2007-06-07 10:32:49 · 22 answers · asked by sweetesthangeva0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not neceessarily. But both in couple have to be very mature, not jealous and be into it. Also, rules must be discussed beforehand. Then, get on with it and have fun! Liquor and a hot tub help.
2007-06-07 10:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general, Yes I do believe it ruins relationships. Look toward your partner for satisfaction, not away. Some fantasies are best left as that. Something you talk about to get turned on, and that's it. Just because you have an impulse doesn't mean you have to act on it.
2007-06-07 17:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless both people are ready for what it actually involves, yes, it can ruin a relationship. 3-somes are not just about bringing someone else into your bed. there is a lot of emotion that has to be dealt with.
2007-06-07 17:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely... relationships are not a game. Take them seriously. You and your bf/gf should be exclusive to each other. If you can't do that, you need to find someone else that you CAN be exclusive to. Whether or not it's a threesome, it's still cheating. Even if your bf/gf is there. You're cheating on each other knowingly... what's the point??
That's how STDs and unwanted pregnancy come up.
2007-06-07 17:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I do not know the relationship, I may only offer that threesomes can lose the intimacy and focus offered in a one on one relationship.
2007-06-07 17:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by ForensicAccountant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Please take it from me sweetheart. I'm a relationship counselor of 5+ years and believe me when I tell you that EVERY SINGLE TIME A WOMAN GIVES IN TO HER HUSBAND'S FANTASY OF A THREESOME, THE RELATIONSHIP ALWAYS TAKES A TURN FOR THE WORST. There are so many reasons as to why this is and I don't have time to explain them but trust me on this one....DON'T DO IT!
2007-06-07 17:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by Eddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are comfortable in a good relationship. No. If you and your spouse are totally connected and have no trust issues, you will be ok. Making love to your spouse is different then a romp in the bed.
2007-06-07 17:38:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know 1 swinger couple who seem happy, but for the life of me I can't see how they are intimate with each other. My wife and i still have funny feeling about the foursome we had in our youth it eats away at the purity and innocence intimacy with the spouse.
2007-06-07 18:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by Lovemykids 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if you and your dude have a good relationship then it can overcome anything. But if you have an relationship where y'all always screaming and hollering at each other then its mayn't work. And if your man always bringing up the other chick name when he is hitting it from the back then something is up
2007-06-07 17:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by crazyloving 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some, it adds new spice in a relationship.
Just make sure the you don't have a problem with it if she doesn't.
If she wants another man to be involved, it should be OK for another woman to be involved also, it goes both ways.
2007-06-07 17:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by james 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋