2007-06-07 08:32:54 · 43 answers · asked by Simi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Both are important for her, but if being near to husband she can carry on with her career it will be best. Even the ladies working as government servants are given preferential transfer order to the station where her husband is stationed to be near her husband & continue her conjugal relationship with him. If the Government of India or any State Government follow such principle then why the spouses themselves follow this & get their jobs in the same place to be near to each other, fulfilling their conjugal relationship & marital obligations.
2007-06-07 18:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is actually a very open ended question, it would depend on many things. If my husband didn't support me and wasn't a very good husband and my marriage was falling apart I would choose a career. If my husband is a loving, caring, and devoted husband than I probably would have a strong marriage and choose my husband. By not sure why I would really have to choose if I have such a great husband he would support me in my career.
2007-06-07 08:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by 20+ years and still in-love! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband ! U have to make the family & nourish it. Work will not give all the emotional support u need. U can take care of some home based business in case u have to choose being with ur husband.
2007-06-07 09:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by Smile- conquers the world 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends. If I love my husband and he is capable of fully supporting our family, I would choose him and find a less demanding job. If my income was needed and the marriage was rocky, I would choose the career so that I could continue to pay the marital bills and so that I could support myself in the event of a divorce.
2007-06-07 08:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If possible, have both. What circumstances force you, to choose between two. If you want to be a free bird, then choose your carrer. If you want to be a family woman, then naturally you have to say goodbye to career if your husband insists. Normally, men do not want to sacrifice the careers of tehir woman, if it is a decent job.
2007-06-07 20:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by SGraja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What good husband would make his wife choose him or her career??? If he loves her he would respect her decision, unless she is more absorbed in her career than her husband. A wife (and husbands too) has to balance both. Or choose if it's too hard........>>>if it were me and my hubby told me I had to choose ...I would tell him he could stick it where the sun don't shine, because there is more to me than him....we are individuals also....
2007-06-07 11:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try to manage both. If not possible, check the career is really worthful of betting against husband or you may check your husband is really worthful against career? Actually this is an individual openion, we can't give general rule.
2007-06-07 08:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by KS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It actually depends which ever one you plan on being with the longest. If your marriage is great and you plan on being with him for years to come.....it's a no brainer you pick your husband, If your marriage is on the rocks and you are going through hard times and expect to be getting a divorce sometime soon, then maybe you should consider your career.
2007-06-07 08:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A husband because after some some age money and job are not important we require some one to take care of us so and husband is an imp .
2007-06-07 14:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
husband- true love may only come once in a lifetime...if even once, but you can always get a new career. A career can never make a person feel as complete as another person can.
2007-06-07 08:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋