My x bf sent me a pic of us from like kindergarten! My hubby got mad! my goodnesss, he's married I am married we r strictly friends!
He talks to his x gf's and I am cool with that! I trust him! He keeps makin little remarks like who r u seeing are u cheating on me! I never or would I ever cheat on him! Why would he say these things? Also now when I say I love you all he says is yep! I am not sure what his prob is and when I ask him he doesnt answer! Why would he act this way?
2007-06-07 18:46:11 · 7 answers · asked by woohooo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the reason he sent me the photo was b/c i told him my son was graduatin gkinder. so he brought up he'd send me the pic..I thought it was neat I could show my son what I loooked like when i graduated...lol...
and yeah my son loved it! ugh just soo up set with hubby! He is acting childish!
2007-06-07 20:24:39 · update #1
first off my bestfriend is my wife however we are not just entitled to one best friend in a lifetime....her and i both have best friends from kinder school...went through our schools years with them...do we still talk to them yes does she feel threaten by my friendship yes she does..why i dont know...maybe because my best friend knows so much about me....maybe because when im having a bad day and just want to sleep...my friend can call and my day is bright once again...to me a best friend is great to have they are someone who isn't involved in your everyday life and sometimes we need a break from life..just to laugh about old time that only the two of you will know...would i ever or have i ever cheated on my wife no and its because of my best friend that i have never done so...my wife and i have been married for 12 years so believe me we have had our ups and downs....and best friends come in handy during those times...they keep you from doing some stupid ****....so your husband should be glad you have a best friend out there....just like you i cold care less if my wife and her friend talk i trust her....as long as you have that trust in him he should have that same trust in you...but from my stand point maybe he feels threatened by your friend...some people can feel threatened for no reason at all.you sound like a women who speaks her mind let him know how you feel and get the answers that you really want...we can only tell you what we think..he is the one you have to talk to ....but dont let your best friend go because he is acting childish...he married you knowing you had a male for a best friend if it didn't bother him while dating you then why does it bother him know
2007-06-07 18:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by adrik c 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your hubby feels bent out of shape a bit i mean your ex has a pic. of you since kindergarton, and maybe your husband feels you too share more than just pics. I mean from your husband stand point think of it this way. he's probably thinking what the hell does this other guy have a pic of my wife since kindergarden together. whats with that.
also maybe your gushing over this pic and the fact the other man has kept this for so long and your husband sense's this about you. making a big fuss over this other man. Either way no matter what he's feeling its bothering him and you should make sure he knows that you have eyes only for him and you care only for him. he is obviously feeling a bit put out or jelous to some degree.
I'd make more fuss about the good things your husband does and talk up the memories of you too doing happy things. and forget this ex boyfriend stuff bringing it up to him. Im sure you woudnt' want to hear his ex girlfriend talk about there times together and what pic she has of him.
So just show him more that your into him not this ex. and what the ex talks to you about. also your hubby could be pissed this is your ex and your still in contact with him. so maybe he feels threatened or that your not into him as much as you were before. always be careful of his feelings if in doubt my dear turn the tables and think wow how would i feel if he brought his ex into the sentance having dinner or what ever it was at the time you two were talking about. and if you feel crappy about it. two bits he is too.
He mad and hurt at the same time. Its your job to show him you do love him. we all feel that way at times. we get busy in our daily lives the children work etc.. just be more intuned with him and his feelings.. women have been saying that for centuries. men feel too. they just might not be as eager to express it as we are.
but he's letting you know in his own way.
good luck
2007-06-08 02:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it's not your fault your X sent you a photo. Perhaps there is a bit of jealousy coming from your husband? It is kind of cute, but not healthy for any relationship.
You shouldn't have too, but explain to him, it is nothing more than fond memories from your childhood.
2007-06-08 03:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by MsElainious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when people cheat they accuse the other of cheating
2007-06-08 01:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by mercedesofladies36 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people with guilty consciouses accuse those who are innocent
2007-06-08 01:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he guilty himself of cheating... or really insecure
2007-06-08 01:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by who ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating on you.
2007-06-08 01:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋