how can u decide on another man's proposal after your marriage?

Question

suppose that u have a bad-tempered, easily annoyed husband. if a male friend of your's proposes to u to marry him what would u do then?suppose that he is almost your own age
and single and u have 2 kids

Answer 1

You are already married. You cannot marry someone else. That is called bigamy and it is illegal. And what kind of "friend" proposes to you while you are already married? Rude.

You need marriage counseling and to kick the friend out of your life. If the counseling doesn't work, divorce your husband and stay away from people like your friend who has no respect for marriage vows, monogamy, or you, for that matter.

Answer 2

There is nothing to DECIDE. That ship has sailed.It is one of the ironies of life that as soon as you are married, men come out of the woodwork, who look and act better than what you got! It's called "buyer's remorse," like every time you buy a car, you figure out you REALLY wanted a yellow one or a Ford or whatever.
HE may have buyer's remorse,too, and taking it out on YOU.
Remember, you are a team, now.
You run in the direction of your husband, and solve your marital problems INSIDE your marriage.
It's about personal integrity, unselfishness, maturity, solving your own problems, etc., not about how your husband acts.
You are playing a very dangerous game Here is our "friend" and you want him to "rescue" you by "taking you away from all this?"
Your "pal" is in a dangerous position, not honoring your boundaries, dishonoring marriage, and willing to upset your kids' lives to "save" mamma.
What happens when you don't need to be "saved" anymore? Then he will go find another damsel in distress to rescue from HER marriage. Or he will be as ill-tempered as the one you have already.
People are ill-tempered FOR A REASON--WHAT is it? Do you care?
The answer is to honor your commitment, and work on your marriage. If you have a bad-tempered husband, then drag him to counselling. If he refuses, go yourself.
AFTER you have been to counselling, given your marriage, an dyour husband a chance to get happy, then DECIDE to stay married or not.
Then LEAVE, and stay alone awhile, to recuperate from a failed marriage, bad choices, dragging your kids through the mud, and recover your self-esteem.
THEN, if your hero is still around to catch you, THEN give him a call.
That way you are not a cheater, a liar, a selfish child, an adulterer, and all-around loser. That way, you have given your marriage a chance, taken care of your children, and not done anything you will regret--again.

Answer 3

Nope, don't do it.

Your annoying bad tempered husband was annoying and bad tempered when you married him. Yet, you married him anyway.

If you leave him, leave him because it's the best decision for you and your family.

Beware of Prince Charmig's intentions. He shows up on his white horse and is willing to make it all better??? If Prince Charming really loves you, he will back up and let you handle your business.

Caution, the grass is not always greener.

Answer 4

I would have to decline seeing that I was already a married woman. You have to close one door to open another, which means you need to get a divorce if things are not working out with your spouse. Only then can you consider another man's proposal. Good Luck to you!

Answer 5

Why not try getting away from the bad husband first?

Answer 6

you are married so how are you going to accept another man's proposal if you are already legally married?

Answer 7

Nothing like jumping out of one frying pan and into another.

Answer 8

You need to worry about the divorce first.

Answer 9

Maybe you should ask your husband what he thinks of this

Answer 10

can you send me your e-mail,i am going through the samething.please e-mail me.