Divorced for three months,i moved out of state.I want to try again.It was like we had a unheathly relationship with a piece of paper.We both have grown alot since.I get the sense she is open to the posability of starting over from square one. How do i show her i love her more than ever and want to begin anew from 300 miles away .Do i send her little gifts of affection now and then,I need to show her my love and not just say it.What would get your attention ladies and really make you feel like maybe you would be willing to try again..
2007-06-07 09:07:25 · 3 answers · asked by Rodger M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was the one that moved out of state.She is the one that has reopened the door.Maybe shes having second thoughts.I didn't want the diorce and asked her to give it time,counseling etc. But she went ahead with it and now seems to see things in a different light.
2007-06-07 09:17:37 · update #1
She's not a possession to win. Let her know WHO you are, WHAT you feel, what you WANT between you both....with an invitation to join you. This can be done either verbally or in writing, whichever you find more personally suitable.
Then it's up to her to let you know where she stands. Depending on her response, you either work on a new beginning.............or finalize the end. It may sound harsh However reality sometimes is exactly that.
2007-06-07 09:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give her one more chance to say yes, we can try again. Send her some flowers with a note. " I would really like to talk about things, I love you and forever will, if you would like to talk and still love me meet me at ______at ____. Go there and wait for her, give her about 30 minutes past when you would be expecting her, if she doesnt show, she isnt ready and possibly not interested.
The more you continue to push her and push her to be in a relationship with you, the more she is going to think you are for possessive of her, and it will push her away.
2007-06-07 09:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your one step away from stalking her! I think she wanted that space because she wants to get as far away from you in the first place . Leave her alone and let her have her space . Move on!
2007-06-07 09:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by wishingstar5555 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋