At a family party 8 months ago my brother in-law and i had s*ex. We were really drank. We have been taking shots.So he and i went for a walk outside and somehow ended up having S*ex. Since then we have been sneaking and having it for 8 months.
He is so much better in Bed than my husband. he is even much larger than my husband. I know i'm a S*lut,B*itch, w*hore, fool, idiot ..whatever you can call me but it is happening. How can i stop sleeping with my brother law-in(it's the best s*ex i have ver had)
We both want to stop but every time we meet to talk and end this madness we just end up having more S*ex. My brother in-law knows my husband will kill him so he is also very scared of his brother but can't stop.
2007-06-14 11:11:26 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you do realize that this could be the end of family as you know it? what's wrong with you???
2007-06-14 11:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The drinking just gave you the excuse to do what you have been fantasizing about. The sex is sooo good because its wrong. You can't stop sleeping with the brother-in-law because you have not got caught. Every time you meet to try and end this, is a formal excuse for another sexual encounter. Your brother-in-law apparently has a death wish, and you must be a macaques with low morals. You are going to hurt "everyone" in this situation of sin. The pleasure you are enjoying, will be nothing compared to the wrath that will soon come down on you. "Blood being thicker than water", means your brother-in-law will eventually be forgiven and you will be the "Scarlet Letter" wearer of every story told concerning this situation. "What goes around in life, comes around too"! You can bank on this. And at the end when its your time to go and face God on judgement day,. . .can you say "hell". Get smart Girl! You have a small window of opportunity to right a wrong. Don't let this pass you by.
2007-06-14 11:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOu need to come clean. BUT, before you do that, you need to sit down and REALLY think about this. What were/are you feelings for your husband? Obviously you are ok with losing your husband b/c you have let this go on so long. And obviously your husband and his brother don't have much of a relationship, or HE wouldn't ahve let this go on so long.
You both should be ashamed for doing what you have done to s.one that you say you love,but you already know this.
You and your brother in law have to tell the truth. I would suggest at least having that much respect for your husband and maybe you could keep your hands off each other long enough to show that respect. And, will your husband literally kill him??? I mean, he's already ruined all family relationships but 'kill him'?
Anyway, good luck, just remember, it WILL come out eventually. Wouldn't you rather be the one telling the truth then being the one caught in a lie?
2007-06-14 11:19:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsay G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with seeking pleasure however what you both are doing is immature and selfish. Sometimes it feels good to be immature and selfish in the end it has a huge price. Your going to hurt a lot of people. NO PLAY WITHOUT PAY. Your not a slu* your a women who was unhappy to start with now your doing things that feel good in the moment but, will only cause more unhappiness.
2007-06-14 11:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your one nasty ***** .. think about this what if and i mean if u got pregnant with the brothers baby how would u explain it to ur husband that he looks like his brother .. keep ur pussy in ur pants .. and stop it now ... u will crush alot of ppl .. and family would be one of them .. your husband deserves better then this .. if ur that damn unhappy file for divorce .. that simple .. and stop talking to his brother he has a family of his own and another thing stay away from the beers and shots ... slut u make a bad inpresson on women everywhere do u want to be known as the slut that crushed the family between two brothers .. theres something for jerry springer
2007-06-14 12:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by MOM to megan eli jaiden and ryan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will pay the price sooner or later, stop now or not. The "better" sex will pale in comparison with the shame, hurt, and humiliation you two will bear from your spouse, friends, and family, not to mention your own conscience. The bond your lover had with his brother and family will never be the same. They will blame you. Your side will blame him. Enjoy it now because retribution is around the corner and its heart- wrenching claws are dripping with agony. Brace yourself.
2007-06-14 11:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by Modern Man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to meet to talk about it, just so no.
maybe the sex is soooo good because you are sneaking and having it. The rush of possibly getting caught makes the sex even better.
2007-06-14 11:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by Life is Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with your husband's brother is probably the worst way you could cheat on him. What's done is done, and at least you both enjoyed yourselves. But you should stop whether you want to or not because it will crush your husband when he finds out, and you know he eventually will.
2007-06-14 11:19:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him would help.
Nobody is forcing you to do it. You are doing because you wanted to.
What about if you try to teach your husband the tricks you learned with your brother-in-law?
Maybe he'll become better than his brother.
2007-06-14 11:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by helloy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Can't stop huh? Who's taking you by gunpoint and making you do it?
Sorry, I have no sympathy. If you don't love or respect your husband enough to leave then you deserve everything you got coming.
Let's see... he's better at sex and he's bigger but he's afraid of his brother but doesn't respect him or you enough to leave his wife alone. I guess he's really not the alpha dog as you think. You and his brother both are scum.
2007-06-14 11:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by madbaldscotsman 6 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Don't use drinking as an excuse.... A drunk mouth speaks a sober mind. In other words, this is something you both always wanted to do and you used drinking to get the courage to do it. If you want to stop, you will but it seems to me you don't. As for your brother-in-law, he's not too scared of his brother. Just know you reap what you sow!
2007-06-14 11:18:45 · answer #11 · answered by wisdom_women 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋