ok i met this girl like 3 months ago..we talked a couple of times ok conversations...i finally had the courage to ask her to lunch and she took a rain check but then resheduled for the next day.it was a ok lunch....one of my friends had told her that i liked her but she preffered hearing it from my words....i told her and she blusshed...i called her the next day and i saw her sittin down in her office and didnt pick up...i didnt want to pressure her so i didnt go by her office for like 1 day...when she finally saw me she was like"ohh my god where you been havent seen you all day?"i went and said hi...in the end of the day i walked her to the train station and asked her if she had a boyfriend...she told me and i quote"yea hes somewhere"gave me the impression like he aint that important.....but i could be wrong..does she like me? or should i just give up and let her be happy??what should i do??? pllllllleeeeaasssee help
2007-06-11 12:32:28 · 18 answers · asked by kid233 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would tell her to give you a call when she doesn't have a boyfriend! She may like you, but that doesn't change the fact that she has a man, regardless of how she refers to him.
2007-06-11 12:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Boyfriend" or "Girlfriend" are BS titles.
She is just dating. Its just happens to she is dating this one guy a lot for now. Ask her out to a club and if she has a boyfriend tell that's fine you were asking her out to a club not marriage. When you get to the club have fun. Flirt with her and any other girl there. Nothing is better than having a girl as your wing man. If she get jealous then she is too serious about her "boyfriend".
2007-06-11 20:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to make this simple: Be blunt with her. Next time you see her and are on neutral ground, you tell her how you feel and then TELL her that if she's not serious with your boyfriend to drop him and be with you.
Take charge of the situation. Don't let her run it. OWN your feelings and DON'T regret them. Make your dreams come true. If she's serious about the other guy, then there's nothing you can do about that. Don't go down without a fight, though.
2007-06-11 19:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by contrafilms 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beware! this girl is flaky and on a little of a power trip. I dont think she is really interested in you, as much as keeping you interested in her. Put her in that same catigory she put you in. That way the door hasn't closed and you won't have to wonder "what if" but dont give this girl your heart whatever you do, untill you're sure she's into YOU. Unfourtunaly I dont think this girl's a keeper, sorry.
2007-06-18 13:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by littlefariemom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't seem pushy I would just give her your number and suggest that she call you sometime and have lunch, dinner, coffee just to get to know each other some more. If she doesn't call in then you know that she is probably involved with someone or isn't interested.
2007-06-19 15:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since it was a first lunch, don't be suprised or confused if there are akward moments between you two. try another lunch and see if things improve. if she talks about her boyfriend in a good way, that means she trusts you . this is a sign that you two are meant to be very close friends.
2007-06-11 19:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by iluvnbb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she were interested you wouldn't be getting mixed signal from her. She maybe was just looking for someone to go for lunch with.
Find someone who is happy to see you and answer your calls, believe me you will be happier in the long run to not chase someone who doesn't want to be caught by you.
2007-06-19 11:44:48 · answer #7 · answered by Karen K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say there are 10 components to a successful relationship: Love, Understanding, Romance, Trust, Patience, Acceptance, Sex, Commitment, Compromise and most important, COMMUNICATION...
I ask you, Do you see where this is leading? COMMUNICATION.
2007-06-18 16:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by Moe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out again. She was very matter of fact about her boyfriend, maybe she didn't want to admit that she's single right now. If she agrees to go out w/u you'll know that she likes you. Then go on from there.
2007-06-11 19:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! ur in a very confusing situation.. heres what i thought.. she probably like you but then. she might think your givin her a not sooo good sign.. as her out again and see if shes go but if not then that only means one thing. so take chances.. or better yet talk to her dont be afraid. she might be waitin for you to say sumthin.. goodluck!
2007-06-11 19:38:05 · answer #10 · answered by gurlNextDoOr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋