cheat on your husband/wife? Why or why not?
2007-06-15 04:31:58 · 46 answers · asked by Ruby Tuesday 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would not. I take my marital vows COMPLETELY seriously when it says to forsake all others.
2007-06-15 04:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there isn't a need. My husband is a good guy (far from perfect) but I'd leave before I'd cheat. We have an agreement. If our marriage breaks up because of infidelity, the person caught cheating gets stuck with ALL the bills and NONE of the goods, not the house, not the business, nothing! Even if I wanted to cheat, that would be enough to keep me honest!
2007-06-15 04:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to think not, but I can't say for sure. If things went bad and he cheated, I probably would out of revenge and hurt.
I don't see cheating as a deal breaker. A lot of marriages have survived an affair.
I just hope that it either never comes to that or that we can work through it if it does.
2007-06-15 04:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I have no intentions of cheating on my husband; I can't say for certain that I never would. I can only hope that I would be strong enough to resist the temptation, should there ever be any, but you just never know. Things happen.....Situations occur.....
2007-06-15 04:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never...
I've been cheated on in the past and it hurts like hell when you get your heart ripped out by someone who you thought loved you as much as you loved them and then you find out otherwise and get the rug pulled from underneath you too..its like you've fallen and you're in excruciating pain and you cant get up.
I would never do such a thing to my guy. It's not right, not fair,not acceptable. if I've decided with anyone..."i wanna be with you"... then I will stick around unless my better half gives me reason not to.
That's just me... and besides..the guy I'm with is absolutely wonderful...if this works out I will never want to be with anyone else or look at anyone else... ever again.. :)
2007-06-15 04:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by cnn360coffeebubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to cheat on your spouse, why be in the relationship? If you leave then you can go after anyone you want openly. All the creeping around is too stressful to actually enjoy the other person
2007-06-15 04:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok......yes.
Feeling totally alone in my marriage, ignored, he never gave me sex.
I had a long term affair that my husband never knew about.
I decided I needed to either work on my marriage or leave my husband....and that cheating to try and ignore the problems was not the answer.
I broke off all contact with my lover...and deleted his number. It has been difficult with my husband, but I believe we are getting on better now and I no longer think about divorce everyday.
to add.....ok only 3 admitted to infidelity......REALLY?
2007-06-15 05:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did cheat on my husband and more than once. Do I regret it? Not really. He ignored me when I told him I needed sex. Our sex life has always been rotten. I hated being near him because when we would do it he always made me feel cheap. I never felt bad about cheating on him which made me realize that I needed to leave him, which I did.
2007-06-15 04:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. For many reasons: 1) it would break his heart and I love him too much to ever hurt him that way, 2) it would destroy any trust he felt for me, 3) it would break the sacred promise I made to GOD to always be faithful to my husband, and 4) it's just TACKY, low-class, and disrespectful. Put aside all the ways cheating hurts your partner and what do you have? It's still an act of betrayal and it's treating your partner worse than you'd ever treat a FRIEND! It's a horrible thing to do and VERY COWARDLY in my opinion. It's a way men and women can have their cake and eat it too....they want the comfort of staying in their marriage/r'ship yet want to be able to have other r'ships too. It's SELFISH.
2007-06-15 04:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't cheat because it's no happy ending to that story...that's a sure way to screw my life up. Plus, if I'm so unhappy in my marriage Divorce would be better off for me. Plus my salvation means more to me than anything hurtful any man can make me feel.
2007-06-15 04:36:15 · answer #10 · answered by All the way live! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER.
If things are so bad that I feel the need to cheat, then maybe I need to take steps to fix that problem. If that doesn't work, then it is time to get a divorce. Cheating is wrong on so many levels. Even if you don't factor in honesty and morals, you risk bringing home a disease into your family or having to deal with an unwanted and out-of-wedlock pregnancy that could rip your family apart. It is very foolish.
2007-06-15 04:35:46 · answer #11 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋