He does everything for me almost to much we have been married 12 years . Need ideas on pleasing him not just sex ..any idea's
2007-06-07 10:30:05 · 31 answers · asked by SKY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Beer + Sex + A little sleep afterwards = happy.
2007-06-07 10:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by Desperate Loser 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I was gonna say give him all the sex he wants but you didnt want that reason lol
Thats what most men want anyways lol
Well..Ive been married 18 yrs,and Id admit Im not easy to live with sometimes.I have that redheaded temper and he knows it.But For me making and keeping him happy............loving him,being honest,open,communication,taking time for ourselves...we have 4 kids and you wouldnt believe what a weekly date night can do for you.I also do the other wife stuff...clean house,make his lunch,have dinner cooked etc but I dont think having the laundry washed up is actually KEEPING him happy lol
And to if he does everything for you,he enjoys doing it and that makes him happy if you're happy.
My husband is very laid back.Doesnt take much for me to keep him happy but whatever Im doing has kept him happy for 20 yrs ...18 being married.
Edited: I do leave him love notes a lot mostly at night so he'll see them when he gets up to get ready for work and sometimes i put notes in his lunch....he reads them in front of the guys and if they make him laugh he has to share lol
But he likes it.....he knows im thinking of him
2007-06-07 10:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by ...Tammy... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does he like to do? Hobbies? Sports?
If he is a football fan and you are in a town that has Pro team or a college team he likes, then get tickets to football or basketball or something like that.
Does he like fishing or hunting or camping? there are some ideas.
How about a new car? Dont know what you can afford, but believe me when i say he would be pleased as punch.
2007-06-07 11:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pleasing a man is a very direct question. No - I'm not going to tell you its a matter of sex, but a matter of honesty. This being said, I feel you should tell your husband how much you appreciate his efforts, tell him that he has outdone himself as a provider. Ask him what you can do to make his life 1/10 of what he has made yours.
Men enjoy the huge boost in ego and regardless of his reaction, you have given him eternal bragging rights.
2007-06-07 10:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by ForensicAccountant 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pamer him. Be nice to your in laws. Try whatever style he suggests. Buy him something which he is eyeing for sometime with the money that you secretly stashed. Learn more dishes from the recipes on the cookery section. Make him a man. Keep reminding him how ......... his ........ is.... Renew your love confession to him always. Take up a massage course just to service him.. That would get you a diamond.
2007-06-07 10:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by Vico 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive read some of your answers i get agravated with women that think oo give him beer and sex he will be happy thats all he needs this man is doing alot for you you need to give him more than just beer and sex and sports tickets to please him thoes things only temporaly make a man happy. you need to show you care by being there for him ,suporting his decisons and standing behind him no matter what it is and doing little things that you know will please him. spoil him make him feel like a million bucks not just once but every day do something for him
2007-06-07 10:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by Honey Badger Doesnt give a Shat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been married for 12 years and he still wants to please you and make you happy, that's good, don't you think?
Guys are very simple, they like their ego stroked, they like getting approval from their wives, they like a little attention. Cook him meals that he likes, take care of the home. Sounds like you have a keeper. I think you're on the right track anyway.
2007-06-07 10:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have been with the man for at least 13 years. Surely you must know him well enough to be able to tell what things you need to do to make him happy!
Don't ask us!
2007-06-07 12:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by LovablyMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make them everything they have ever wanted to be if you as a woman, make them feel like a man.
Strong, masculine, sexy, intelligent, good looking man. Truthfully, always compliment them. If they're respecting you as a woman, it should be easy to make him feel like king of the castle. You know how you would love to be the queen. Well, naturally that's how he will treat you. Nothing's better.
2007-06-07 11:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can u cook
Hot air ballooning/gliding
Some kind of adventure thing
Basically do what uv done for the past 12...cant go far wrong now can u?... but maybe better to ask him if he'd mind u doing something special...esp if its with his credit card :P
2007-06-07 10:34:10 · answer #10 · answered by pablo941 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋