Marriage & Divorce - 14 June 2007

2007-06-14 23:51:26 · 24 answers · asked by Uncle G 1

Okay so i parked round the corner rather than infront of my fiances house because i fancied a change, nothing more or less. and it is a cul de sac so id have to have turned around.

He gets in and calls me a psycho. we drive for a bit and he starts analysing why i parked there, calling me a psycho and wanting to refer me to a counselor. what do you think? He WAS serious btw I nearly made him get out he wo shouting so much.

2007-06-14 23:37:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it morally correct to admit to having an affair (regretted) before embarking on marriage with the person you betrayed. Would it help, or is it just being selfish and getting rid of the guilt felt?

2007-06-14 23:22:28 · 37 answers · asked by maz0706 1

Is there any chances of a woman's getting diverted to somebody else when her husband does not have a good job, earns a meagre salary, and does not take effort to get a better job especially when his wife earning better than him and often when he lies about money matters, borrowing money spending lavishly taking money from her purse/A/c without her knowledge. Gets angry for silly things and beats her without any control when he gets angry and abuses her sometimes stating her as a characterless woman etc. And if at all her mind gets diverted what is wrong in it. Especially when she is advised by her family not to divorce . Tho the man happens to be little affectionate towards her won't all the above contribute to her divertion of mind. Inspite of her encouraging and taking efforts to find a better job.

2007-06-14 23:16:50 · 14 answers · asked by janu 1

A married woman very hot usually stares at me when no body is around and that time i couldn't help my self out but avoid doing anything and so does she sometimes i feel she is very caring and some times i feel she is hot

2007-06-14 23:09:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

1st of all my husband is already insecure.... if i told him that i kissed someone else he will automatically assume that i don't want to be with him.. I don't have his trust as it is. yes, i love my husband with all my heart. i'm 20, i was a virgin until i met him and now i'm curious about other people.. i never been out with anyone else.. and now i feel as if i've made a mistake.. not by marrying but by being so reserved.. he's< 23> and had his fun and slept with more people than a little... what do i do?

2007-06-14 21:19:45 · 20 answers · asked by cyuenvj87 2

Before marriage and then after marriage?

2007-06-14 21:14:06 · 25 answers · asked by Guy 1

I have been married now for over 20 yrs but 12 yrs ago, I met a single guy at wrk 7 yrs my junior. The chemistry was instant. I then moved to another country, although maintaining occasional contact via email. He has subsequently married, divorced and remarried and says he is happy. Says he loves me too. He came to visit my husband and I with his current wife recently, and it was lovely to have him. When I entered the room, his face lit up and we laughed constantly, he would seek me out and we talked all the time, yet he says he is happily married. I wonder if there will ever be a future for us. My children have grown up and he has yet to have any. His wife is from a different culture and does not get him at all. I love him and have said I would be prepared to marry him, if only he would ask. Question is, will he? Eventually? We have not had a sexual relationship, and I have told him I will not have one with him until we are married. Guys - interested in yr feedback

2007-06-14 21:05:06 · 7 answers · asked by Max2007 2

I found out, he got 2 girl pregnant a the same time still having an affair w/ ex GF abroad. Since then we've been civil w/ each other, i only stay for the kids. I found out too that he's planning to file for annulment but then lately, he started acting differently, he's been kind and sweet to me, now that i'm ready to have my own life coz i have moved on. Do you think there still hope for us to reconcile and continue our marriage despite what had happened?

2007-06-14 20:39:22 · 12 answers · asked by Daneelle 1

Iam married for 8 months and she has been abroad for some time.The thing is that she dresess up in jeans and t shirts most of the time at a place where no one even wears a thing like that.I want to tell her to wear something traditional without hurting her.My relatives r also disgusted at it .Any ideas

2007-06-14 19:54:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

It just seems like she is not open to try new things. If I mention having sex anywhere but the bedroom she thinks I am crazy. Before we were married we would have sex 3-4 times a day and everywhere...the beach, the movies, the park. Now we have a 3 yearold son and her sex drive is GONE. Please help me ladies tell me your thoughts.

2007-06-14 19:36:18 · 16 answers · asked by GunXXX 2

Im married and have a child but i have never ever had an orgasm. Please help.

2007-06-14 19:29:11 · 11 answers · asked by Chickenlicken 1

I've been married for 19 years, we used to lead a marriage bible study to help other couples. I'm sadden that we have helped others and they use their tools to work on their marriages, yet my husband won't use the tools we encourage others to use. I stepped down from the class and am heartbroken that my husband won't go to counseling. We go through this cycle it seems like every 6 months or so, but I have gotten to the point of complete exhaustion of the up and down roller coaster ride with him. I really would love for some help on how to continue in the marriage basically living single lives minus the infidelity.

2007-06-14 19:23:23 · 10 answers · asked by Blue E 1

My husband and I are going through a very hard time right now. I am moving out and we are most deffinitly filing for a divorce. But he keeps trying to kiss me and hug up on me. I go stiff when he does that- you see i was sexually abused by my ex and also by 2 close friends. He knows these things, and yet he still wont back off from me when i go stiff and cold. I have told him i dont like it and that i am uncomfartable. The worst is when he pins me and almost has this "im gonna make you love me" hold on me and starts kissing me (eventhough i dont open my mouth). Things are very shacky with us right now. We could not talk all day or he could be in a sh*t and then when he feel like it he will be "affectionate"- what do i do?

2007-06-14 19:22:41 · 6 answers · asked by Sun of the Dark 1

he hurts me by saying many harsh words like he complains that i waste too much water in washing the dishes by saying you are so stupid. married 4 years, i never love him,no kid. he never respects me,never one word of admiration. we married from internet,and he lied to me about his age,he is 56 and said that 46,but i still married him because i thought of the best. but i really cannot stand any more.

2007-06-14 19:18:17 · 11 answers · asked by Carol H 3

First if this is too explicit for you do not both answering...I'm Assuming all the kids are asleep..if not it's the parents to blame

I want to do something different for my man.

1) where do you like a girl to keep her lips (mouth) on the tip head or taking it all in.

2) do you like it when a girl kiss and licks you around your butt area

3) do you like it if she puts your b*alls(n*uts) in her mouth

I"M SERIOUS NO JOKES GUYS

when a girl is on top, you want her to bounce just a quarter (1/4) length, more of a tease or her atking all of you in her.

OR maybe tell me What you really enjoy..MAYBE i can do this to my b/friend...I need good and real things about when men like to be done to them during S*ex..

2007-06-14 19:15:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

How to fix this I got married at 18 and met my husband at 17 he is 8 years older then me . I kinda feel like as I am growing up more i don't like him and i actually see how immature and stupid he is . He does some really dumb things for being a 30 year old man . I know I love him but I fill like I am not fully in love with him anymore . Is this just cause i am growing up or is this something normal that happens in marriage ?

2007-06-14 19:09:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

sweating all over each other?

2007-06-14 18:47:32 · 16 answers · asked by LoveSlave 2

2007-06-14 18:42:03 · 30 answers · asked by JustWondering 1

I am going through a divorce, and my wife won't let me go. I love her so much, but she keeps cheating on me. so I left her after 8 months of marriage. I want to move on but she keeps calling me and telling me she wants me so I always jump to be with her I love her so but it just leads to more pain. how can I get over her..

2007-06-14 18:33:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have three step kids and because of what there mother say's to them on the phone and that she refuses to see them the oldest son will not talk to her anymore she lives and CA and we live in TX. she really say's a lot of mean things to them and lies all the time and they know it and don't even want anything to do with her anymore really. what do i do she calls everyday even when she talks to one or two of them she will still call twenty to thirty times a day. do i force them or just let the judge tell her at court in a couple months.

2007-06-14 18:02:08 · 13 answers · asked by sunshine 2

(assuming you're both attracted and get along well)

2007-06-14 17:58:02 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went into my husbands email account and saw and email labeled: open it immediately

It was from some person--you couldn't point out if it was a male or a female because the email address only had there first initials and last name;however the email read: my hero

It looked like it had an attachment. I tried to open the attachment and the computer said that it contained a virus. I don't know if that was really an attachment, but I tried to open it and couldn't. This has made me very suspicious. The subject line being open it immediately makes me wonder if this is a girl who knows that I have his email account password and was trying to send him a quick message. And the my hero part is really scary. You can imagine what I am thinking. Any advice. What would you think from this. How can I know if he is cheating from this?

2007-06-14 17:47:51 · 34 answers · asked by Mez 2

I know there are many good people out there. And you...the one reading this...you are part of the group. I hope all of you have a good night. I read a question from a friend, and it made me feel so good inside, I wanted to pass on the happiness and peace. I know not a lot of people find it easy to share the goodness in their heart. But please do one thing...for society and eachother...pass on a blessing. Tell somebody good news, make a card for somebody across the street, or write an old friend a note and send it in their mail. If everybody spreads happiness and peace, then we will live in a better world. So what do you say?

-Azooga-

2007-06-14 17:39:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend of mine filed for divorce in Kansas and moved to Iowa with her son 9 yrs old(boy)!Father cheated and is involved with someone in TX,but during the separation and selling of the house (still not sold),basically wanted nothing to do with the child.After everything on paper was put in front of him decided that the child needed to be located in the state that he resides in(Kansas).What would provent her from moving away to another state,better job 80K,brand new house,250K?What can stop her?

2007-06-14 17:37:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are your thoughts about this situation - the husband feels that their sex life should be better & wanted the friend to talk to the wife to get her to do more in bed. The best friend (female) even had the audacity to talk to the wife about it. How can the two be that comfortable to discuss this topic...

2007-06-14 17:28:00 · 17 answers · asked by cd9192 1

So here's the thing. I'm a heterosexual guy. I like women and I've recently started getting into much better physical condition, which has caused me to start getting out more and becoming more active. I'm a married guy. I have 2 absolutely beautiful children. I would do anything in the world for them. My wife (I call her that though we are not married) is a great mother and loves me very much. I love her back with all my heart and could never leave her for anything ever. We're happy (sort of - our financial situation could be better) and we get along emotionally, BUT, we don't DO ANY of the same things. We don't go out together, we don't have any commonalities with regards to the activities we enjoy. So here's the problem. I really like having female companionship in the things I like to do (like climbing, hiking, camping, sports of many different kinds, movies, etc.), so, even though I don't want to "cheat" with another girl I find myself compelled to do so. What should I do?

2007-06-14 17:26:06 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2

I have twins that r 2 and their dad is pushing the issue for my now husband to adopt them in which due time he will but my question is that courts go by his income and other child support and he has 5 kids total that he was paying for and now 1 has had a kid and dropped out of school and he no longer has to pay for him will he have to split that money between the other four kids i would not push the issue but he has been bragging about how much money he has to blow now and gripeing bout the others

2007-06-14 17:09:40 · 8 answers · asked by michelle l 2

i am married, nothing is wrong with my husband..BUT suddenly one man came into my life which made me fall....Ive tried many times to avoid this guy but my heart cannot. I still love my husband but I cannot stop myself too from falling inlove with this guy..pls help!

2007-06-14 17:06:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

because their husbands "became paralysed from the waist down"...and according to the Roman Catholic Religion, you are suppose to be "fruitful and multiply"....in other words to have children and both men were NOT able to produce children...due to the paralization...anyway, they were both able to obtain 'ANNULMENTS..."...this is the truth...what is your take on that???? plus the women were unable to care for their husbands anyway...

2007-06-14 16:43:04 · 8 answers · asked by sweet 4