Marriage & Divorce - 11 June 2007

the loser father of my child wants to give up his parental rights . her has never seen this child one time Do we both have to agree with it? Do i have to agree or can he just go sign his rights over without me agreeing? what if i said no can he still do it?

2007-06-11 07:58:17 · 9 answers · asked by M.J. 3

me and my bf want to get married in sept this yr. is it possible?

2007-06-11 07:58:17 · 4 answers · asked by whitewingdove_02 2

It's the one thing he asks for and I'm not really for it. A threesome does nothing for me. Maybe I should grant him this wish in case he starts to wander off and cheat on me. What do u guys think?

2007-06-11 07:41:18 · 85 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3

Does a man feel as deeply about the woman in his life as she does about him? If so, what are some ways he shows it?

2007-06-11 07:38:51 · 29 answers · asked by wildwillow 3

getting them. When dating its alot of work and money. Trips...dinners...flowers ect. I think it time for a role reversal and all women should initiate going after men!
Maybe the fact that 80% of divorces are initiated by women might change.

2007-06-11 07:38:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you have one

2007-06-11 07:36:36 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-11 07:36:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing a woman for a year now and 6 months ago she told me that she was married. It was very difficult for me to deal and I thought about leaving her but, my feelings are stuck. She told me that her marriage has basically taken a dive 2 years ago. They live together and she sleeps in her own room.

Her husband knows about me and now he is trying his best to save the marriage. She told me that she doesn’t love him anymore but feels bad for him. He is basically stuck with his work and not romantic or thoughtful at all. He has never sent her flowers nor done anything for her like simple dinners.Me, on the other hand, I have sent her flowers every week and still write her love letters and mail them to her(I am 31 years old).

2007-06-11 07:33:28 · 25 answers · asked by Cerealkiller 2

2007-06-11 07:27:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

instead?

2007-06-11 07:27:56 · 7 answers · asked by Jahpson 5

I saw a commercial about a TV special, where wife, is cutting her hair, I guess to try to leave, because her husband is trying to marry off their 13 year old daughter, I would like to know night and time it is on. Station also. thank You

2007-06-11 07:27:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anne2 7

everytime you argue. I feel like he throws the word "divorce" around way too often. he is going to another country to visit his family and i asked if was going to come back adn he said we will see. Then he said of course he will. I think he is just wrong for even saying these things. Should i pack his stuff for him and tell to stay? or what?

2007-06-11 07:20:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband's "mistress" (whom he left me for 6 weeks ago) randomly sends me really rude and uncalled for text messages. they almost always come COMPLETELY out of the blue. like she is trying to start something. i'm to the point where i just completely ignore her. i never even let him know i got the text message. we were trying to be friends, my STB Ex and I, and she was getting in the way of that for a while, but now we're doing good a friends again. she seems to like drama. she braggs about how much $$ he has (though he has none, he just uses credit cards) and complains whenever i ask for $$ for our daughter (waiting on court date for official child support to begin). is she just doing this to drive a wedge between us so we will fight more and NOT be friends? or is she just a bit jealous and insecure?

i just dont get stupid girls! we simply want to be friends for our daughter's sake and b/c both of us agree we can't go from 8 years together to absolutely nothing.

2007-06-11 07:17:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is just a way to kill slow/down time at work. Any one who expects to find sound advice or logical ideas here is just fooling themselves!

Enjoy the laughs and take it for what it is worth!

2007-06-11 07:02:36 · 16 answers · asked by Steve J 2

We have 3 kids together(7,5,2).Were just a couple days away from payday so I'm broke.Any ideas?

2007-06-11 07:02:03 · 13 answers · asked by oregoncheeto 3

How many times does it take to realize maybe marriage ain't for you?

2007-06-11 06:51:59 · 41 answers · asked by TNT 1

Meaning they know your nickname, your id & password and can read all your questions & answers.
I joined this yahoo!answers because I've been having problems living together with my mother in-law and my husband told me to bring my complaints somewhere else. So I did, I posted questions related to my living situation. Some of course talked about my mother in-law in a bad way. My husband likes to check on my questions from time to time, which I don't mind, but I don't understand what his purpose is, I mean if he doesn't want me to complain to him then why read my complaints here & get upset afterwards? Anyway, after a big fight last night I posted a question related to my mother in-law, and today in front of his mother in the middle of a heated fight, he brought my account up and threatened to show the question to his mother. I of course didn't want that to happen and I couldn't believe that he could do that. I wrote those questions anonymously, in a way to vent my anger,

2007-06-11 06:49:43 · 31 answers · asked by trax2345 2

I recently discovered that my wife has a secret collection of sexy lingerie that I have never seen her wear. I also found 2 toys and 4 bottles of flavored oils. Also, having previously mentioned her dislike of thongs to me, there were quite a few items that had matching thong panties. The lingerie has no store tags, so I'm assuming its been on her body at least once, nor can she say she just bought it for me as a "surprise" Is this enough proof of an affair and should I confront her, or should I sit back and continue to observe?

2007-06-11 06:48:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

We been married for 1 yr now, I feel my wife still treats my mom as a stranger. It doesn't feel like they are daughter and mom type of relationship...how do I imrpove that? Please help...

2007-06-11 06:48:12 · 4 answers · asked by Auto S 2

I have asked several questions on here and I get mixed opinions. I have come to the conclusion that my husband is "acting" like he is angry just to derail me from asking him any questions and to discourage me from talking to him about anything. For instance, just about every single time we get into an argument he will either run into another room and shut the door or leave for hours. Five months ago he cheated on me and keeps telling me he can't deal with me wanting to rehash what happened between him and her. He also said that if I wanted to move on I would stop talking about it. He said he knows I will not forget but I should move on. It's not that easy. He is not a violent person but as of lately he has started flipping chairs and slamming things to show me he is upset. He didn't start doing this until several months ago. As long as I ball up and cry and get out of his ear he is fine. But when I am persistent he gets upset. Is he playing games? If so, how can I stop it?

2007-06-11 06:44:35 · 14 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

Let me rephrase the question Why does "SOME" black people excuse me... "African americans" always have to say "You know what I'm sayin"? or "You nah mean"? At least 5x per sentence? Why do "SOME" african americans wear their pants hanging from their knees? Before you say I'm racist..... thats right I'm black!!!. I never say "You know that I'm sayin or you nah mean" If I have to ask that 5 times per sentence, obviously I'm not explaining myself properly. Also, I never wore my pants sagging down to my knees where everyone can see my boxers. That's not a cool look at all. Can you see an employer hiring you looking and talking like that?

2007-06-11 06:43:24 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that my wife has an affair because she goes out late and she have been calling and getting call from this guy. Should I just spy on her to get proof or just let it go and end it. I think that knowing it would hurt me more so I just let it go and end the relationship. Help!

2007-06-11 06:43:07 · 15 answers · asked by sos 1

Some say they divorced because they simply weren't happy. Some say the spouse "changed" What can be done to lower the divorce rate? Shouldn't there be like a pre-requisite where as in order to get married, you have to attent marriage counseling for at least 3 months. At least this way, you'll know what to expect in a marriage.

2007-06-11 06:41:21 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I have been together for 2.5 yrs, engaged for 5 months, and supposed to be getting married in September. A few weeks ago he broke down, extremely overwhelmed with his constant newfound negativity and has turned into a man that now has the thought of possible divorce on his mind. He has a few friends that are going through a divorce right now and he can't snap out of it. However, he is a wonderful guy and is thinking about my feelings as well as his own. There is absolutley nothing I can say or do to help. He started going to therapy which has only made him dig deeper into his past and seems to be freaking him out more. I get frustrated and sad and mad and any other emotion you could think of. We live together and have for a couple years. Should I leave for a little while and see what happens and give him space or do I stay and live in the unknown??

2007-06-11 06:39:00 · 22 answers · asked by BrusselSprouts 2

I've been married for 15 yrs and w/him for 22. The relationship has been somewhat disfunctional from the start...not sure why I've let it go on for so long. We have 2 kids together, but I'm just not happy. I have met someone that I believe would treat me like my mom said I should be treated.. What do I do? Do I stay at home so my kid's lives aren't turned upside down? Or do I look to make myself happy?

2007-06-11 06:35:51 · 13 answers · asked by Crzybtch 2

suppose that u have a bad-tempered, easily annoyed husband. if a male friend of your's proposes to u to marry him what would u do then?suppose that he is almost your own age
and single and u have 2 kids

2007-06-11 06:31:45 · 13 answers · asked by donya 1

I love my boyfriend and I love being with him but the whole idea of getting married makes me scared. I don't know why. I am pretty sure I have a fear of commitment, even in other adreas of my life, just not sure what to do about it. I also had a really bad breakup (a long time ago) that I think had a huge effect on me. I even took some time away from my relationship to figure things out but really just wanted him back. Anyone have some useful advice??? I just want to relax and get married without the anxiety!!

2007-06-11 06:29:14 · 7 answers · asked by Kisses 2

i was with my wife's best friend in our house whe all of a sudden, she started to kiss me and said that she still wanted me. we used to date before, but just became friends. now all of a sudden shes forcing me to have sex with her. we made out on her couch for 5 minutes when my wife came in and saw us. i suddenly backed away cause i was embarrased and i tried to talk to my wife. i was shocked when she didn't get mad and said she was ok with it. she said that she really wanted us to do it with her friend, but i didn't think it was a good idea. they've been forcing me to do it for the past two days. im thinking of trying it with them, seeing as their both ok with it. what do i do?

2007-06-11 06:24:52 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-11 06:20:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or considered "damaged" if she chooses not to? If there is no desire then why force something that is not there? The world is already over populated and divorce rates are ridiculous, why is there a need to join the bandwagon?

2007-06-11 06:13:41 · 4 answers · asked by Lucky 2