does that make sense? it does to me. i was too hurt yesterday that i ended our relationship. for the first time, i didn't think twice about my decision. it was a mistake repeated, and i had enough of it. he cried. even so, i could still stick to my decision then. but when he asked me to kiss his forehead for the last time, i couldn't do it. it's strange cos i was so on about the whole moving on thing. but at the same time i don't want to move on. i am still strongly attached to him. when i kissed him on the lips, i felt as though everything was perfect again. like there weren't any problems. i want to give it another chance. but i am 89% sure it's going to happen again. i am scared now. the decision i made to give him another chance. now i feel so scared of everything that i wished i didn't have made that decision. what is it that i am going through right now?
2007-06-07 04:36:15 · 7 answers · asked by IamherewhenIhavenothingtodo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am afraid he would take advantage of me, now that i've let in. how to be more stern?
2007-06-07 04:45:18 · update #1
i don't know if you did the right thing but if it has happened more than once and nothing has changed then you either decide that you are ok with being treated like that or you move on. when we are faced with the end of anything we almost always have those bittersweet moments when we remember when it was good. but you cannot let yourself be fooled into thinking every thing is ok. that is your heart trying to keep itself from breaking in any way it can. the only way out of the pain is through it. when someone hurts you like that you have to stick up for yourself and say enough is enough. you know you deserve better than him-be sad, but don't doubt your decision. you are going through the normal feelings of heart break. be well soon.
2007-06-07 06:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by adelaide 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going through something completely normal... Do you want to end it because you don't love him anymore, or because he doesn't treat you right? If he doesn't treat you right, like very very wrong, run. But if you guys just have alot of things that haven't been settled and talking never works but you still want to be with each other, try counselling, its not for crazy people, its for everyone. Counselling could really help you guys have a better communication with each other and you can help each other in being happy... It's a hard thing to do but once you both have taken that step, it means you both love each other enough to stay strong.
2007-06-07 11:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK AT THIS MOMENT YOU ARE VERY CONFUSED AND HURT. YOU NEED SOME TIME TO YOURSELF TO THINK THINGS OUT. SOUNDS TO ME THAT YOU CARE ENOUGHT TO WORK OUT THE BAD SITUATION. LIKE YOU SAID THO, YOU ARE TAKING A CHANCE OF HIM DOING WHATEVER HE HAS DONE AGAIN. IF SO, RUN FAR FAR AWAY AND DON'T LOOK BACK.
2007-06-07 11:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. you have described EXACTLY what i am feeling and going through. I feel for you, because i know what this is doing to me......i wish the best for us.
2007-06-07 12:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Gracie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently he hurt you real bad so stay away, people usually go back to their old behaviors.
2007-06-07 11:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by beachy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try counseling and see if there is any hope left
2007-06-11 05:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont trust him...
2007-06-07 11:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋