if you are no longer in love with your spouse.
2007-06-15 04:42:35 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Did your marriage vows say, "til death do us part?" or "til I'm not feeling it anymore?" Marriage takes work. You are looking for an excuse to cheat. You can fall back in love with each other if you work at it, but not while your out seeing somebody else. But based on my experience, I guess you have to do what you have to do to be happy.
2007-06-15 04:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by is "it" cheating? If you mean "it" as being the fact that you are not in love with your spouse, then no. That is not cheating. If you are asking whether or not it is cheating to have sex with someone outside your marriage because you no longer love your spouse, then YES. That IS cheating. Either way, it sounds like the person in question could use some marriage counseling before they do something rash that they'll regret.
2007-06-15 04:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about your spouse? How would you feel with the shoe on the other foot? Do you think it is cheating now? If you do not love her anymore, then you need to move on, especially if you are planning/wanting to cheat on her. She needs to know so she can get rid of you and find someone who will respect her because if you did you would not have even thought of asking such a question.
2007-06-15 04:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by heather c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and cheating is two different things,and if you no longer love your spouse,you must go to them and be open and honest,and i will be the first one to tell you that adultry is the only reason for divorse in Gods word,abuse is another reason,but in this case i feel as if you are bored with the marriage and just want out,so ask God what to do Rev.Karen
2007-06-15 04:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You signed a legal document to be faithful to each other. Cheating can be used against you if you have not filed for or are in the process of Divorce. I would suggest you Divorce your spouse and then it won't be cheating. It will be more like getting on with your life and doing it respectfully to yourself and those around you.
2007-06-15 04:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Christopher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself: Why am I no longer in love with them? Was it them that did something wrong, or I myself? What can we do together to work things out? It is not necessarily cheating to not be in love anymore, cheating is when you drift to someone else because you are no longer in love. As long as you are only thinking this in your mind, and not doing actions that show it, you are not cheating. But- you are going to want to do something about this problem in love, or you might never be happy again.
2007-06-15 04:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by miranduh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always cheating. If you don't love your spouse you should get a divorce. Then you will be free to do whatever you want with whoever you want.
2007-06-15 04:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kris H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are simply not in love with your spouse it is not cheating. If you are in another relationship out side the marriage , it is cheating.
2007-06-15 04:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by lori s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Key word... Spouse.. and love is a choice, so you choose not to be in love with them.. so why don't you choose to get a divorce and give them the peace they deserve too?
Yea, if you cheat on your spouse, your a loser
2007-06-15 04:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by Vindicatedfather 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its cheating if you are still in the relationship. It is not cheating if your spouse knows and is ok with it.
2007-06-15 04:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋