My fiance and i have been together for almost 2 years and things lately have been rocky. Earlier this week he told me he no longer wants me and he is tired of my "Drama". It wasnt really a suprise because he says that everytime we fight...But this time we didnt argue. He just told me that he was moving out in september and i was shocked.
My grandmother (who raised me) passed earlier this year and around the same time he got a promotion/new car. I was really depressed and i wasnt really noticing things with him. But before my grandmother passed i lost a baby...So i have been really sad.
Cant understand why this happening now...
but i have lost my fight for the relationship...i am tired but i want things to work at the same time.
Please help, what should i do?
2007-06-07 11:09:24 · 7 answers · asked by Samaria's mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
seems to me like he needs to be helping you through your tough times, not punishing you for being down about the death of your grandmother and child. He's not worth being with if he can't support you during a depressing time.
2007-06-07 11:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by pb&j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel very sorry for you and I believe that you need professional counseling because you've had a lot of things happening to you in a very short time. You need to take care of YOU right now. Your fiance doesn't sound very supportive and I think that you should let him go and concentrate on yourself for a while. Only when you are strong and healthy can you have a strong and healthy relationship. I wish you well, sweetie.
P.S. Please do not bring any children into this world until you have a strong, loving, committed marriage. This is truly a loving gift you can give your children.
2007-06-07 18:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by Sage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek grief counseling to deal with the enormous amount of loss you have suffered...losing a loved one on top of an unborn child is devestating to the spirit! Cut yourself a break you are going through alot right now and he needs to come beside you and comfort you, if he can't it's better to let him go.
2007-06-07 18:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by juda75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you're husband is a jerk. You have been through a lot this year and he isn't even trying to comfort you. If he can't do that, you don't need him.
Second, if you really want to save the marriage, suggest counseling, but don't expect any miracles.
2007-06-07 18:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by StormyC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not willing to fight for him and the relationship then it definitly is over, might as well let it go with out the "drama". If you still want him, you HAVE to fight and you HAVE to change your ways.. My sisters favorite quote is "if you change the RE-action, he has not choice but to change his ACTION"
2007-06-07 18:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by boomquisha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything you can do. He seems to have made his decision and hasn't asked to do anything to see if you could work it out. You could ask him why now but I wouldn't get your hopes up that it will change his mind.
2007-06-07 18:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems heartless. Move on.
2007-06-07 18:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋