Ok, I have NO real proof that something happened but here is what I do have. I found STAMAX in his truck, he calls her all the time 3-15 times a day, talked for hours. When they were around each other it was obvious she was the center of his attention, late night swims alone. Last, conversation caught on tape, a lot of I love you so much (with a sexy'lust voice) My sweet sweet baby, plus she told him to make sure he wore protection because she would not put it past me to try and get pregnant (I am 40?) WE are not going to have that...he replied, dont worry I learned to protect myself a long time ago from that. They say HEY BABY to each other when answering the phone (sexy voice. Now all this and the kicker it is his new found 1/2 sister. This is a man I have been with for 12 years and has never talked or called anyone like that but me. Did he cheat, emotional or physical, he said NO WAY, I am crazy and wanted to leave me because of it for a while. Others have seen it as well, strange?
2007-06-07 10:00:05 · 20 answers · asked by peaches8866 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wanted you all to know I appreciate it. I have been going nuts. He did not talk to me for 5 months after I accused them both of sleeping together because he said that was over the edge. I love my sister and we have BOND/CONNECTION, but it is not sexual and your insecurities are now in over drive. He stopped talking to me, sleeping with me until 2 months ago, he has all the sudden been nicer and said that he has been so mad at me for telling people such BS and that if I ever thought he could do that after all these years then I do not know him YET. What is sad is that he has loved me to death until this, I was the taker he was the giver. They still talk everyday, but not in the same manner. He was depressed for months and is now coming out of it, I think he had to get over her, I am not sure about any of it anymore. What if I am wrong and accused them of such bad things, not knowing is killing me !
2007-06-07 10:15:27 · update #1
well if they are family that would explain the i love yous but it does sound a lil suspecting. my dad used to cheat on my mother with other married women the reason he did is because it is easier to cover up( no married woman is going to come out and say they cheated). so its a possibility that he is cheating on you with his half sister because it is easier for him to conceal from you and it makes you look like the crazy one in the end. if you really feel there is something going on you can buy an hidden camera here is a cheap one on amazon.http://www.amazon.com/Wireless-Color-Camera-Night-Vision/dp/B000B6GMXM/ref=pd_bbs_1/104-8326138-6418311?ie=UTF8&s=electronics&qid=1181250616&sr=8-1
i agree strongly with the person below me. the smart thing to do is just to run for the hills now before the poo gets too deep.
i really feel for you i pray you are not wrong but sometimes all a person has to go off of is a hunch and yours was just a lil more then just a hunch, have you ever saw the show cheaters i believe you would be a good canidate for that show you should contact them.
2007-06-07 10:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by Honey Badger Doesnt give a Shat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi There: Sorry you are suffering so much. Have you heard the Carrie Underwood song that is was so popular recently, "Before He Cheats?" YES, he is cheating! Take a deep breath, get a good cousellor and protect your assets. I would suggest calm down, and move all your valuables out. Don't let him have a clue and then move on. He will do it to her and to you again unless he come clean. Best wishes. Remember everything in life is temporary and you deserve better. Respect and love yourself. Have plan and get out soon. Natasha
2007-06-07 17:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by natasha 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
FACT CHECK:
* Stamax in his truck
* Calls 3-15 times a day
* They talk for hours.
* She's the center of his attention when she's around
* Late night swims
* Expressing love for each other
* She warns him not to get pregnant with you
* They call each other "baby"
and last but not least.........
* THEY"RE RELATED!!!!!!!!
If this doesn't scream "run for the hills!" then I don't know what does.
2007-06-07 17:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your Husband purchases a sexual stimulant at a time where he is not having sex with you - its a no brainer - HE IS CHEATING!
The fact it is with a half-sister makes it so incredably EWWWWW. Get out and kick his incestuous butt to the curb.
Take care girl, this man has no problem lying to you. Worry about what else he might be hiding
2007-06-07 17:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is plain as day that something is going on or went on! How would he like it if you did or acted the same way with another man. Leave him, there are plenty of other men out there who are worth you time!
2007-06-07 17:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ineedlove 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh but you do have proof. I'm going through this myself. Confront him, tell him you know what's going on and it's time to come clean. Then go from there. My husband seems to have come clean, so I'm giving him another chance, but it's his last one. Only you can decide what you're willing to take and not take. My heart goes out to you. Good luck.
2007-06-07 17:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by Comancheria 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweet Jesus, that guy checked out ages ago. Call it what you will, the original relationship is over.
2007-06-07 17:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, to tell you this, but RUN AWAY!!! It doesn't sound good.... or healthy. Get to thte bottom of it in a brutally honest conversation. You will be able to tell within 10 seconds....
good luck....
2007-06-07 17:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by flyfish_777 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Why are you asking us? Obviously you are going to stay in this situation forever if you have to get online and ask people who you don't even know if he cheated...
2007-06-07 17:12:00 · answer #9 · answered by mommy4two05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry!!! But I would leave him if I were to be in your shoes... I believe he had an affair... It is obvious... Good luck.... Don't get caught up in the game.. It is self said... Leave him!!!!
2007-06-07 17:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by marleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋