he hurts me by saying many harsh words like he complains that i waste too much water in washing the dishes by saying you are so stupid. married 4 years, i never love him,no kid. he never respects me,never one word of admiration. we married from internet,and he lied to me about his age,he is 56 and said that 46,but i still married him because i thought of the best. but i really cannot stand any more.
2007-06-14 19:18:17 · 11 answers · asked by Carol H 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is good that you are voicing this out, aware of the situation. The answer is obvious, as everyone here has put it across to you.
If you still cannot make the decision, find some calmness, go to somewhere that suits your spirituality, eg church or nature, find peace, pray. believe and make up your mind in the calmness.
Whatever the decision to be made or even if you decide not to make, oneself holds the consequence.
May you find what you're looking for in true happiness.
2007-06-14 20:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even after meeting him over the Internet, you should have taken some time to really know him once you two met. Now that you are married, you need to sit and talk about what you want from the marriage and let him know that if you can't see these things happening, that it may not work. If he wants you, he'll listen. Let him know that the marriage started out with lying, (his age for instance), and you don't want to keep it going based on lies (your being unhappy).
2007-06-14 19:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have admitted your mistake and how you feel. Put some action into ending this joke of a relationship. He is an abuser and neither of you will be happy. Find a way to move out or ask him to leave. Get a lawyer to assist you out of this pain and misery. Best of luck to you!! If he hits you, call 911 immediately so you will get help and a record of his actions toward you.
2007-06-14 19:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by whrldpz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to go to therapy with you. If you EVER feel afraid of your safety call the cops and they can get you some help. You shouldn't have married him so quickly. Leave him.. As difficult as it may be you have to.. You're wasting your life on him.. Do it before you get pregnant.
2007-06-14 19:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you even marry him if you never loved him. You need to get a divorce and find someone who appreciates you!
2007-06-14 19:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him! And take some self help courses. You need to find some self worth so you do not feel you have to settle for such an imperfect union.
2007-06-14 19:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE...abuse will never make for a happy marriage
2007-06-14 19:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by sylvery_fae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for a divorce..you don't derserve that..Hope you have learned not to look for men online..
2007-06-14 19:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its to bad that your marriage isnt working out,i think your main problem is not having a baby!
2007-06-14 20:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get THE HELL OUT NOW!!!! Before you end up pregnant! I mean NOW GET OUT NOW!!!!
2007-06-14 20:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by buffster06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋