thank you to all of you i got 55 answers , i ask this Q, last nite and i cant sleep the whole nite still i cant decide, what to do, now its morning (good morning to all) tonite is my promise ,i want to add more information , my bf is not happy with his wife any more , so he said , he will divorce his wife and he will marry me , and i said no, i said no coz i dont want that his family will cry ,thats why i avoid little by little coz h hurts so much , we are in this relation for more than 10 yrs from now , i spend my love life like this , always hiding in daytime, and because of ur answers , i will end this relation but maybe i have to give him a remembrance , like what hog rock said later ill end i dont want to kill him in his birthday coz he is 55 yrs old already nowand im 40 yrs old , i meet his wife in phone , i meet his mom , his 3 yrs old grand daugther in real , he wants to buy house for me , but i dont want house , coz i dont want to ruin his family, i want his love
2007-06-14 10:59:45 · 9 answers · asked by carmelite 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you typed almost EVERYTHING wrong!! anyway, he keeps saying he wants to divorce his wife? girl please. no man will ever leave his wife for his mistress. why couldn't you find a man of your own? why did you have to go after this one who happens to be married? don't you see he tells you he wants to buy you a house and that he wants to marry you and all that mushy crap to get in your pants?!? leave him and find someone of your own who is SINGLE!!!
2007-06-14 11:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After he is divorced and you see the legal papers than think about seeing him again. Right now you should not be seeing him at all! Do you realize you have wasted 10 years of your life? You could be married and have your own family by now ! I feel so sorry for you. You've cheated yourself all this time.
2007-06-14 18:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by lucyshines49 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop seeing him! No questions ask. He is a married man. If he cheats on his wife with you then he will probally cheat on you. You stay with him and you are setting yourself up for a heartbreak! The fact that you can't sleep over this already should tell you what to do!
2007-06-14 18:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by chrissyprissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband told his now wife that I was a rotten spouse, told her he was very unhappy, and convinced her to leave her husband for him. Gee, he left out the part about how he's an alcoholic. Now she can find out on her own. If you're willing to sleep with a married man you'd better get ready for what comes along with it. You might not like what you get.
2007-06-14 18:48:35 · answer #4 · answered by wc2ketey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't want to ruin his family but you want his love? do you think that makes sense? You are 40 years old! GROW UP!
You destroyed one woman's life! you destroyed his childrens and his grandchildren. You are an evil person! You deserve to live very unhappy life hiding in day light all your life! Be ashamed of yourself old lady!
2007-06-14 18:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by daisyleemie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him if he is serious about leaving his wife tell him you can see him after the divorce.
2007-06-14 18:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by keezy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get ready, because his wife might come after you. Besides he will never really leave his wife.
2007-06-14 18:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk it out. he is married. you dont want to make his family hurt. so just stop. dont give him anything to remember. you werent suppost to be with this guy anyways. he is married. just stop it all now. dont keep thinking you can change it unless he is signing the divorce papers now.
2007-06-14 18:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by jlasley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just walk away. Let him deal with what he has done. He was never your, and he never will be. I wish you the best, you will find happiness.
2007-06-14 18:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by Ivy_Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋