Marriage & Divorce - 7 June 2007

1. Be sure its love and nothing else. 2. know that they are the one you want for the rest of your life. 3. Be sure finances are there to take care of you both.4. That living conditions are right at that time.

2007-06-07 10:27:29 · 25 answers · asked by marilynsue08 1

Now i am not divorce and i don't plan on it however its like the new thing to do around here. Even our favorite tv, movie, book author, chef, recording artist,singer, basketball star, pastor and list goes on is doing it. Not say that i want to follow the trend but i am sure they said the same thing but look what happened some have even been married for 10years are more. My questions is what is the legal process of going through a divorce (just in case) and what are somethings to avoid so my husband I can be truly married for all eternity until death do us part.




Please donot post anything nasty are i will report you. Thank you all YMCHILD.

2007-06-07 10:26:18 · 17 answers · asked by ymchild 2

2007-06-07 10:09:02 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do all of you that answered my question into whether or not I would be entitled to make a claim on my ex husbands inheritance, realise that my ex husband was a wife battering bastard who didn't really give one iota about his parents? You should not judge a person until you know the full facts.

2007-06-07 10:06:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do men want what they can't have? When I was single, I had a lot of guy friends, and as I got engaged many of my male friends began to want to pursue a relationship of being more than just friends. As I got married, many of them are still asking to be more than just friends. Obviously those men are not real friends. My question is, why do men want what they can't have?

2007-06-07 10:01:15 · 14 answers · asked by 0000 3

Ok, I have NO real proof that something happened but here is what I do have. I found STAMAX in his truck, he calls her all the time 3-15 times a day, talked for hours. When they were around each other it was obvious she was the center of his attention, late night swims alone. Last, conversation caught on tape, a lot of I love you so much (with a sexy'lust voice) My sweet sweet baby, plus she told him to make sure he wore protection because she would not put it past me to try and get pregnant (I am 40?) WE are not going to have that...he replied, dont worry I learned to protect myself a long time ago from that. They say HEY BABY to each other when answering the phone (sexy voice. Now all this and the kicker it is his new found 1/2 sister. This is a man I have been with for 12 years and has never talked or called anyone like that but me. Did he cheat, emotional or physical, he said NO WAY, I am crazy and wanted to leave me because of it for a while. Others have seen it as well, strange?

2007-06-07 10:00:05 · 20 answers · asked by peaches8866 2

My wife and I have been married for two years and we can't seem to get along. We have a one and a half year old daughter and we've only been in our home for a year. We are miserable together and we finally got a little violent in front of the baby so that was the icing on the cake. Any advice? Should we stick it out because things may get better? Should we face reality and end it already?

2007-06-07 09:57:50 · 15 answers · asked by airmandan10 2

I have been divorced from my ex husband for over ten years. He is about to inherit a substantial amount of from the tragic deaths of his parents, am I able to make a claim against his inheritance?

2007-06-07 09:54:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are doing the traditional paper.

my wife's name is brenda.

2007-06-07 09:53:56 · 6 answers · asked by Duanerschnitzel 2

She said you are one good looking guy,you will learn and grow from this.And the next woman you meet is going to be one lucky B.tch,because you won't make the same mistakes.I did learn from my mistakes my only regret is that i made them with her and i have tried to make that clear but she doesn't hear me anymore...Why

2007-06-07 09:53:52 · 12 answers · asked by Rodger M 1

What i mean is if you pay the max the court ordered(child support,daycare,and medical expensives) plus have joint custody 50% do u pay for extra things like sports fees,toys/clothes for your ex's house ect?My husbands ex will have thier son call and ask his dad to pay for these things and he allways does.Now money is very tight for us and his ex is not hard up.Now i'm not an evil stepmom(i love my stepson) and my hus is not a dead beat dad i just feel these things should come from the child support money my hus is allready paying her.i feel his ex is taking advantage of my husbands love for his son as this happens often.Should i just let this go?I have tryed to talk to him about it but he just get defensive.

2007-06-07 09:48:18 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had an affair over a year ago when I was out of state working for a month and a half (the affair lasted about 3 weeks), we broke up after that for a couple months, then got back together.

He has cheated on me twice (that I know of) about 3 years ago, I let it go and forgave him, however he said he never had s*x with anyone else, just kissed so what he did was way different.

We have been married for 6 years, together for 8, I am 23 and he is 27. I still love him but he is not the same, I can tell he doesn't really love me, he won't talk about it, what are some things I can do to help make him love me again? I want this marriage to work, we have a 5 year old daughter together.

I do not work anymore, I stay at home with our daughter. I already do all the "wife" things like make his lunch for work, have him supper ready when he gets home, keep the house clean, I rub his back when he's going to sleep. I do alot for him and still I get nothing.

I have put up with a lot from this man and I mess up one time and he can't seem to get over it. He has done much worse if we add up everything. So how can I get him to realize that it was a mistake, it's over, I love him and I only want to be with him? I want him to forgive me and try to find the love he use to have for me again, how can I work on doing that? He doesn't want to go to marriage counseling. Any suggestions? No critisisim please.
Thank you

2007-06-07 09:44:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been married for less than a year. i was told when we got married i would be able to get a diamond ring. well christmas came he didn't get it for me my birthday came i didn't even get a card, so today i went and bought my self one. i put in an acct with my parents address and if he asks i am gonna say i bought it from claires. i know this is bad but should i feel guilty. he never lets me spend on myself. i work a full time job plus part time on the weekends. i don't drink i don't smoke (he does both) and that cost money, what do all think?

2007-06-07 09:43:08 · 26 answers · asked by Life*goes*on 3

I live with my parents and I need to move out, get a new car(i have a 91 sentra thats gonna break down anyday) I need a better paying job, and i want to finish my schooling to be a RN which takes like 4 years i have a three year old whos in daycare which i can barley afford... what should i do where should i start i am 22 and a single mom.

2007-06-07 09:40:09 · 8 answers · asked by angela p 1

I come from what I thought was a happy family. That is, until we recently found out that my mom had been having an affair at work. No wonder she hadn't been coming home from 'work' until 9 at night. No wonder she spent so many weekends taking care of her sick mother. Apparently, it wasn't her first affair, either. As a wife of my father for 21 years, and the mother of four, this came as quite a shock. My poor dad had to find out when a slew of nasty emails from her lover were found on the home computer.
Not only that, but the emails revealed that my mom and this guy were planning on buying a house and leaving this summer. She even cashed in her 401 K so the courts would give her my dads. It is all a huge mess.
I have not spoken to her since the ordeal. She has contacted me leaving voicemails that range from being nice to saying that she wish I wasnt born.. and so on. I guess my question is, I know forgiveness is the right way, but what do you do if you have no desire to reconnect?

2007-06-07 09:35:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and i am getting a divorce. He has been living out in townhome while i stayed in a house and we have been paying for the mortgage of our house and the rent of his townhome for the last one year.
Now that we are finalizing the divorce, my husband wants to buy a new house and wants to take no further responsibility for the mortgage or the selling the house outside.
How would judge rule this situation ?

2007-06-07 09:34:41 · 5 answers · asked by Romi 2

I am a healthy 27 year old, and have been married for 5 years. My husband hasn't voiced any concerns about our sex life, but I have concerns. Before we were married, I was wild, adventurous, and untamed in the bedroom. There wasn't much I didn't want to try and explore. My sex drive hasn't gone down since then, but I have become shy and timid. I can't figure out why this is! I love sex and have a very giving partner. All of a sudden I feel almost uncomfortable. Even whispering something naughty in his ear makes me self-conscious and I used to be a pro at that! What is going on with me? Again, I love sex. It isn't a sex drive thing. Any ideas? It seems like after we married it was different. Like because we are husband and wife we couldn't have fun sex???? I don't get it. I am starting to feel like a virgin - shy and ackward. What gives?

2007-06-07 09:31:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife of nine years left me for a guy she only knew for three months. She keep telling me how much better he is then me. I cant get over her. She broke my heart in a million pieces. Right when i start feeling like im getting over it... It just hits me again. How can i get over this women?

2007-06-07 09:30:03 · 19 answers · asked by chriswh90 2

I admitted to my wife that at my last job I was like a kid in a candy store. There were always sexy women around. A few there were incidents involving other women. But, our relationship has drastically changed since then. Now, I want to go back and she is threatening to leave! Please advise.

2007-06-07 09:27:39 · 14 answers · asked by Dr. FeelGood 1

My husband and I have been together for a really long time and have known each other since we were 12. For about 6 years now, I haven't had a sex drive. I have had alot of life changing events happen in my life. My mother died right after I moved out of the house in 2004 and I had a baby in 2005. My husband and I are having problems because of this and I need to know what to do. He is more into all of the kinky things about sex and I am more into the romantic side of things. When we don't have sex, he pouts and acts rude towards me. That makes my problem worse. What can I do to help save our marriage?

2007-06-07 09:16:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous 1

Then they leave their wife for another woman and complain about alimony? It is not like she has a 401k she's been contributing to.

Seriously? I have heard too many men say their wife is not going to work, her place is "in the home" and she'd "better" have my meals ready for me when I get home. Then they leave their wife for their secretary, and then complain about alimony and child support.

Makes no sense to me.

2007-06-07 09:13:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband no longer knows what he wants in life? He proposed marriage counseling. Will it work?

2007-06-07 09:09:02 · 20 answers · asked by K9Girl 2

Divorced for three months,i moved out of state.I want to try again.It was like we had a unheathly relationship with a piece of paper.We both have grown alot since.I get the sense she is open to the posability of starting over from square one. How do i show her i love her more than ever and want to begin anew from 300 miles away .Do i send her little gifts of affection now and then,I need to show her my love and not just say it.What would get your attention ladies and really make you feel like maybe you would be willing to try again..

2007-06-07 09:07:25 · 3 answers · asked by Rodger M 1

Should a single mom share pictures of her kids to a guy she just met online (not met in person)???

2007-06-07 09:04:28 · 24 answers · asked by gr8tlife 1

My daughter’s father asked me to marry him this last march. My parents (who are well off but not rich) told us that since we were planning on buying a home this July they would give us a down payment if we got married at the courthouse, instead of paying for a wedding. So my husband and I put aside our “dream wedding” and rushed to the courthouse a month later so we would have money to move. They did give us $500 for our honeymoon and another $500 to live on when we got back. Now that’s it time to move they haven’t said anything about the down payment. I don’t want to be rude and ask because we really don’t need it but the fact that they told us they would give it to us and we didn’t have our wedding. I’m I wrong for feeling upset about this? Cause we really wanted a wedding!!!

2007-06-07 08:58:27 · 29 answers · asked by Carlie 2

My wife isnt in love with me but she wants to stay together for the kids plus she cant make it on her own

2007-06-07 08:53:38 · 20 answers · asked by brian c 1

I just turned 14 on the 4th. Today my mom told me that she bought her own place and was going to get a divorce. I don't understand. They got along so well and never fought. My mom told me it was because they grew apart. How can i cope with this? I feel like there's no hope for anything anymore. I was so close to them...

2007-06-07 08:49:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should you do should you choice the man you love and stick it out divorced.. or should you walk out and give him the divorce and act divorced as bad as it hurts...

2007-06-07 08:42:04 · 18 answers · asked by booboo 1

2007-06-07 08:36:00 · 11 answers · asked by cindyrae_2000 1

2007-06-07 08:32:54 · 43 answers · asked by Simi 1