Marriage & Divorce - 11 June 2007

was wanting to cheat if you found out that your hubby had profiles on several dating websites? I found out my hubby has accounts on several dating sites and he even says on there he is seaking someone within a 50 mile radius!!!

We have been married for 12 years and I am pretty upset!!! We have had a few minor problems, just like all marriages. But I thought things were fine, then I find all this. Thinking about him leaving me just kills me, I mean I was 15 when we met and have never even dated anyone else.

What would you do? Confront him? Please help!!!

2007-06-11 16:55:47 · 33 answers · asked by messijessi 4

2007-06-11 16:47:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am going to court with my baby daddy fighting over custody. i have little money for an attorney so i hired one through ks legal services for like 70$ hr. every time i talk to her i have to tell her what issues i have like she never talked to me before and i can rarely ever make contact with her. she is telling me that pretty much all i can get is shared custody 50/50 even though i have had my daughter to myself for the 2 years i have had her. he has been in the pic on and off dating me. he has a 10 yr old and provides little or no stability for her or himself till these last couple months since he finally got a place to live. i want residential custody and visitations for him, not 50/50! would a different lawyer make a difference or do i need to accept these terms he wants because it seems like he is getting everything he wants and they dont take into consideration my issues with sharing her with him like he wants. hes not a bad person but hes not a very stabile person

2007-06-11 16:25:02 · 7 answers · asked by thats me 2

I dreamnt a past lover on Sunday and woke up from it around 6AM Sunday morning... I went back to sleep and woke up later. I checked my email to find that my former lover had emailed me around 6AM!! Guess what his email said? That he dreamnt about me!!!

Does this mean anything

P.S,, I'm already married with a 9 month old baby..

2007-06-11 16:24:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know it must be much harder on children when parents split...

But what are some of the ways you dealt with this as an adult. I feel a lot of resentment toward one parent. Some advice would be greatly appreciated.

2007-06-11 16:11:13 · 6 answers · asked by KS 7

2007-06-11 15:56:33 · 20 answers · asked by gregdean 1

I mean the couple. Not fiances. As if you were going to say the ________________ are looking at... The engaged? The fiancees? The...????

2007-06-11 15:51:27 · 12 answers · asked by JesusLovesMe! 3

2007-06-11 15:50:16 · 22 answers · asked by bimshire 1

I am in a commited relationship for the past couple of years, I am very comfortable knowing that I am not legally bonded to him. Even though we have to children together, I sometimes consider marriage for there benefit. Is something wrong w/ me or am I just one of those gals.

2007-06-11 15:44:06 · 11 answers · asked by Kadija T 1

What do you suggest I look for in a potential groom? Feel free to say anything you feel like.

( P. S. this question is meant for the Indian audience ).

Thanks

2007-06-11 15:42:48 · 10 answers · asked by M 1

I work full time at a good job w/ good pay, excellent benefits, paid insurance (life and health), retirement plans, etc etc. I go to PSU for my BSN. I am engaged to a computer programmer. We are working to build r nestegg (im 21 hes 28) We just put a bid in on an apartment building. We were discussing buying a house. Its a 4 bdrm 2 bath (we want a family someday) we decided if we get the apartment building we wont go after the house right now. Hes european and has an apartment and car kept there for when we visit. (After were married we plan to spend alot of holidays there eventually hoping to buy a home there). I feel lucky and im happy. I don't thro these things in ppls faces bc i no i could lose all of it very quickly. (it isnt y i marry him either) i work very hard. he works very hard. everyone is happy for us except my one friend. when seh married she told me she was w/ him bc he had some money and credit. she has a good life. whats the problem? is it bc mine isnt just based on $?

2007-06-11 15:39:48 · 8 answers · asked by Jen 2

a less fortunate, faithful spouse who loves you?

It all comes down to financial or emotional security. Which would you prefer?

2007-06-11 15:23:48 · 29 answers · asked by StarPower 2

or anybody else's, for that matter...don't read them or respond like it's bothering you. You open that question, you know what's coming. And some of us find it slightly amusing. That isn't a question, but rather a request to quit complaining. Here's a question...can you acquire a sense of humor or once bland, always bland?

2007-06-11 15:13:42 · 7 answers · asked by Luvitall 3

2007-06-11 15:04:58 · 45 answers · asked by Mz Ruiz 1

I mean when a man comes home from work and his wife hugs him and tells him "I love you" etc-etc and then spends time talking to him, asking him how his day was etc-etc, do men like this type of "care and attention?" Yes/No. WHY or WHY NOT?
How do men want their wives to care for them when they come home from work?

2007-06-11 14:33:13 · 19 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2

My boyfriend is Muslim and we have been debating about sex only being for procreation. We love each other very much and I want to marry him and have babies with him. He has been very evasive about the whole procreation debate and I don't understand what the Quran says...could anyone explain that please??

2007-06-11 14:32:24 · 9 answers · asked by Deb 2

i have a really hot wife she is from bombay india i want to please her and i know all the tricks when we do have sex i can only go for maybe 10 minuets but when we are doin our thing she loves it i always say to her lets have a quickie and she makes herself ***. wut can i do to get the length of our sessions longer? the sex is good and my procedure is good just the length can any one please help me?

2007-06-11 14:15:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

If yes, what makes you so sure?
If no, Why?
I truly believe I am married to mine.

2007-06-11 14:11:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-11 13:51:38 · 48 answers · asked by physicallyfit001 1

To me have a connection and attraction with the person you are with is so important.
I have been with my husband for 7 years and we have been seperated for 8 months, and during that time I fell in love with another man. I have decided to give it another go with my husband as I did'nt want to walk away and feel like I did'nt give it a good go.
I'm currently grieving my old love, but there was so much about being with him that was wrong. My husband and I have in my eyes not had a connection for many years, and actually did'nt want to have sex with him, I would put it off and just not ever be into it. He actually said that its like I find it a chore doing it with him, which explained it exactly.
Everything else in our relationship is perfect but the intimacy and connection that has been lost over the years. Can we get it back, and will my old love ever become a distant memory.

2007-06-11 13:07:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, my husband and I have been together for nearly 7 years. we have been seperated for 8 months, and before we seperated he was working overseas for 6 months. During our whole relationship he has always worked away, and I have always been fine with it, When he came back from being overseas for 6 months I felt we were just worlds apart and just distant, it became apparent to me that we had no connection left and I just really did'nt find him not only sexually attractive but also was'nt connected to him emotionally at all.
Here comes the bad part. I meet somebody else, he is eight years younger than me, and we just naturally clicked, we fitted, our love and bond was so strong, and for the last 6 months I have had a relationship with him, but have always questioned whether I should really give my husband another chance and if we could ever get a bond and connection up as close as what I have with the man I'm so in love with now.I feel so connected to him but confused all as to what to do

2007-06-11 12:56:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been trying to get divorced from a registered pedaphile who is presently in prison for molesting our daughter. He refuses to sign the papers and I am told he has rights. I thought the Judge took his rights away when he sentenced him to prison. He is not allowed contact with our children at all. The only thing I have in both our names is the car. How do I get his name off the registration? I need the car for transportation and I did pay for it and the insurance and upkeep. I don't feel he has a right to make demands at all. I am the one who should be demanding things from him. Like child support which he has never paid in 18 years.

2007-06-11 12:55:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was in a very bad relationship and to make a long story short I left him and when I did he had the ring and he gave it back to me I said no you keep it and he said no I bought it for you, you keep it. Now its about 6 months later and he is demanding it back. Do you think I should keep it (maybe trade it in for something for me) or give it back. This was a physical and very extremely verbal absive relationship.

Additional Details


*i did give it back and then he told me no its mine*
in the beginning it wasnt bad but after we got engaged it got bad.
we were together since i was 15 and now i'm 20
i just told him in an e-mail i didnt have it anymore.


**Also! I said if it was a family ring I would have given it back but its not. He is saying he wants to give it to some girl in the future he wants to marry and i said NO girl will want a ring u proposed to someone else with and was once ur ex's!

2007-06-11 12:51:30 · 31 answers · asked by Jessie M 1

So; I am reaching out to the world in effort to save my failing marriage! I'm probably like a millioln others out there with this feeling of desperation! It is affecting my self esteem, my work ethic, my home ethic, my children, my mind, attitude and self worth, and ultimately it is affecting him, my life's companion! I have so much to work on, it feels like so little time, as a matter of fact, I think it may be too late. His habits, attitude and communication with me are quite harsh, he's sick of me, showing signs of attraction towards others, talks in his sleep of what he's done, calls me by another's name, gets extreme in reaction when I question his actions, brings up the past, causes fights, is doing extraordinary things far outside his norm, getting "ready" before work in a way he never has, wears cologne for work, not me, tells me he's going one place and goes another, doesn't call me nearly ever and seems to get highly angry at things out of the norm...help

2007-06-11 12:43:18 · 7 answers · asked by abstractsgirl 1

What hurt more your primary relationship ending or your relationship born from infidelity ending? College paper....thankx

2007-06-11 12:43:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 3 month old baby and my fiance of 4.5 years and I havent had sex since I got pregnant. I'm 31 and he's 29. He treats me very badly and I asked him to leave 5 days ago and he gladly did. Now I found out he's been talking to a 17 years old girl for almost a year. (I found out when I was pregnant but he says she is a client/friend).He calls all the time. I confronted both of them and they are saying they are friends. I can't stop agonizing and don't know what to do.What do I do?

2007-06-11 12:35:39 · 33 answers · asked by lori b 1

Is it because they are unhappy with their spouse? because they are unhappy with themselfs? like the attention? what is your take on why people cheat........no i'm not cheating nor is my hubby just a general question. I did once live ith a cheater i think he did it because he was a retard and immature.

2007-06-11 12:33:54 · 15 answers · asked by ally'smom 5

ok i met this girl like 3 months ago..we talked a couple of times ok conversations...i finally had the courage to ask her to lunch and she took a rain check but then resheduled for the next day.it was a ok lunch....one of my friends had told her that i liked her but she preffered hearing it from my words....i told her and she blusshed...i called her the next day and i saw her sittin down in her office and didnt pick up...i didnt want to pressure her so i didnt go by her office for like 1 day...when she finally saw me she was like"ohh my god where you been havent seen you all day?"i went and said hi...in the end of the day i walked her to the train station and asked her if she had a boyfriend...she told me and i quote"yea hes somewhere"gave me the impression like he aint that important.....but i could be wrong..does she like me? or should i just give up and let her be happy??what should i do??? pllllllleeeeaasssee help

2007-06-11 12:32:28 · 18 answers · asked by kid233 1

This women who works in our office is having an affair with a coworker. She told him how her husband ignores her and is no longer affectionate. She also told him that he has no respect for her and sometimes verbally abuses her. I know this man her husband and I can't imagine him like that he seems like a great guy. She is thinking of leaving him for her new lover and its kinda sad for there 3 kids. Her husband from what I understand has no idea of the affair and I know it will crush him. Could she be bending the truth to get her lover?

2007-06-11 12:15:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-11 12:06:11 · 4 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1