Marriage & Divorce - 14 June 2007

All the time?

2007-06-14 11:40:30 · 25 answers · asked by TBECK 4

Wife has refused counseling but comes up with same lame excuses every time any advances are made. I consider myself still virile and women still smile at me in stores and at shopping malls. I've never cheated but I think I would given the circumstances.

2007-06-14 11:24:53 · 16 answers · asked by salty68dawg 2

he doesn't clear it up properly, so she has to. I reckon it's out of order. what do you think, and what should she do. (divorce is out of the question-yet)

2007-06-14 11:16:12 · 16 answers · asked by noches 1

At a family party 8 months ago my brother in-law and i had s*ex. We were really drank. We have been taking shots.So he and i went for a walk outside and somehow ended up having S*ex. Since then we have been sneaking and having it for 8 months.

He is so much better in Bed than my husband. he is even much larger than my husband. I know i'm a S*lut,B*itch, w*hore, fool, idiot ..whatever you can call me but it is happening. How can i stop sleeping with my brother law-in(it's the best s*ex i have ver had)

We both want to stop but every time we meet to talk and end this madness we just end up having more S*ex. My brother in-law knows my husband will kill him so he is also very scared of his brother but can't stop.

2007-06-14 11:11:26 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

thank you to all of you i got 55 answers , i ask this Q, last nite and i cant sleep the whole nite still i cant decide, what to do, now its morning (good morning to all) tonite is my promise ,i want to add more information , my bf is not happy with his wife any more , so he said , he will divorce his wife and he will marry me , and i said no, i said no coz i dont want that his family will cry ,thats why i avoid little by little coz h hurts so much , we are in this relation for more than 10 yrs from now , i spend my love life like this , always hiding in daytime, and because of ur answers , i will end this relation but maybe i have to give him a remembrance , like what hog rock said later ill end i dont want to kill him in his birthday coz he is 55 yrs old already nowand im 40 yrs old , i meet his wife in phone , i meet his mom , his 3 yrs old grand daugther in real , he wants to buy house for me , but i dont want house , coz i dont want to ruin his family, i want his love

2007-06-14 10:59:45 · 9 answers · asked by carmelite 2

and then break wind


It's acceptable for a man to do it but not a woman?

This seems unfair

2007-06-14 10:49:55 · 11 answers · asked by banjaxed 6

he isn't a slob, by far, however its the little things. Im eight months pregnant and lately i've been keeping things really clean, i just cleaned house top to bottem and i've been keeping it that way.

he has always complained about little things, like me leaving my make up on the counter, or a bra on the floor, putting a new roll of toilet paper on the counter instead of where it goes on the roll. since ive been keeping things really clean (which came out of nowhere these last two weeks) ive noticed that he does everything he complains about! i've been doing his dishes, picking up his work clothes off the ground, putting up his shaving stuff and 3 times ive caught him leaving the roll of toilet paper on the counter. :) when i bring it up, he denies it, so how do i get him to fess up and clean up??

2007-06-14 10:34:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have . because i wasnt happy and yes i would do it again.

2007-06-14 10:25:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this is wrong.The Gynecologist is not married and no kids. He is very hot.I know what you are thinking(what if he is sleeping with other patients but i don't think so because i have access to his homes, money as in all his accounts).

yes i'm married and i have been for 6 years now. I only saw this guy i'm sleeping with once as my doctor and i changed doctors because i fell for him. We waited 18 months before we started dating.

I know i was wrong but my husband was not taking care of me at home.. He(husband) gained so much weight that he could not have s*e*x anymore. My husband and i stopped having sex 2 years after our marriage because of weight gain. whenever i cooked healthy foods. he picked up the phone and ordered pizza. I talked to my husband about our sex life and his reply was "if you want sex, go get it where you can find". he didn't care. My husband does not work bcos of his weight.I had not had sex for 4 years when i started sleeping with the OB/GYN.

2007-06-14 10:19:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have slept in separate bedrooms for seven years. We have have sex only 11 or 12 times in that seven years. The last time was two years ago. He hasn't held my hand in eight years, said "I love you" in seven years, or hugged me in seven years. I was so lonely and starving for affection that I slept with my best guy friend. My husband had the audacity to call me a "sl*t".
We have spoken about getting divorced for the past year, but neither of us has seen a lawyer. He doesn't want one because he's afraid of losing our daughter, plus he's Catholic. I told him adultery (mine) would allow him to continue receiving Communion. We still live in the same house, separate bedrooms, as we have for the past seven years. Why would he want to stay married, knowing I am lonely and unhappy, after not having touched me in seven years?
In my mind, this is not normal...he isn't gay, and he isn't seeing anyone else.
What should I do?

2007-06-14 10:10:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-14 10:05:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I got married at an early age 19 almost 20 and my wife was 25. We've been married for 4 years now, but it has been really hard. She is a great woman and is completely loyal, loving and hard working, but she is constantly treating me as though she is the "boss" and has to keep tabs on me. She is very clingy and doesn't have very many friends. Because of this I feel suffocated and am not allowed to hang out with the guys or have some "me" time. I love her but I constantly think about being single and enjoying my early years. I just like space and freedom. It's very hard to cut the ties. I moved out 2 times already, she knows the 3rd time is it, but she still pushes the buttons and limits. If I could just settle down things might work, but I can't control my wants and desires for fun, guy time,freedom. I always loved getting to know new people as friends. I always got along really well with woman, but being married cuts that all out. I just want to make the right choice.

2007-06-14 10:03:09 · 15 answers · asked by 1life 1

Neither of us get along with my husbands family. Every day there is a fight, and hubby has said he doesnt want to see them except for big functions and holidays. And even then, he says we will spend very little time there.
His uncles are all coming into town next week, and guess what? His thoughts changed. Now he wants to go over there and stay most of the night. We have an 8 month old baby that would be going, and my inlaws cant be trusted to care for her, so its all on us. Her bedtime is 7:30, and he wants to stay till 1am?
Now he's turning it around on me, saying that I just never want to do anything, and that I just wont deal with anything that isnt about me?!? (I do nothing for myself, ever!)
How do I get him to realize that he's falling back into his family's tricks?
If I cant do that, how can I deal with him?
By the way, I have to go and I have to bring the baby. If not I get my drunken father in law calling me and telling me what a horrible mom I am.

2007-06-14 10:02:49 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4

She leaves me for a coworker 8 months ago only saying I need my space and I will always love you but not in love with you. 16 year relationship three kids. She is in her car with her new lover yesterday and he is driving. They had a car pull into them and she yelled my name not his. She told me this last night on the phone when talking about our kids. She thought it was funny. Why did she yell my name????

2007-06-14 10:01:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

no details.

2007-06-14 10:00:27 · 8 answers · asked by buddyhowerin 1

My husband and I are now legally separated and we have 4 year old twins together. The reason we split is b/c he has a drug problem and is now in rehab. I am really angry at him and hurt for detroying our marriage, etc...BUT, I am wondering if I should buy a father's day card for my twins and let them send it to him?

2007-06-14 09:59:07 · 25 answers · asked by giantzfanjen 1

2007-06-14 09:56:51 · 23 answers · asked by Curious1 1

I don't know how to be a wife. I leave messes all the time, and I find myself pms-ing all the time. I'm afraid my husband is going to get sick of me sooner or later. What can I do besides the obvious (cleaning more and taking midol) to make my husband happy?

2007-06-14 09:46:50 · 41 answers · asked by sdgirljen 3

First, Please don't reply with "just get out there and meet someone". That's simplistic and won't help me.

I was dumped by my long term G/F last winter. It was devastating and has really tested my faith in almost everything. I've worked very hard to restore myself on my own. I've got faith in myself and I do look forward to a lot of good things that are and will happen in my life.

However, I get very lonely, especially when I have free time. I'm still not ready for a realtionship becasue I still can't imagine anybody but my ex g/f. Also I'm not exactly a looker and because I've had to start all over, I don't have a lot of free cash to spend on a woman.

I'm trying really hard to not blame all of this on my ex and I'm hanging on tight to my dignity and feel like I'm just fine all on my own for now.

What do a I do when it's just me and I'm lonely?

2007-06-14 09:43:01 · 19 answers · asked by ∞ sky3000 ∞ 5

My husband and I married in '98 divorced in '99 & reconciled 6 months later.We got RE-married last year & I wish I'd never done it.I just found out that he's been talking to another woman on the phn anywhere from 5-10 times/day.He's also text messaging her, but absolutely swears they're just friends.I tell him this is not normal & not acceptable for a married man,but he refuses to end all contact w/her.We have 2 little boys and I am miserable in my marriage.He also likes to drink.He used to go out AT LEAST once a week & come home drunk anywhere from 2to8 am (did that a couple times).I told him about a month ago that I was leaving, but haven't been able to find an apt yet so am still there.Since then he hasn't gone out much & hasn't come home drunk,but is still talking to this woman.She supposedly has a boyfriend of 8 years, but they don't live together&aren't married.He's cheated b/f(that's y we divorced)and I can't trust him.Should i leave?Don't want to hurt our kids, but can't stay.

2007-06-14 09:29:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-14 09:13:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mum just wanted me out of the house so that her kurdish boyfriend colud move ın.my dad had a braın hemorage nearly 12years ago now parents seperated after that happened ım 21 now my mum does not have any contact wıth me now my brothers 14 stıll lives wıth my mum he has some contact wıth me my dad has had 24 care a day for the past 5years now he ıs un able to make a conversatıon my mums boyfriend ıs alot younger than my mum she has not surported me ın any thıng or wanted to make much contact sınce marriage should ı make fırst move and call her?

2007-06-14 09:13:47 · 19 answers · asked by pinkktten 1

2007-06-14 09:10:58 · 2 answers · asked by zOe 1

My husband has relapsed after almost 10 years of sobriety. When I thought back to his relapse, I realized that it was shortly after I had gone out with friends to a football game and had drinks. (I don't drink at home). Is this my fault? Do I have to live completely alcohol free? He always told me that it does not bother him, but I think maybe he was lying. I never drank during the first few years of his sobriety, but I guess I thought after this long it was ok. Any advice?

2007-06-14 09:10:16 · 21 answers · asked by cookie 2

Not the typical "he left me, I still love him - can I get him back" question...

We've been together for a year and a half, and I'm nearing 30, and wanted to get married... one night last week I started feeling anxious and told him that if he wasn't ready to marry me I was going to break up with him. It was a fleeting feeling and immediately after I said it I felt bad (because we'd already agreed to talk about marriage once we'd been together for 2 years) He said he wasn't ready yet, so I went to a hotel the next day, saying I couldn't wait.

I didn't really want to leave him, and I called him that within hours of leaving. I asked to come home and apologized for giving him an ultimatum. He took me back, but has since been distant, unsure of his feelings and said he doesn't know if it will work out. He wants to spend a week apart to get some space. I'm ok with that, but I want to show him I still love him and that he can trust me again. How can I regain his confidence?

2007-06-14 09:09:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am married and love a married man. He says he loves me very much and cant live without me. he is 42 years old and has also a kid. I am 29 years old and have 2 kids. But at the same time he does nothing to leave her wife inspite of fact that i am ready for divorcing any time. But every time i am asking the question abouy your future he biases from the question and tries to convince me with beautiful words that he really loves me. He cant live her because her wife is respectable woman with good career opportunites and she is 35 years old. What shall i do? i love him so much. we are together secretly about 6 months.

2007-06-14 09:07:44 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been married 12 years and want to have a nice romantic evening looking for some new and fun ideas.

2007-06-14 09:02:48 · 12 answers · asked by G O 5

I got on a question today and couldn't beleive other people had ex-wifes' almost like mine I am taking " It " ( as I refer to her in private back to court for custody ) We went to the temporary hearing and I got custody of my 13 year old. I am still trying to get my 7 year old and have had my 16 year old from the start. Have any of you had luck with this and what can you tell me that will help. I don't want to keep her from my boys' but she will not compromise and it's tearing up my 7 year old and myself. I don't understand why she is so concerned about trying to make me continue to pay her child support. I always paid it and am current. But in the temporary hearing the judge ordered that I no longer pay her anything. I saw her in the hall and she was balling. At the time I thought she was afraid of losing custody of our 7 year old. But when I offered to split custody and possesion 50/50 she said hell no so I now have to fight for full custody which will limit her time if not for the$

2007-06-14 09:01:53 · 4 answers · asked by Big Deall 4

So I got my girlfriend pregnant and now she wants me to marry her just for the kid, but I dont wanna so she says she will get me in jail til I agree...can she do this?

2007-06-14 08:58:42 · 21 answers · asked by JT 1

2007-06-14 08:54:14 · 12 answers · asked by Yury B 1