Marriage & Divorce - 11 June 2007

I have s lot of evidence against her but she always deny. I feel I love her the more now than ever. The reason why I think she is doing it is she thinks I am doing it too but I am not. 1/01/07, I found her very wet when we want to make love after she raturned from watchnight service. This has never happened in our 8 yrs of marriage.When I asked why she was extremely wet she denied after cleaning herself pretentioustly. I the showed her the evidence in my groin and she seemed not to know anything about it. She later asked me to shave her and I refused. The next thing I saw was she was neatly shaved. This she couldnt do prior our marriage. She attempted it twice in the marriage but couldnt shave properly and I have to reshave her. But this time she claimed she did it herself. She is also in constant touch with her ex-boy friends. I always kept every known evidence to myself and pretends nothing happen. that is why she is always denying. but I could also be wrong. Is she doing it or has.

2007-06-11 02:54:02 · 16 answers · asked by kwame dzeble 1

When we first got married my husband did not want a joint bank account but finally agreed to it. Almost three years have passed and he still unhappy with the situation. I bring home a little more than he does, but we still cannot afford to just split everything down the middle. We just purchased a new home and will be very limited to the money that we have left each pay period. We get into arguments about money all the time because he wants to spend money eating out, drinking and having a good time with this friends. Don't get me wrong, we all work hard and there's nothing wrong with that. But I will tell him a bill is due and he will actually get upset because he feels like all we do is pay bills. Well what are you supposed to be doing? When he hangs out with his friends he doesn't check the account. He just assumes that he ought to be able to go have a good time since he has worked hard. But bills come first, right? To be continued ...

2007-06-11 02:53:37 · 13 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

I am divorced with two daughters from my marriage. I sometimes take my daughters shopping to buy them clothes and things they may need. I have am infant son with my girlfriend and she becomes angry when I spend money on my daughters. She feels like I am doing my ex-wife a favor by buying my daughters clothes. I pay $600/month in child support on my two daughters and $500 for my son. I also buy things for my infant son. I see no problem with how I spend my money. Am I wrong?

2007-06-11 02:50:40 · 22 answers · asked by southern_border_texan_70 2

You decide to return to school full time to change careers, and you will work full time while completing the program. You talk it over with your spouse, and they say they will be supportive.

If you are the one returning to school, what do you expect from your supportive spouse? If you are the one who agrees to be supportive, how will you be supportive?

2007-06-11 02:32:39 · 4 answers · asked by Pink Denial 6

whenever i catch him with a woman it becomes a great problem am turned into a boxing bag i feel so bitter and so confused plz advice

2007-06-11 02:28:35 · 33 answers · asked by ma pi 1

I am just curious, does MA recognize common law marriage. I haven't been able to find out any thing on the .gov websites.

2007-06-11 02:18:37 · 7 answers · asked by New England Babe 7

AND You have never dated nor seen each other for a year...

2007-06-11 02:17:42 · 4 answers · asked by goodness 3

please help me figure this out. my husband of 9 months has been constantly moody for the last 6 months. he has a chip on his shoulder and says that it isn't me and maybe he needs to change jobs. but i can't help but take it personally when we don't een have sex anymore. when i try to initalte it i get turned down. i have even tried to be understanding, upbeat, very positive, come home make dinner, and keep the house nice... i didn't know how bad this was hurting my selfesteeme until i dyed my hair yesterday in hopes of attracting him more. the women he gives "double takes" to have dark hair. when i tried t o initiate some physical activity he continued to play solitare! i have steadily started t ogain weight (15 lbs) over the last 6 months b/c of this, i was an active, out going indep. women before i got married... not i am an emotion self consious mess.. we are sleeping in seperate rooms now after i told him all of this and how i was feeling last night after the solitare incident...

2007-06-11 02:02:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex was nice,warm,caring,nurturing,compassionet and loving woman i had ever met. We went through a non contested divorce,i gave her everything she wanted.She wanted the divorce,not me.I wanted to work it out and seek counseling etc. But she just wanted out,i think she had been planning it for some time looking back.The papers are signed,i moved out and she has turned into this cold,mean,bit..ch. I don't understand why she has to be this way,we never argued about anything,i just gave her what she wanted dispite how much it hurt me.I wanted her to be happy.I was hoping we could remain friends at some level but its like she never existed.Is this her way of dealing with divorce even though she wanted it.Im confused as to why she has turned against me.Im a nice guy and she knows it.Is this some kinda pay back to make herself feel good. She seems so evil now

2007-06-11 01:56:03 · 17 answers · asked by Rodger M 1

I'm a 24 honest and sincere guy from India. Unfortunately/ or what but I made a heart's relationship with a girl Sherry from US who works for the company I used to work but after few months she left me because she opted for some one there who is rich then me, she thinks that its common, may be in US people don't have real heart but I loved more than that I cared her heartly and still I am caring her. When I said I can't go away from here she takes professional help and try to hurt me, when CEO of that company who lives in Canada supporting her and warn me he would file a case, but my side story is completely different. I told here I am not against her she can marry any number of people and she can have any relationship with any one but just let me "Care you for lifetime" but she doesn't agree and punishing me continuously, so I also want to file a legal case against her. I don't want to punish her but I want her back or else I may die, please help me and save a valuable life of me

2007-06-11 01:50:08 · 6 answers · asked by Vision4heart 1

I have a rather large family for my age; but I can provide for them as I earn good money.

Whenever I am at general meeting and I get talking to women, when I tell them I have eight kids they seem to split out whatever is in their mouth. Would it shock you? I know I started a little too early but my wife was good with children so I got a lot of time to study.

Am I one of my kind or do you get people like me?

2007-06-11 01:43:32 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it not living together? But if you are living together, do you not talk to your spouse? Or do you ignore each other when the two of you are in the same room? Do you avoid each other?

2007-06-11 01:40:03 · 5 answers · asked by Kenny F 2

I am thinking of becoming a male escort.
I dont want to risk my health in any way, can someone give me some tips or suggestions.

2007-06-11 01:38:28 · 9 answers · asked by aliuk28 1

How do you catch a cheating spouse who has hidden e-mail accounts? I know the user ids but not the passwords? Help?

2007-06-11 01:33:46 · 22 answers · asked by gritsgirl 1

You have the home the kids the pet the spouse. You are a stay at home parent who does all the work while other spouse is at work. You have come to a place where you still feel like some thing is missing in your life, but you don't what it is. you never lived on your own before marriage and only dated once seriuoly relationship before you get married to number two seriouly relationship. you try to find what is missing but noluck prevails. What do you do? what can you do to fill this viod in your heart?

2007-06-11 01:27:56 · 25 answers · asked by sassylassy2876 4

If your spouse or partner cheats on you, do you believe it is fair to cheat on them to get even? I do not, but does that make you feel justified instead of guilty if you are the one getting even? Does it ever come around and bite you and you finally feel bad? I am not the one getting even and as far as cheating, it was over 5 years ago, we were split up and NOT married. We finally married last July and then I think he waited to cheat after we were legally wed. In his heart we have been married the whole 12 years that we have been together. By the way, he will NOT admit he has cheated, but several things do not add up and I do not know if i believe him or not. When I accused him of cheating last December, he was so angry he wanted out and we did not speak for 5 months even living in the same house and sleeping in the same bed. He treated me as if I did not exist and did not care at all, cried alot and drank alot. Now, he is ready but still blames it all on me, my insecuriteis.

2007-06-11 01:11:51 · 15 answers · asked by peaches8866 2

She knows how to do them,but takes her weeks to clean a fork,do laundry or sweep the floors or tables.Usually when she has used and made all dirty.If it is not me,the House starts to look like a homeless makeshift.I hate to impose my values on another and less on my love...but I refuse to turn myself or live as a slob.Shall I move out?

2007-06-11 00:44:23 · 15 answers · asked by Lucy,I'm honry! 4

I have found out he has lied to me about everything in his past and I have all the paper work on it and he won't admite the truth even if it's on black and white.I have sent he the devorce paper's because I can not take it anymore. The thing is I have some of his thing's here all packed up and don't no what to do with it. I ask the police what to do but no one can give me an answer on it. I don't want him at the house, and he does not belong here, everything is in my name, and he is not on the lease. I found out he is a to time sex afender, and raped two people in the past, one a 14 year old boy. The Police has been no help to me. Is there anyone out there have and answer to this.HELP>

2007-06-11 00:42:19 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-06-11 00:17:31 · 9 answers · asked by ahunners 1