Marriage & Divorce - 11 June 2007

why girls always seeking strong hand even she knows somebody will heart who loves her too much?And even that guys also knows who is taking her hand with great believe that she will never do wrong with him and he knows she had an affair in past ? why why................

2007-06-11 23:35:31 · 6 answers · asked by rcake 1

I had physical relation with a boy before marriage. My husband has come to know that. Now He is spreading this personal matter to his family and my family. He told me to sign divorce form. If I don't sign he will spread this matter to all over my work place. Can I file a case of mental harassment? I am Hindu from India . Now I don't have any relation with that guy. He is telling me that he will take information from my college and work place. We have got married according to the Hindu Marriage Act.

2007-06-11 23:22:12 · 13 answers · asked by sanjukta 1

Should i be feeling really bad about sitting here, asking silly questions, drinking tea and smoking when i should be doing housework(my house is a mess) am i basically a bad person?

2007-06-11 22:40:24 · 32 answers · asked by ? 2

can i marriage some1 that i never seen b4?

2007-06-11 21:46:53 · 3 answers · asked by EJECT 1

This is a divorce case about a christian couple governed under the Indian succession Act. Wife is living seapartely from her husband for nearly 10 years now following a suit filed by her for return of money given at the time of marriage. The case was decreed and the decretal amount has been paid..
The wife is a cruel type of a person and one who has a sadistic upbringing and one who doesnot like to be a mother. She is an abusive type and wants to take revenge against her husband by not giving consent for divorce in a joint petition proposed to be filed. Her advocate is demanding huge sums for a compromise. Anything possible in this case?

2007-06-11 21:28:46 · 4 answers · asked by jos c 1

2007-06-11 20:43:26 · 16 answers · asked by kishna 1

2007-06-11 20:26:32 · 13 answers · asked by tonyab_940 1

2007-06-11 20:24:44 · 13 answers · asked by shajahanshafi 1

he mean and evil if i leave with my 2 boys, steals them frm school and outside and refuses to bring them back--- although he does not want them he does not want me to have them--- i am fighting back this time he took one i have my other son and i wont back down--- he does not want me and wants me to have no life or chance of life everything is my fault-- after 19yr of this and all his girlfriends when does it end-- if feel like i am fighting for my life everyday and it never stops-- why wont he just leave me and my son alone-- why is there no protection for woman in a situation like this? this is why women get killed---- when does it all end--- he is going to have to take me out this time i am not backing down just to be abused and worthless again--- where is the help??? it is a true life and death situation where are the advocates and support groups? Help!!!

2007-06-11 20:17:29 · 3 answers · asked by ls_mango 1

We live in california and have been married for approx nine years. We have two boys together. One is 3 and one is 8. My wife also has a daughter(14), she will obviously stay with my wife. Normally, I wouldn't think to ask for full custody of the boys. But, My stepdaughter has some mental issues that possibly make her a danger to them. Also, my wife has been arrested in the past for domestic battery. I still wouldn't necessarily mind 50% custody of my boys. However, my wife keeps threatening to fight me in court. Are there any qualified people out there that could tell me what my chances of getting full custody would be if she forces my hand. Also, any ideas on what else I should do, to help my chances in court or in this divorce, would be appreciated.

2007-06-11 20:15:49 · 11 answers · asked by Craig M 1

I am in love with a girl who is older than me 5 years, me 26 and she is 31 years; and we have started talking seriously to be together as we find the happiness together; and looking to be engaged then married.
If you are in my shoes; what are fears will you face and consider regarding age difference, aging, physical, youth, look, health, relations and the coming future?

Please try to see it from my side and her side too.

Thanks

2007-06-11 19:52:44 · 29 answers · asked by Some One 2

OK, so every time I talk to a male via my MySpace e-mail, my husband gets really upset acting, as if for no reason, and says things like, "I bet you're chatting to guys online". These guys are just old friends, or if they are ex's, they are either guys I was friends with for a long time also, or I want to rub it in their face that I got married. But the main thing here is, HOW IS HE CHECKING MY E-MAIL? He doesn't know my password, which I constantly change anyway, to discourage spammers. Could he have some sort of "parental control" or "master operator" thing going, where he doesn't need my password to check my accounts? How can I disable this? I don't read HIS e-mails, number one because I don't know how, but number two, because it's his private correspondence, and not my business. Please, no advice on the larger issue here of why is he being a crapsack and snooping around in my e-mail. Someone just tell me how he's doing it, please.

2007-06-11 19:46:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in such situation. Pls help me. My father is very much conservative and giving threat to commit suicide if i marry my gf. He is denying becoz she is having diabetes and she is lower in education than me. I love my family very much.
And as i know my fathers nature, he does what he says. Right now, i and her are mutually agreed to not to go ahead. She is very understanding gal.We are friend now.

2007-06-11 19:40:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband likes me to get rough with him when we are having you know what. He likes me slap him and punch him during, It really turns him on. My bestfriend says he may have r@pe fantasies, should I be worried?

2007-06-11 19:40:18 · 27 answers · asked by misswannano 2

2007-06-11 19:30:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want a divorce but i dont know how to tell my hubby of 3 year help me plz

2007-06-11 19:25:40 · 12 answers · asked by joshygirl_692000 1

Here's a long story.... But I'll try to give it the Readers Digest treatment...

1. Daughter lived in another state, got pregnant, boyfriend left her, moved back home and had baby #1.
2. Lived at home for 2 years, she got a good job, wife and I helped raise granddaughter. Gave daughter 6 months to save money to get a place of her own. We told her to save as much as she could and that we didn’t want rent or anything, so she could max out saving.
3. Six months pass, daughter didn’t attempt to save money, told to start paying $300.00 per month to cover expenses for utilities, food, etc. Daughter agreed to pay but was usually late paying and complained a lot about paying the $300.00.
4. Tensions got high off / on about raising granddaughter, meal preps, her $300.00 rent, etc.
5. Daughter meets guy, gets pregnant again and gets wife to side with her to let him move in. This is because daughter says she doesn’t want to be alone for this pregnancy. Husband foolishly caves in to request.
6. Six months into pregnancy they get married, but still live with us.
7. Second grandchild born brought into my home, and parents aren’t saving money.
8. Husband has had it and tells wife, the daughter, her husband and the two grandkids leave by the end of 8 months (or he does), that gives them almost a year to save.
9. Son in laws parents let them move into one of his rental houses. They’ve lived there almost a year. But now they’re getting a divorce and she wants to move back home.
10. Now looking at this brief history, what would you do? I mean I really and truly love my daughter and my grandchildren, but past experiences don’t exactly salt my fries, if you know what I mean.

Please, give me some pointers or ideas. Thanks to all who answer this tough one

2007-06-11 19:24:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-11 19:17:41 · 11 answers · asked by hey 2

2007-06-11 19:01:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are always confused in case of personal or external relationships.sometimes I feel everydbody is good & the other time I feel they are bad.Is because of human behaviour or something else?how to judge a person?

2007-06-11 18:58:18 · 8 answers · asked by laxmi v 1

My husband and I are very good parents. We have a young child who is growing up smart, capable and confident. We both adore the child and the child adores us.
My husband and I are also very good roommates. We have a good division of household labor, a compatible arrangement of schedules so we can both work and take care of our child with minimal outside child care, and an efficient way of having conversations to plan things and get things done.
But after we put our child to bed every night, he falls asleep in front of the TV. I go to bed alone.
In a recent conversation, he said, "I'm sorry I disappoint you, but I'm doing the best I can." I interpret this to mean he isn't interested in any changes. We have been married over 20 years. The gradual disappearance of physical affection began a long time ago. I'm not sure physical affection is what I want anymore. I've grown used to having quiet, solitary evenings while he snoozes.
Is this a marriage or just an organized household?

2007-06-11 18:57:52 · 9 answers · asked by Red 1

2007-06-11 18:56:37 · 3 answers · asked by honeybee 1

2007-06-11 18:54:24 · 14 answers · asked by Boogie 1

I came across my husbands email and phone account because we got charged twice and I called the company to get it worked out and they reffered me to the account online. I have come to find that my husband has been calling and emailing a woman who is also in Iraq and who used to be stationed with him. In one of the emails he mentions missing hearing her scream his name. I am in utter shock, disbelief, heart broken right now. I have not talked to my husband in days because they have supposedly been on blackout. I was able to view his call logs as well and he calls the other woman way more than he even calls me. I can't wait till he calls so that I can let him know that I know. What is the best way to go about dealing with this? He's already been home on randr and I would have never in my life thought he would cheat on me or has. I came across this all on accident. Im feeling so lost right now. Obviously we need to get a divorce because my trust for him is broken.

2007-06-11 18:19:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in field sales, and one of my VIP customers always complains about his wife and his marriage. He says that his wife doesn't care about him and that he's sick and tired about the marriage. He once told me that he found me attractive, but nothing more. Why does he do this and what must I do next time he does this?

2007-06-11 18:14:50 · 23 answers · asked by Confused_Rep 4

My fiance and I have a great relationship. There is an age difference, but that doesn't affect the quality of our relationship, other than this issue.
When we got engaged 3 1/2 years ago, I agreed that I didn't want anymore children. He has 3 grown children and I have a now 8 year old (I had her when I was 18). It seemed to make sense, at the time.
But then my sister had a baby, my best friend had a baby, his daughter had a baby, I babysit babies every so often, etc.
And now, I want a baby.
I've told him directly that I want a baby. That's the end of the conversation. He has no response.
I recently got a IUD and it was expensive (but more convenient then Depo)
So I don't know what to do. Do I have the UID taken out and tell him that if he doesn't want a baby, he should do something about it?
Do I stick with a 3 1/2 agreement to not have any more kids when he still hasn't married me? And grow old with only one child and admire the babies around me?
Thanks!

2007-06-11 18:04:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been married to my wife almost ten years we have 4 small children,she up and left one day, shes given me every excuse in the book why she left but the thing is i can admit to my wrongs but she played her part to.Anyway bring up things from the past doesn't help anything.I love my wife more than life itself and God is the only one I put before her.Shes been gone for almost a month now and she tells me she doesnt want me back but if I give her time she might change her mind,Ive told her I love her from head to toe that I worship her as my queen that she is my every thing and that my presious children need a father and not a part time dad they are everything to me and i cant see waking up or coming home from work and them not being there.It kills me, every second feels like a day ,a day a year ,a week an eternity so a whole month im toar up ,but she said the damage is done but let her think about it which i havent really been doin cause ive been calling her everyday.

2007-06-11 17:47:19 · 14 answers · asked by ELITE 1

2007-06-11 17:23:09 · 13 answers · asked by Talia Hart 1

I know he loves me, but I can't help but feel jealous. We have been married for almost 3 years. I keep wondering if I was just a "rebound"....I thought we had put it all behind us until recently when he got drunk (which almost NEVER happens) and he couldn't stop talking about her....it has brought all the feelings back up again, all the uncertainty. I have suggested councilling but he doesn't think it is necessary. I don't like feeling like I was the alternative. I love him dearly, but I hate feeling this way. What should I do?

2007-06-11 17:17:28 · 27 answers · asked by wiccan_an_proud 1

Do you think you can really truly love and forgive your spouse for cheating? It's been 5 years and I can't get over it.

2007-06-11 17:09:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous