why are people so rude on this thing? I asked a simple question and thought that i would get a simple answer. i did not have to go through my whole life story and explain every aspect of my life. does it matter what i call my man? WE have been living together for 3 years and in the great state of TEXAS that makes us legally together. so does it really matter what i call him? i still go throught the same thing that a military wife goes through... just because we do not have a piece of paper means my worries do not count? then they think they know everything and ask me why am I posting questions when i am in school.. i am 24 years old i am not in high school... school is school no matter where you go you can go to elementary, high school, a university or even Med. school. It is called school no matter where you go. I know i am prolly going to get bashed for posting this but common now...let all act like adults(unless you are children) and leave the bashing people for a face to face situation... not the computer.
2007-06-07 10:53:48 · 11 answers · asked by stefani 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i did not understand your question so i went to your last one and i see what you mean..well start with the recruiting officer.. and go from there.. keep asking questions .. you could also try the welfare system.. tell them that she should be on this and you don't know how to get her on it.. they don't want any more people on Medicaid so they may be more incline to help you..but they also do not want children with out medical benefits..and **** the people who say he should have married you..
2007-06-07 11:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of life is not always hearing what you want to hear. Thin skinned people shouldn't share personal situations online. This isn't group therapy, it's not all warm and fuzzy, and there are plenty of trolls and internet bullies online.
Next, it's helpful if you are clear when you post. School is NOT school, and the reply to a grade schooler versus a college student is likely to be different. Since Y!A allows minors, when someone says "school" then grade school or junior high tend to be assumed. If you are in college, say college (helps people word their replies to what they assume is likely to be your maturity and age level).
Take what replies you like, and discard the rest. It's that simple. There are kewl people and idiots online...when you post in public forums you cannot prevent the idiots from replying, and venting at them later (as your post above) has no effect on them and just causes you to look questionable (and easily upset).
You want everyone to "act like adults" but kids age 10 and 11 post here...they are years away from being adults and at times it appears their maturity level rubs off on some of the chronological adults.
2007-06-07 18:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being "legally together" doesn't amount to a hill of beans no matter WHERE you live. You're still only shacking up, you're not married and I doubt you can get the benefits through the military until you do have the piece of paper. If you don't like the way people respond to what you have to say here don't say it, this is a public forum and you don't get to pick and choose who responds or how they respond. Now go grow up and stop whining.
2007-06-07 17:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Because so many people here are bitter...have you ever considered going to one of the other wives and explaining this situation to them and seeing if they can help you out? I know that military wives look out for each other!
2007-06-07 18:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by juda75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe sometimes its better to bash other people this way cuz people get their frustrations out here as well so they dont do it to the people they really care for. when people are in a bad mood they say things that they dont mean, darling.
dont take it all so personally on here. k? :)
2007-06-07 17:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Sometimes the answers are very rude. I just skim them and give them a thumbs down.
2007-06-07 17:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all "Prolly let all act like adults" when you learn how to spell and use proper grammar.
COMMON NOW...lol try "come on now"
2007-06-07 17:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by Luv2RIDE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I just want to say Thanks for your Mans service to this country and keep your head up. It will all work out!!!
2007-06-08 02:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax...don't take any comments online personal.
2007-06-07 18:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by RetroBunny69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question. I agree with you.
2007-06-07 18:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by I.B.Nerd♥sAngusDei 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋