the only.
2007-06-15 11:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very flattering, but not worth it, he's married, and even if you start to develop these feelings, and get serious, do you think you could trust him too? He's doing something that's against his vows to his wife. He's not a good man for doing this. Just stay away from him, besides you have someone who makes you happy, and even if your relationship has it's bad, remember no relationship is perfect. Relationship needs balance, just be happy with what you have for now.
2007-06-15 11:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by justhadmybaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN! RUN! RUN!
Getting involved is going to do nothing but cause problems for you, your boyfriend, your kids and his wife and kids and interfere with their school. It would be best to end it now before all is lost and damaged. No good can ever come from being involved with a cheating man! Stand up for your kids and your self respect and walk away!
2007-06-15 11:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by micky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must have pretty shallow love for your boyfriend if you are considering getting involved with this other dad. It is nice to be flattered, but I'd say that you are both playing with fire. Unless you are willing to take on the consequences of cheating on your boyfriend, I'd cool it.
2007-06-15 11:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you fall out of a tree lately and hit your head? You may have a bf which you owe him to be honest with.. YOU aren't married, this man hitting on you is!! which means he is not available. Gee why is everyone always asking these stupid questions about married men/women? And think of your kids.
2007-06-15 11:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c you're not married.
You are still "on the market" if you will.
I would sit down and seriously think about where your current relationship is going. If you are happy and in love then stay and work on it. If you're not, then possibly explore a new relationship with the new guy.
You owe it to your current b/f to seriously examine all your feelings and thoughts first.
2007-06-15 11:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away. You have kids, you need to set a good example for them. Tell him to go flirt with his wife next time he starts to hit on you.
2007-06-15 11:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by urstruly8604 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋