Marriage & Divorce - 7 June 2007

marriage I came to know that my husband had an affair with a girl for nearly 4 /5 yrs i felt really cheated but he said that it his dead past and he doesnt want to even talk or remember of it he told me nobody knew abt it except him and his friends but few days before i heard abt his affair from one of his cousin i felt why does he lie to me .I also got curious about knowing the kind of girl he fell in love with I asked him abt this and he told me that he was never intensly involved with this gril and he was the one to say no to her as he was interested in his career I felt a bit relieved to knw tht i was the first person he fell in love with and he was not serious abt tht girl when i told him this he said tht i should not make conclusions on his past reationship and should stick to the fact tht it has ended i told him how does it harm him if i do make conclusions and it gives me peace he said tht if i take it this way i will raise the isssue again and again and he wants to finish it

2007-06-07 23:43:33 · 12 answers · asked by kamya 1

My husband has been acting cold towards me lately. He still treats me with respect but things just don't seem the same. He told me two nights ago that he thought about leaving me before. Right now, he doesn't know what he wants in life. I'm scared he'll leave but I won't stop him if he does. He proposed counseling. Is that a sign that he wants to work things out? What sould I do since I no longer know what to think. I love him with my heart and soul, but I won't let him hurt me. Any sugestions and advice is appreciated.

2007-06-07 23:02:23 · 15 answers · asked by K9Girl 2

Im 6 months pregnant and over the past months i have felt my sexual relationship has decreased a little with my partner and this is not from my end. I then recently found some porn on his computer and he admited that he occassionally looks at it, but that it is no reflection on how he feels about me and still desires me just as much. I dont know how to feel?

2007-06-07 22:49:25 · 27 answers · asked by charlotte s 1

What are the dangers of a guy form the USA marrying someone from china.

2007-06-07 22:44:29 · 4 answers · asked by stoutturbo 1

also did it work out? or did it happen again?

2007-06-07 22:34:32 · 6 answers · asked by evets3423 1

2007-06-07 22:10:49 · 7 answers · asked by julie m 1

I am in love with a man that I have always been in love with. Occurances happened five years ago....we know we can only be truly happy together but we now both have our own families but are not happy with our current situations. Do we go be happy or do we stay on the sake of our kids......would it be selfish to be happy ? PLEASE HELP.....I miss him and love him so much but I am not "in" love with my current partner cause he dont live up to the man I truly love. CONFUSED.

2007-06-07 22:04:00 · 8 answers · asked by Me.Myself.& I 2

My husband and I are separating, his decision. He has moved out of the family home, then moved back in, then moved out, then moved back in..this time aggresively telling me it is his house too. I know people will say that I shouldn't let him, but he is a short tempered person and recently manhandled me leaving brusing on my arms. I am seeing a solicitor today, but how do I stop him abusing me. Last night he called me fat and lard ****..even though I have lost over 2 stone and he has always said my weight was never an issue (Istruggled losing the baby pounds) I feel emotionally and mentally exhausted. Why wont he just go if he is this unhappy with me. Last night he took our son and started saying to him how awful I was, and that mammy had a mental problem. My son is only 2, but understands alot. What can I do?

2007-06-07 21:38:54 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some1 who doesn't trust @ all.

2007-06-07 21:20:10 · 11 answers · asked by mommy2be 3

ok here is the thing my husband and i have been together for almost 2 years he had this house before he met but the house was a wreak and i helped fix it up he didnt want me to work he wanted me to be a stay at home mom and we've been together for 4 yrs and i just found out hes just cheating for 2 weeks and he said he wants to be with the girl and if he moved that he would quit hes job and not pay me alamony and he would work under the table and we live in missouri a no fault state he left me here broke and im wondering what i can do to get some money to support me i have really bad anxiety because of him he was abusesive and im trying to make sure im ok i need help pleassssssssseeeeeeee help me

2007-06-07 20:47:39 · 7 answers · asked by khissmyputtytat 3

Details.. Im 16. He's a month younger. Been datin since February. He asked me to marry him a couple days ago. I asked him if he REALLY thought about it & he said "We can get through anything & I love you so much" Also.. We argue alot.. atleast once a day & only known eachother for 6 months yet he says "I feel like I've known you my whole life." One more thing.. All our friends called him "Tha Playa" Supposedly once he found me he stopped.. cuz I'm "Different" & I wuznt easy like the others... Please Help..? Lol..

2007-06-07 20:42:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I took a Viagra just to see what it would do and this happened :(

2007-06-07 20:23:35 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

JUST WANTED TO SAY A FEW THINGS TO COUPLES THAT ARE THINKING ABOUT DIVORCE...
I WATCHED DIVORCE COURT THE OTHER DAY AND THERE WAS THIS COUPLE WHO WAS ON IT GETTING A DIVORCE OVER MILK....SERIOUSLY! THE WIFE HATED THE FACT THAT HER HUSBAND INSISTED ON DRINKING OUT OF THE MILK CARTON SO THEY WANTED A DIVORCE OVER IT......!!!!
MY POINT BEING TO THOSE THAT MAY BE CONSIDERING A DIVORCE....WHAT ARE THE REAL REASONS AND CAN THEY BE RESOLVED? IF SO THEN TRY ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE WHILE AT THE SAME TIME THNKING ABOUT WHY YOU GOT MARRIED IN THE FIRST PLACE...

2007-06-07 20:14:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was hurt a lot....
but i had no choice to give it a go...
but i want to be present there and make my wife realize that i m better than my friend....
what to do?

2007-06-07 19:49:47 · 19 answers · asked by rahul s 1

2007-06-07 19:38:25 · 8 answers · asked by Cherno C 1

i'm 26 yrs old, married to a 38 yr old guy for 2 yrs now and had a son. recently, i met a guy of same age in my work who's also married for 2months now, wherein his wife went back to taiwan for work. we're attracted to each other and i thought ours is just a mere flirting. as i have observed, my feelings for this guy is becoming deeper each day. i must admit that i have problems with my husband because he's jobless right now. should i pursue these growing feelings i have for the other guy since i feel happy and problem free whenever i see him? please help... kinda confuse. thanks!

2007-06-07 19:29:03 · 30 answers · asked by SASSYXXXGIRL 1

I would be tempted but thats more of a question for the ladies, lol.

2007-06-07 19:23:59 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are the do's & don'ts -that make the families one?

2007-06-07 19:23:56 · 5 answers · asked by Makeshift 4

He quit using alcohol and illegal drugs over 4 yrs. ago. However, now he has a health condition that warrants pain medication, but here's what his Dr's are giving him: 10mg. Lortab, 10 mg. Valiums, Soma, Lyrica, and long and short acting Morphine. He's not dying, like cancer, or anything like that - he has disc problems in his neck and back. But, his Dr's don't know he has this past history with the other stuff. He's given up working for now, and almost all other activities, unless you include sleeping and watching dvds. I am angry and confused. I don't know what I should do. He's considering surgery I think, but then again, I wonder how legit he is on that. I know he's in a lot of pain, but this seems to be an extreme amount of meds. What should I do? And, no, I don't want to leave him, we've been together for a long time.

2007-06-07 19:21:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-07 19:09:14 · 5 answers · asked by janeyphillips77 1

Your spouse?Sometimes i truly hate my hubby as in i wish he would go away sometimes not come back.

2007-06-07 19:07:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you say to this a**hole.. Whose only paid $300 or less in the last 5 years? Let it be known, that he's cyber stalking me on here right now, so speak out to him as well

2007-06-07 19:02:31 · 10 answers · asked by savagegrace 4

she doesnt say I love you when I tell her that I love her... all she sez is likewise, I feel the same way, ditto, I know you do, or aryt.. but mostly, all she sez is aryt... same thing when I tell her that I miss her... I feel so lonely and devastated...


were still both 18

2007-06-07 18:59:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-07 18:53:22 · 12 answers · asked by mile 1

My x bf sent me a pic of us from like kindergarten! My hubby got mad! my goodnesss, he's married I am married we r strictly friends!
He talks to his x gf's and I am cool with that! I trust him! He keeps makin little remarks like who r u seeing are u cheating on me! I never or would I ever cheat on him! Why would he say these things? Also now when I say I love you all he says is yep! I am not sure what his prob is and when I ask him he doesnt answer! Why would he act this way?

2007-06-07 18:46:11 · 7 answers · asked by woohooo 4

I just turned 30 today and feel really down. I am still in school, don't have a girlfriend and life seems hopeless.

2007-06-07 18:45:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubby and i have been married 3 yrs.We met while i was pregnant with my ex.bfs child(close friend of his)started of as just friends then started dating ect we fell head over feet.Anyway my ex.bf and i could not stand each other at the time and were playing the blame game not pretty situation i hated his guts swore he would have no part in his childs( sons) life.I got married my hubby soon after i gave birth to my son i made sure(harassment ect) that my son had no real/consistant contact with his bio father we even moved to different state.Problem is now my hubby is the only dad my son knows and our marriage is in big trouble constant fighting suspect hubby cheated?Hubby actually told me to go back to my ex.bf siting thats where i belong?

2007-06-07 18:38:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My man cheated on me, when we where dating for 2 month, with someone he had been seeing for about 2 years on and off.
He broke their relationship off, and when I wanted to leave asked what he could do to show how sorry he was. I replied that I was so hurt, and wanted him to feel the pain, so he cut himself in the palm of his hand, and bleedingly apologized, begging me to stay.

Later on I fell pregnant, and have been living together peacefully, but yesterday when I was speaking to the neighbored, he accused me of cheating on him. I can’t say the thought hasn’t entered my mind, but I’d never cheat on anybody, considering I know the pain it causes, and the trust it breaks.

Why is he doing this to me, and why won’t he stop?
Why doesn’t he belief me, of i have never broken his trust?
Why does he make me feel so cheap?
Why won’t he come near me any more?

I feel so guilty, even though I haven't done anything wrong. & I’m so agree, I wish I did. What’s going on? Is he cheat?

2007-06-07 18:34:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm just curious to see how many Americans guys would want multiple wives.

2007-06-07 18:33:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dunno have any sympathy for her.so please dunno say things like talk to her or so....
please give me ideas to give her a taste of her own medicine....

2007-06-07 18:31:19 · 20 answers · asked by rahul s 1