2007-06-14 23:51:26 · 24 answers · asked by Uncle G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Am ready to take care of the baby, and more over It wasn't a one night stand. I was in love with her then. I ve a girl friend beside the one am talking about. I even intend to marry her.
2007-06-15 00:16:14 · update #1
Get ready to pay child support for about 21 years. Im pretty sure that a condom woulda cost less.
2007-06-14 23:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by Paul F 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Look back in questions and you'll see that 90% of the women would not even CONSIDER marrying a man simple because he impregnated her.
Get ready to pay child support because the woman couldn't take responsibility for making sure she didn't get pregnant.
It does take people to make a baby and the women need to take reponsibility for their bodies rather than putting it all on the man for not wearing a condom.
2007-06-15 00:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Red 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least do the right thing and be a father to your son or daughter. Regardless of how you feel about this woman, she is now the mother of your child and that gives you a tie to her for the rest of your, her and your child's life.
By all means, don't marry her if you do not love her. That's not fair to anyone involved. But at least take responsibility for the child you are bringing into this world.
Expect to be paying child support until the child is either 18 or 21 depending on what state you live in. And next time wear a condom.
2007-06-15 00:11:08 · answer #3 · answered by Randy M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this day and age not many ppl get married so doesnt matter any way but stand by her through it all be a friend if nothing else make sure the baby wants for nothing and that you help this woman as she will be doing most the hard work on her own.
are you in a relasionship or not if so marrige doesnt matter but if you had no intension being with her any way then best thing to do is show her you are willing to be part of both their lives.
2007-06-14 23:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by MARIE B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you like it or not you have a responsibility to the little one until he/or she leaves full time education but you have a moral responsibility far beyond that. So get a grip on yourself and start by being honest with those you have let down and don't think it is going to be easy or anyone is going to fall over you with gratitude. So what are you a man or a s--t
2007-06-15 03:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Scouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your choice of the word impregnate suggests a lot about how you feel about her.
Simple fact is 'cause and effect' .. you have got the lady pregnant and now you have to deal with the effects. Unless she chooses to shut you out - heres hoping - you will be responsible for the maintenance for a very, very long time.
As you should be.
2007-06-15 00:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about that, before you got her pregnant, but of course another stupid, stupid guy that was just thinking of that 10 minute high.
DO NOT MARRY HER! You obviously don't love her and she should already know that. What, she doesn't know. Did you make her think that you love her, just so you could have sex?
You wrote that you impregnanted a woman.
WHAT WOMAN? DO YOU EVEN KNOW HER? IS SHE YOUR GIRLFRIEND? HAVE YOU BEEN DATING? DID YOU JUST MEET LASTNIGHT?
Get it together buddy. You got yourself into it, now you take on your responsibilities!
2007-06-15 00:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the way I see it you have two choices:
1. Stand by the lady and be a good father to the child.....Or....
2. Get ready to pay monthly child support for the next 18 plus years.
2007-06-15 00:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her asap, so that she can make an educated choice as to whether or not she wants to go through with the pregnancy. Many women, that is women who can't do it on their own, can't adopt and who have morals, will not raise a fatherless child and would choose to abort.
2007-06-15 00:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by qwertatious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a very low person morally and also a person of low intelligence. You should get a vasectomy before you make yourself unemployable for life, in view of the child support. You have screwed your life and as the other person says, you cannot unscrew it, I think that you may wish to emigrate very fast.
2007-06-14 23:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋