Wife has refused counseling but comes up with same lame excuses every time any advances are made. I consider myself still virile and women still smile at me in stores and at shopping malls. I've never cheated but I think I would given the circumstances.
2007-06-14 11:24:53 · 16 answers · asked by salty68dawg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is a reason. Maybe its medical.
2007-06-14 11:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are these other women smiling in a flirtatious way or in a "awww, look at the little old man" way???
Dont think you can just have anyone you want.... and yes it is cheating...
Maybe talk to your wife.... if she is not interested in having sex maybe she will consider an "open" marriage...
2007-06-14 18:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by boomquisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No tell her that you need sex and that you will be going out to get some if things aren't going to change.
you may still love her but you need more
this is why prostitution should be legal.
I hope this helped and tell your wife good luck in the presidential race
2007-06-14 19:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by G O 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A relationship is mixture of many things and if one one thing is removed the relationship is changed.
If you take love, trust, respect and even sex out of marriage the relationship reverts to that of room mates.
Divorce on ground of sexual abandonment is valid.
I would start separating your finances and see how she like living within her own means.
2007-06-14 18:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gotta agree with JLM ... if she aint gonna give you some then she has to make sacrifices. She has to let you be a man. Or then you have to make the decision of wether or not you want to remain with this woman. Good luck
2007-06-14 18:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by crazicowgirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you aren't making sex worthwhile for her? There has to be a reason she doesn't enjoy it. Why dont you figure out what you're doing wrong and then fix it rather then cheating on her?
2007-06-14 18:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
show respect to her-divorce. Though she is having this problem and refused counseling don't cheat on her. if you have been married that long you owe it to her.
2007-06-14 18:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by akc6763 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes, its still cheating.
are you totally unhappy elsewhere in your relationship?
i know sex isnt everything, but, 15 years sure is a long time.
counseling is needed, im sorry to say.
good luck.
2007-06-14 18:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by ktlove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your wife; if she gives you a "green light", it can hardly be considered cheating.
2007-06-14 18:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if I were you and she will not make love then ask her if it's OK for you to get it some where else. I bet shell get in the mood real fast.
2007-06-14 18:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by JLM 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
of course its cheating, you're still married aren't you? why don't you make it easy on yourself and get a divorce if you're that unhappy?
2007-06-14 18:31:41 · answer #11 · answered by ThrockGrl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋