4 or 5 times a day? That's a lot, even for me, but if I wanted it that much and she didn't let me have it, I have the right to be upset, don't I?
2007-06-07 05:41:32 · 42 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No..I believe you have the right to remain silent. I'd exercise it.
2007-06-07 05:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by wizjp 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have the right to feel however you want to, but just know that she might not be able to put up with it. The thing you have to realize is that while you are upset for her not fulfilling your sexual needs, she is probably equally upset that you are not respecting her needs not to. The two of you need to meet somewhere in the middle, with realistic expectations, 4 or 5 times a day is not realistic. Who even has that kind of time?
2007-06-07 05:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by Buck Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you dont. Have you considered her feelings on this? WHy cant she be upset with you for wanting to have sex 4-5 times a day. You should also respect her feelings. It is not just about you.
2007-06-07 05:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by SG GAL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. You can think you are upset, but to actually show, no not so much. How about all the times you wanted sex and she didnt but still did (you know it happened) Unless it happens on a consistent basis you have nothing to complain about and if you are getting it 4 or 5 times a day and complaining about the one time you didnt, you should be circumsized with a dull knife.
2007-06-07 05:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by dave n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew her when you married her.
Is she flat out refusing you? Or is there some sex?
But you have to try find a happy medium. She should try to compromise with you. 4 or 5 times a day may be a bit much. You have to really talk to her and find out if there is a problem. Maybe something's going on that you don't know about, Try counseling if you have to.
You seem like you love your wife.
Good Luck
2007-06-07 05:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by littlecraps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a no win situation at times when sex is the issue in marriage. You want it..she doesn't and then vice versa. It's all about compromise if you ask me. I'm not ashamed to admit that I on occasion have given in to my Husband when I wasn't really in the mood. Why? Because, I love him and his needs are important to me. There are times I'm sure he's done the same for me. It's a compromise. But, to just be a jerk about it and be insensitive is a separate issue. If she's sick or hurt..and you "demand" sex.. That's wrong of you. Vice versa.
As far as the 4 or 5 times a day thing goes.. C'mon.. that's just ridiculous.
2007-06-07 05:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by Christine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. not exactly, the same goes for her. you need to be understanding with her and she needs to understand you. the way that you can understand her is by asking her kindly if she wants to have sex. if she says no, then let her cool down maybe she had a lot of stress that day, wait at least and hour then ask her again. this time try seducing her.women like that. maybe kiss her on the ear. or hug her from behind. us women need a little push to be sexual. unlike men that you guys are ready for action any time. as for your wife she needs to set time aside for you as well. she might have had a bad day at work or at home with the kids or both but that does not exclude her out of her wife duties. she needs to keep you happy as well. so my advice is to have communication and patience amongst each other. i am a wife and i know that sometimes i don't feel like having sex but i do it. it is a stress breaker.lol good luck.
2007-06-07 05:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by Lovable ♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT AT ALL!!!!! you h ave no right to et upset if she doesnt want to have sex. thats not what a relationship, or a marriage for that matter is based on. if you want it 4 or 5 times a day perhaps you need some help, because its bordering on an addiction and will start to interfer with you entire life. i think you should consider it, going to see a doctor. you married her and made promises for all sorts of thing, in good and bad, sickness, health. life and till death do u part, but at this rate i'd divorce your booty for being a saex driven pervert. its one thing to be turned on and think about it, but its another to try and get so me 4-5 times a day. you are a perfect example as to why men are considered pigs.
2007-06-07 05:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes why not. I think she's just wondering why doing it 3 times a day is not enough. Maybe you can even be romantic about it. Just remember that a relationship is not based solely on sex, and maybe this is why she doesn't want to do it as much cause you can spent time talking to her too.
2007-06-07 05:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by rosalinda r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she won't allow you to masturbate to take care of yourself, then yes. Otherwise, no. If she's having sex with you every day, you're already doing better than most husbands out there. Just practice a little self-love and you'll get by just fine!!
Now, go find the Kleenex, you cheeky monkey!
2007-06-07 05:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to be upset that the toilet seat is down if you want to push it.
However, just because you have the right to be upset doesn't mean you should get your way.
2007-06-07 06:29:34 · answer #11 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋