getting them. When dating its alot of work and money. Trips...dinners...flowers ect. I think it time for a role reversal and all women should initiate going after men!
Maybe the fact that 80% of divorces are initiated by women might change.
2007-06-11 07:38:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most women are like that, you're right, but there are some of us who do the pursuing. When my husband and I were dating, I would take him out, buy him things, I even proposed to him! There are a few of us who believe in complete equality. I even work and let him stay at home and keep the TV company. He in turn treats me like a queen. Times have changed and sometimes the roles are reversed in relationships. I, personally, think it is a bold new step away from the strict traditions of our grandparents.
2007-06-11 21:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by Rae Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you have to impress a woman if it really isn't who you are? Stick to who you are and all will work out. Relationships isn't just about going out and spending money, getting flowers and that crap. Give her something that last for a long time and maybe forever. That would be you, dear. You compassion, kindness, love. A woman wants to feel wanted not needed.
2007-06-11 14:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by Mom of 3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every notice that they also try and spend your money to buy their family and friends gifts?
How do women size up men?
By how successful, wealthy, financially stable ...its all about money.
I spent many years letting my wife spen all our money and she was never happy. Now I have divided all the bills and and only pay for my fair half and save the rest in my private account. My wife now has to spend within her own means and she is happy and I'm better off. The other thing is she is pining to have sex so she can get access to the money.
Women whether they want to admit it are doing it for the money and if you give it to them freely they will take you for granted. So just keep dangling it like a carrot.
2007-06-11 14:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's just sex. Women trade sex for security, and they want to make you work for it. Don't do it, dude. if she doesn't put out by the 2nd date, drop her -- and let her know why. Then find another one who will. Don't let them make you jump through hoops, it's degrading.
2007-06-11 14:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by terry m 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Something tells me you arent married.
2007-06-11 14:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋