Marriage & Divorce - 7 June 2007

Is it unreasonable to want my partner to kiss me hello when he comes home? I just want a little hug and kiss or 'missed you' or a little something to know that hes happy to see me.
When I give HIM the kiss when he comes home he said it feels like im 'attacking' him and he cant get a chance to set his things down even.

Is it unreasonable of me to want more love from him? I feel like Im just not getting enough attention/love/affection/companionship.

2007-06-07 06:45:29 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

be stuck with the wife for many more years as she gonna live to be an oldie?????


I love her really ......

2007-06-07 06:39:37 · 20 answers · asked by londonletch 2

My husband has forgotten my birthday for the last two years, Christmas well the gift part mother’s day (this year was my first) and he believes that a women’s place is to cook clean and do everything around the house and work- he has gotten fired from the last 6 jobs and his contract is not being renewed because his boss feels he is not motivated enough. I am so mad!!! And now I am just ferrous because my bday was June 4th and I got nothing!!! Not even a stinking happy birthday- and it’s marked on the calendar on the computer!! We have been marriage for one I have done everything he’s wanted plus throw a surprise party for his mother he wanted, made a big deal for xmas as it was our sons first- I am so frustrated and he thinks I’m over reacting!!! There so much more but I one have 1000 characters…. what can I do!!!

2007-06-07 06:33:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have no kids, and we have a beautiful relationship. We talk about marriage sometimes but if i bring it up, he just says like 1 sentence,and then changes the subject. I know he loves me, but im tired of waiting to get married. we are living together now for 3 years and i feel its time to move on to the next step. please help!!!

2007-06-07 06:31:11 · 31 answers · asked by PrinCipeSSa ItaLiAnA 3

be brave and insult people, make outrageous remarks or comments but do not list their e-mail so you can argue you point?

Bunch of Cowards if you ask me!

2007-06-07 06:28:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I'm getting a divorce for my xgirlfriend and now she has a boyfriend. I went running last night and they were walking in MY neighborhood. I did a double take. First time in 1 1/2 months, won't speak to me. Quite honestly, she looked awful, was wearing a track suit-never used to wear those, looked like she had put on 20 lbs and the guy she was with was an older, short out of shape mexican/arab looking guy. I almost laughed my self to sleep last night. She acted absolutely embarassed when i ran by her twice, like she knew she messed up. What should i do about this? anything, its like i've made a huge comeback in the looks dept. Grown my hair longer, got a tan, lost weight, wear contacts now, its like she was shocked at how different i looked. I could pass for a surfer and this happens?? She stuck arnd while I was married for 5 years, dated her before i was married too. Now I have a kid, but my divorce will be final before the end of summer. Do I still pursue this girl?

2007-06-07 06:27:49 · 8 answers · asked by ilosthernyc 1

Shes my ex as of two days ago.But looking back both before we were married and during i was somewhat blind to what it really meant to our relationship.She never drank in my presence.She would pull to the side of the road just before getting home from work and slug back some Vodka.I could smell the alcohol or listerine when she would greet me.She would never kiss me when she got home because she was trying to hide it but i could smell it all the same.One day i left to go out of town for work but half way there the plans changed and i turned around to return home.When i arrived she was throwing up in the toilet and the bathroom reeked of vodka.I tried to help her up but she wanted to be left alone.She said she was embarassed and when i asked her how long she had been drinking like this she said for 15 years after she found her first husband in bed with another woman.Her moods would change from one miniute to the next.I don't drink,i sher fist love the bottle?

2007-06-07 06:22:09 · 9 answers · asked by Rodger M 1

but than he will turn around and look at me and tell me he loves me what do i do and he does stuff that makes me think that he loves me what do i do we have three kids

2007-06-07 06:06:55 · 5 answers · asked by leanne 1

i've been talking to a man who's married and so am i . just friends , platonic. no advances has ever been made. he has this really cool car that i said to him some day if you have the time i'd like a quick ride in it. we had lunch together tuesday , and he said after work he'd give me a ride since i treated him to lunch.i got busy and and left work work with out telling him. yestarday i bought a ice coffee at a fast food place across from where he works , and he came in and asked what happened , but upset. i told him what happened and i was sorry.we hung out for an hour , and he wants to make tuesdays our lunch days.i enjoy his company , he's a lot of fun to be with.we connect well.i'm not sure what he wants , maybe he doesn't know. he told me yestarday he loves talking to me , and he loves our friendship.

2007-06-07 06:03:00 · 7 answers · asked by pitbullmom 3

My ex wife is telling people whom I have contact with that the divorce was caused by me being 'abusive'. for 7 7/12 years I've been with her, I never even raised my voice on her. The final 3 months after she filed the divorce, I did let out my frustrations on 2 occasions. While we were arguing(by this time, my voice did raise up and so did hers), I did throw TV remote into the fireplace bricks, twice. I never ever touched her out of anger. So, why am I looked at as 'abusive'?

2007-06-07 06:02:02 · 25 answers · asked by James 2

2007-06-07 05:59:57 · 16 answers · asked by casey308 2

Can ot be renewed? or saved?

2007-06-07 05:52:07 · 19 answers · asked by luna 5

2007-06-07 05:50:17 · 14 answers · asked by Master 1

If you are still with them how do you deal with it on a day to day basis. Do you still trust them, do you still feel the same way about them?

2007-06-07 05:41:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

4 or 5 times a day? That's a lot, even for me, but if I wanted it that much and she didn't let me have it, I have the right to be upset, don't I?

2007-06-07 05:41:32 · 42 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

2007-06-07 05:32:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-07 05:32:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

We know it is the government to control the single marriage. In Chinese and many other cultures, used to be one husband and many wifes, which can be sweet if you like it. What do you think?

2007-06-07 05:29:28 · 25 answers · asked by Lebron Yao 1

my bf is such a great guy!! We'll be getting married in a couple of months. I feel extremely terrible because 6 months into the relationship i cheated on him and he loved me enough to stay. I haven't cheated since. I can't say i have an excuse for doing what i did I guess i can say i was being selfsiha nd immature. What happened was that i went out with another guy after my bf & I had an argument. Nothing happened between me and that other guy but we kissed. I haven't seen the guy since and it was a one night of going out thing i didn't "see" him over a period of time or anything like that. I kept it from my bf and he found out i went out a night when he was looking for me so eventually he figured out himself that i was with someone else that night. I didn't spend the night with the guy but it was bad enough i went out with him. Now that my bf & i will be getting married i'm scared that later in the years he may want to get back at me & do the same to me just out of revenge.

2007-06-07 05:14:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've always respected my dad's privacy but lately something has been bugging me. He tends to mention a female coworker often. I can see him chatting with her every single day. Infidelity seems to be running in the family, actually. I can't really sleep well because it's been in my head for these past few days. My parents seem happy enough though but they're good at hiding stuff from me and my sister. What exactly are the signs of infidelity? And how will I know for sure?

2007-06-07 05:13:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whenever Wondering Wife is out with her Ogling Spouse, she often catches him checking out other women. Ogling Spouse thinks he is being discreet, but his wife catches him ogling women all the time. Wondering Wife has tried to overlook this juvenile behavior but Ogling Spouse’s co-workers have begun complaining about his ogling. Some women at his job said, “He has a staring problem.” Another co-worker said, “He is creepy.”

2007-06-07 05:04:49 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in the process of getting out of my current relationship. At soon to be 40 year old lady with a profession (nurse) , I still have not found Mr. Right. I learned that It begins with me and learning to love myself FIRST.This includes pampering myself and treating myself right. This also means that I should have a healthy self-esteem. I am childless. My parents are in the 70's. I reside with them now. However, what if I have to live on my own someday? I'm a little afraid to live on my own because of loneliness but more so for safety reasons and if I get sick (God) forbid, no one will be there to help. Any thoughts?

2007-06-07 04:55:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He currently admitted to me that if our relationship didn't work that he would date my bf.

2007-06-07 04:48:55 · 41 answers · asked by confused 1

My brother can't see his kids because his wife won't let him. When he goes to court over child support, the judge tell him that is another case matter. He haven't seen his kids in 2 years. He have no money to hire a lawyer. He lives in Va. Any advice on how he can see his kids?

2007-06-07 04:48:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just want to know what to do or how to do it with my husband?

2007-06-07 04:42:07 · 44 answers · asked by franzee19 1

does that make sense? it does to me. i was too hurt yesterday that i ended our relationship. for the first time, i didn't think twice about my decision. it was a mistake repeated, and i had enough of it. he cried. even so, i could still stick to my decision then. but when he asked me to kiss his forehead for the last time, i couldn't do it. it's strange cos i was so on about the whole moving on thing. but at the same time i don't want to move on. i am still strongly attached to him. when i kissed him on the lips, i felt as though everything was perfect again. like there weren't any problems. i want to give it another chance. but i am 89% sure it's going to happen again. i am scared now. the decision i made to give him another chance. now i feel so scared of everything that i wished i didn't have made that decision. what is it that i am going through right now?

2007-06-07 04:36:15 · 7 answers · asked by IamherewhenIhavenothingtodo 2

Let me explain. He was upset because I supposedly gave him mixed signals. I am in therapy and it was a hard day so I was emotionally wiped out. He was feeling froggy and I wasn't soooo he got all bent out of shape because he didn't get his way. He spouted off that I was looney and needed to get my head on straight. Well -- gees I am working through alot of issues right now and I am really trying. How do I handle the situation? I am trying to be all to everyone plus get myself healed too. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

2007-06-07 04:20:22 · 20 answers · asked by crazicowgirl 2

looking at women. I don't stare, but I do look and observe. I especially enjoy seeing a woman dressed up in a skirt, high heels, etc. Does it bother you if a man looks at you when you are out in public? What sort of reaction do you have if you are being noticed? Do you do anything to encourage the looks???

2007-06-07 04:18:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my husband says he loves me all the time but its strange to me that he will never ask me what is bothering me inspite of he being very sensitive of my moods.when later i bring this up he will say he doesnot jump to conclusions and he was giving me time coz according to him time will automatically make me ok.i find this uncaring on his part and his callousness.i feel ignored and later i turn resentful.i feel its causing tensions between us.i have explained this to him so many times now but everytime he does this.we are married just since four months.he is also very closed about everything,meaning doesnot answer lots of my questions regarding his thoughts about things.there he gives me an explanation that he has blocked his emotions since young and has been a loner since years.i find this really hard to deal with.though i try keeping patience but it gets on my nerves.why doesnot he answer me when i ask him his mind?it makes me feel as if i am nothing for him.how can i deal with him?

2007-06-07 04:04:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, sooo. Here is my situation. I am a 30 yr old wife with no kids and an 80 lb golden retriever. I live in the NYC area. I have a graduate level education and my husband has a MBA and earns $100K annually. I don't work outside the home, but I do everything else. Cleaning, grocery shopping, cooking for dinner, taking dog out twice daily for walks, laundry, paying bills, taking out garbage, dishes, vacuum, trips to vet, setting up all appointments. In addition, I am a size 6 and very in shape and many people say 'beautiful.' Sooo, my husband is constantly on my case and tells everyone at his job that I 'sit at home all day.' He is always saying to me how I am not using my education and that 'all families today are dual income.' His parents were Polish immigrants. He was born here, in the states. In addition, he only wants sex once a month on average, and he watches porn often to masturbate. Should I leave him???

2007-06-07 03:54:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous