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How many times does it take to realize maybe marriage ain't for you?

2007-06-11 06:51:59 · 41 answers · asked by TNT 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

41 answers

I think the same question goes for some men.

2007-06-11 06:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

For every woman that gets married I am going to assume that there is a man getting married at the same time. I was married once. My wife passed away from liver cancer. I loved her dearly. Marriage is not in my future. Once was enough. My recommendation to all guys is to stay single as long as you can stand. Just go ahead and get married and you'll learn the same lesson many of the rest of us have, once is enough if not too much. Why the hell do you think people get divorced, because marriage is fun? When I was younger I wanted to be married because it would be nice to have a woman around and...unlimited SEX was a great bonus! Well, so I thought. After you get married you never see that sweet little gal alldressed up and pretty for you each time you meet. Nope, instead you have to go pee after she craps and then you find out it smells as bad as yours. You have to deal with stopped up toilets and full trashcans from tampons, kotex, panty shields on top of being told you are dirty and nasty. The first time my wife turned around to me during sex and said,"good girls don't do that kind of thing!" and I told her,"you are not a good girl anymore, you are married!", that was pretty much it! Just get married and you'll see too sucker.

2007-06-11 07:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Not only women get married often. One of my male cousins has just got married for the 6th time! I have been married 3 times. The first time for 2 months, until he abused me. The second time for 4 years, until his death, and the third time, 25 years, and still going strong. Sometimes it just takes some women (AND MEN) a bit longer to find the one they are going to spend the rest of their life with. I am sure no one gets married thinking that they are later going to get divorced, and every divorce is not always the women's fault, as your question seems to indicate you think it is.

2007-06-11 09:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Not always all woman keep getting divorced and married. Men also has that problem. I think mainly is because couples don't work out their problems and both stubborn peeps that results in separation. Do you remeber the first time you met your wife or husband? That feeling was so strong, but after marriage it is all gone. In order to keep that feeling both peeps should take a step back and admit your wrong. ;)

2007-06-11 06:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by Auto S 2 · 1 0

after a woman marries a man he thinks he owns her and can treat her however he wants. he becomes lazy, unromantic, and unwilling to do anything to help the marriage stay together.

on the other hand, some times women will let themselves go after marriage and then the husband is not happy.

i think sex is a big issue. i mean, long ago people only lived to be like 40 so being married to one person was not that big of a deal, no people live a lot longer and they change and realize that they have outgrown their spouse.

the idea of marriage is romantic and i think women get sucked into that...then after the wedding, its like, "whoa, what was i thinking, this isnt romeo?"

its human nature to not want to eat steak every night for the rest of your life...sometimes we want chicken, or pork, or whatever....

2007-06-11 07:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by chantel 3 · 0 0

For the same reasons men keep getting married and divorced.

2007-06-11 11:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It takes a women and man to get married and it takes a women and a man to get divorced. So theres your answer, ask women and man why they get married and divorced so much. Ok

2007-06-11 07:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maybe if you men and women start taking their marriage vows seriously there would not be so much divorces in this world.

2007-06-11 06:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by beliz 3 · 2 0

Has to be men too, women are not alone in the divorce/marriage thing. Did you forget about that?

2007-06-11 06:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1 0

as many times as it takes a man to realize being married means you can only have 1 woman

2007-06-11 06:54:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

They think they can find the man for them so they keep getting married, then dissapointed once again, if it doesnt work out more than twice why would it the next 5 times.

2007-06-11 06:54:10 · answer #11 · answered by DD; 2 · 0 0

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