Marriage & Divorce - 7 June 2007

2007-06-07 13:21:37 · 3 answers · asked by seasideseeker30 1

my sisters child is getting married and she says no kids on the invite it just says me and my husband i have 4 kids one that is 21 and the 17 and twins that are 11 the 21 year old is not invited and my 17 year old can not be left with just anyone he is autistic and has diabeties so i have to be with him what do i do . I called my sister and told her but she says no kids do i just not go...helppp

2007-06-07 13:08:05 · 11 answers · asked by m k 1

Without her getting angry and abusive?

She's had a few too many happy meals. . .

2007-06-07 13:07:23 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous

As some might know, I posted a question re: reaching my answers limit for the day.

A suggestion was that I go looking at and vote on undecided questions. That got me thinking...

Why don't people thumbs up/down more often? I think a lot of posters go back and check to see how well their posts were received. Thumbs up/down are a great way for us to get a reality check on our opinions. So, why don't more of us use it?

2007-06-07 13:01:39 · 10 answers · asked by Melanie J 5

My fiancé and I have been having a disagreement about young children at the wedding and his mother is starting to get involved. I don't want children to ruin our wedding ceremony. I have been to too many weddings where children are crying and the parents don't want to take them out. I asked him about having a nursery and he said no, I think it was more his mother. He wants children because his step sister has two young ones and he wants them to be there. I told him that they won’t even remember it, but he said he doesn't care. What do I do???

2007-06-07 12:54:52 · 16 answers · asked by giggles028 1

have a date ? in secretlly , coz im afraid n worried he will refused , and what if he will tell to others that i asked him a date

2007-06-07 12:40:46 · 19 answers · asked by carmelite 2

My fiance was in contact with his ex almost the whole time we were together. He slept with her once. He didn't want to end contact with her after we got engaged. I don't understand why he would still hold onto her if he loves me.

2007-06-07 12:38:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have sex with you spouse and put them in a good mood
OR
NOT have sex and have them in a pissy mood?
And why?

2007-06-07 12:28:05 · 9 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

I have read we are suppose to exchange a special gift. I was thinking a hand written letter along with a photo book of our "dating" years.... Please help with AWESOME ideas!

2007-06-07 12:22:37 · 13 answers · asked by CaliforniaLove 3

2007-06-07 12:14:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

When ever I break my budget and use credit cards without consulting my husband he goes ballistic and now is threatening to spank me like a child if I don't obey.

He is in charge of the money and I do screw up his system when I don't tell him I spent more than my allowance. I forget or sometimes just don't want to hear him nag me so I keep it from him until the credit card bill comes and I have to face the music. This time I charged over $1200.00 and he said next time I would be spanked since I am acting like a spoiled brat!

2007-06-07 12:10:55 · 50 answers · asked by TERI Sexton 2

I am married with 3 kids a gorgeous women I am, but my husband does not seem to notice all he does is work,sleep play that horrible xbox360 and Rap yes I said rap with his friends while I am bored out of my mind , I work too and take care of 3 kids all day all i want is some quality time ,some romance and attention I ran into one of my old friends from highschool and he makes me feel wanted again ,I mean I dont hardly get any at home so I figure why not get some while I am still young .what would you do?

2007-06-07 11:59:01 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think it's pretty safe to say that I just don't do it for her, she's just not that into me. Either I just plain suck in bed or she's got somebody else on the side and just doesn't care anymore, either way, something is VERY wrong. Suppose there is an issue with affection and intimacy and has been for a long time. Things change briefly but always revert back to the way it always is. Is this normal or is my marriage over?? At night she rejects me...freezes when I touch her and never initiates anythign with me. I literally end up lying there crying it hurts so bad..yet she goes to sleep as if she doesn't care. Then in the morning she gets up, leaves me in bed, alone...and goes to the shower and gets herself off with the shower nozzle...like three or four times a week..... So is it safe to say that she's either got somebody else she's fantasizing about, or having sex with, or is she just not attracted to me anymore.... is my marriage pretty much over, am I a complete fool? Help me.

2007-06-07 11:55:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

who has a large "instrument".

2007-06-07 11:51:38 · 11 answers · asked by zOe 1

I've seen a couple of responses to the old adage "Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?". Now I think it's time for an informal poll. Did you or someone you know have a sexual relationship with another person and then get married afterwards? How did the marriage fare?

I have my own thoughts on this matter, but all responses are welcome. Just keep in mind that I want to hear stories about people's experiences, not diatribes about why the adage is right or wrong.

2007-06-07 11:45:21 · 6 answers · asked by Demon 5

the guys that treat them like crap over the ones that treat them like princesses?

2007-06-07 11:45:00 · 35 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

accepting the fact that we men, like to think and talk about sex! is in our genes and you will never understand it until maybe you get to have a peanuts yourself!

But seriously, why you get so offended? and also, yes we would like to screw as many women as possible (granted we are single) but women really get all emotional about it and I don't see the point. Oh yeah, just because women have to be emotionally attach to a men to have sex and we just see it as a normal physical need (like taking a leak).

So ladies, stop with all the drama about how men are menwhores, std catchers, ***$holes, jerks etc. just remember that next time you have sex chances are you will be having sex with one of us! LOL.

2007-06-07 11:42:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay i don't know about you other wifes have the same promble. I'm pregnant and you know that some woman become more horny and some become more less horny. well i'm one of the ones that aren't that horny that much anymore. and my husbands wants to have sex every day and i don't want to if i don't give him sex than he gets in a pis*** off mood all day. most of the time i give in but i just dont understand why he has to have sex every freakn day. and if he don't get his way than he is in a bad mood for the rest of the day because he didn't get what he wanted. but the more he pushes me that he wants to have sex the more i don't want it and more when he gets mad about it its bullshit

2007-06-07 11:41:58 · 6 answers · asked by lydiasmommy10806 2

She left me for another man just over 3 months ago after 23yrs being married. After she left I used to text her or e-mail at work we used to have good conversations, nothing lovey dovey just about general things. But she left work and could not e-mail her anymore. Anyway whilst texting her one day, she sent me her new e-mail address, so we started e-mailing again. However this was very sparidick. I later found out that this man she is with does shift work, nights & days. Some days she would e-mail during the day others at night. So me thinks she ony e-mails me when he is at work ? Still can't work out his shift patterns though. Also met her a few weeks ago for a drink & chat, and i sware there was still something in her eyes for me. But maybe this was just wishfull thinking. Talks broke down when I saw she was wearing his engagement ring. She as been cold with me since with hardley any e-mails or texts.

2007-06-07 11:40:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife has emotional problems. she left about a month ago. a few days after she left she emailed me and said that she wanted a divorce, all this stuff out of the house, and she was moving out over memorial day. I told her no she can't have this or that and that day didn't work for me. Since then, I haven't heard one word out of her in 3 weeks. only thing she's been doing is purposely showing up in places that she knows i go and the times i go. it's totally weird. i haven't heard a word from her....not one. i've also checked our joint bank account where i took money out and left the rest for her. it still has my name and she's been doing nothing. no money taken out for a apartment, no money going to an attorney, no money where she's doing anything except going to the grocery store and buying wine....a bottle a day. It's bizarre. i'm just kicking back but it's starting to freak me out. What does her behavior suggest?

2007-06-07 11:12:58 · 14 answers · asked by survivor 1

They are old classmates, coworkers, and Army buddies that I still keep in contact with via myspace. I have never had an intimate relationship with any of them. I have never given him a reason not to trust me. We've been married 5 years. His reasoning is that if I feel like I need to have guy friends, then he has failed as a husband.

2007-06-07 11:12:27 · 16 answers · asked by missylit 3

My fiance and i have been together for almost 2 years and things lately have been rocky. Earlier this week he told me he no longer wants me and he is tired of my "Drama". It wasnt really a suprise because he says that everytime we fight...But this time we didnt argue. He just told me that he was moving out in september and i was shocked.

My grandmother (who raised me) passed earlier this year and around the same time he got a promotion/new car. I was really depressed and i wasnt really noticing things with him. But before my grandmother passed i lost a baby...So i have been really sad.

Cant understand why this happening now...
but i have lost my fight for the relationship...i am tired but i want things to work at the same time.

Please help, what should i do?

2007-06-07 11:09:24 · 7 answers · asked by Samaria's mom 1

2007-06-07 11:01:28 · 5 answers · asked by ron s 1

why are people so rude on this thing? I asked a simple question and thought that i would get a simple answer. i did not have to go through my whole life story and explain every aspect of my life. does it matter what i call my man? WE have been living together for 3 years and in the great state of TEXAS that makes us legally together. so does it really matter what i call him? i still go throught the same thing that a military wife goes through... just because we do not have a piece of paper means my worries do not count? then they think they know everything and ask me why am I posting questions when i am in school.. i am 24 years old i am not in high school... school is school no matter where you go you can go to elementary, high school, a university or even Med. school. It is called school no matter where you go. I know i am prolly going to get bashed for posting this but common now...let all act like adults(unless you are children) and leave the bashing people for a face to face situation... not the computer.

2007-06-07 10:53:48 · 11 answers · asked by stefani 2

ok so not direct enough 28 f married 12 yrs m 29 he like some sports he disk golf ,music and workingout .. Icook clean take care of our kids. well there pre- teens so they do most the stuff themself we both work but he getts home before i do so he does dinner then we are off to the gym or watch tv... Ideas on spicing it up and just idea on ways to surprise guys up for anything?

2007-06-07 10:46:01 · 4 answers · asked by SKY 1

Well my husband and I just got married in Sept. 2006, everything was fine but recently I decided to do a little investagation because I had a feeling he as lying about something... so I did I found this girl on myspace and asked her what went on between her and him she said they saw eachother for a month or 2... it's a long story I just need some help and advice... please IM me
yahoo ID. j_guerr01 ..... MSN: jbote131@hotmail.com
PLease someone help me!!!

2007-06-07 10:43:15 · 16 answers · asked by Nay nay 2

2007-06-07 10:36:01 · 12 answers · asked by ron s 1

Since I can hatch my own babies, she says I don't need her, but I still like the sex. We've had millions of kids together, but she's still hot.

2007-06-07 10:35:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-07 10:32:49 · 22 answers · asked by sweetesthangeva0 1

He does everything for me almost to much we have been married 12 years . Need ideas on pleasing him not just sex ..any idea's

2007-06-07 10:30:05 · 31 answers · asked by SKY 1