she doesnt say I love you when I tell her that I love her... all she sez is likewise, I feel the same way, ditto, I know you do, or aryt.. but mostly, all she sez is aryt... same thing when I tell her that I miss her... I feel so lonely and devastated...
were still both 18
2007-06-07 18:59:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, I am sorry to tell you this...but...I do not think she loves you anymore...I am sorry....This is my honest opinion, from what you are telling me
2007-06-07 19:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She does not want to hurt you; however, she is moving away from you emotionally. Perhaps because one or both of you will be going to college soon, causing a separation? Perhaps she wants to date other people?
Something is wrong and you need to seek her confidence in telling you WHAT EVER IS THE MATTER. THEN, DO NOT GIVE HER A HARD TIME, WHAT EVER IT IS.
HER CONFUSION MEANS SHE IS TRYING TO MAKE A DECISION...I SUSPECT ONE THAT YOU WILL NOT LIKE. BE BRAVE AND ACCEPT ALL AND MOVE ON. AT 18, YOU CAN LOVE AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN....EVEN MORE SO WITH ANOTHER WHO WILL RETURN IT. GOOD LUCK.
2007-06-08 02:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her space. whether she feels the same love for you or not, suffocating someone doesn't give them time to realize their feelings could be more than liking, and causes them to only be hostile. if she does love you -she'll come around. if not - you have to let her make that choice. Either way, don't let her play the yo-yo game of loving you only when it's most convenient for her or when she decides she's lonely. Let her know that when she makes her decision -it should be final - otherwise you will end up dragging things out way longer than necessary with only regrets to look back on.
2007-06-08 02:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by christie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the one to tell you, but she is no longer in love with you. Maybe she doesn't even realize what she has, or maybe she has grown in a different direction. I know that it will hurt, but you need to let her go. If it was meant to be, she will come back. In the meantime, just try to get out and occupy your time. You may meet someone better suited for you. Good Luck!!
2007-06-08 02:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is to give her some room. You will also find that it will give you a chance to really think more clearly about the relationship. You may not love her as much as you think you do.
When you give her some room go and spend time doing some other things you like to do. You may want to even try dating other girls as well.
God Bless
2007-06-08 02:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's not sure if she want't to be w/ you and that she might be thinking about dating other people. Sucks! Believe me I KNOW. My ex just dropped that on me a couple weeks ago. My best advice is to get out and hang out w/ your boys. Go out and show her that you don't need her to have fun. Also, I know right now it feels awful, but it will get better I promise. Lastly, boy you're 18! Don't worry. Love will find you and it will be amazing. You sound like a sweetheart. She's dumb for not realizing it!. You deserve a girl who appreciates you.
2007-06-08 02:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by zz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give her some space. If that doesn't help, tell her you need to know if she loves you or not, and ask her why she doesn't say it back. You both are still very young, so even though you are hurting, there are still plenty more fish in the sea.
2007-06-08 02:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by meteor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that all relationships have a time when they need to be apart. there s a saying that says, " if something is yours let it free and if it returns it is yours and if it doesn't it means that it was never yours. " so if she comes back , enjoy the relation, but if she doesn't there will be a greater love for you. there is always someone to love waiting for the right moment.
2007-06-08 02:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by hope55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her about it. See what's going on with your relationship and see why she hasn't been saying that she feels the same way about you. She may not be ready to say that she loves you because she wants to make sure that she really is in love with you before saying it or she is hinting that things aren't working out.
2007-06-08 02:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by Paisley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this, but she isnt feeling the same lovey dovey feelings as you are. She might only feel 'friend' feelings towards you.
For her being confused, its because she doesnt know if she should stay with you because shes confused about her feelings towards you. I think she likes the thought of being in love, but isnt really in love.
2007-06-08 02:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
give her some time alone and let her think things out. dont invade her life all the time cause a girl needs her space deffintly when we are confused. Let her think back on everything and see where it leads from there
2007-06-08 02:03:18 · answer #11 · answered by blabber_mouth626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋