Your spouse?Sometimes i truly hate my hubby as in i wish he would go away sometimes not come back.
2007-06-07 19:07:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i don,t know but i feel that way all the time! i cringe when my spouse comes home! for me personally i think it,s a sign the relationship is over!
2007-06-07 19:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hate isn't a normal state. You need to sift through and find the little things which lead to the hate. It may be he drinks too much coffee.
This is enough to cause hate after the fifth and sixth cup. It changes the house.
Research the times you feel this way, is it the shopping, his approach to things, is he controlling?
Does he smoke and always seem to get his own way, and you are the servant?
He probably can function just as well on his own, and likes you to know it. Try to add some fun, if it doesn't work, and you feel hate, try a separation, although he may want a very close separation.
2007-06-07 19:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by Marissa Di 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. I always say that hate is not the opposite of love. Indiffernce is and once you are apathetic to anything your spouse does, THEN you worry.
I just put it down to one of those days. I get them too when I wish he would just disappear and leave me the hell alone. Or I feel like I just want to get out and never come back.
I hope its normal. Cant be too sure or maybe we are jsut two psychopaths.
2007-06-07 19:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like that frequently. I purposelly sleep in so he will be gone to work when i wake up. I work late so he will be asleep when I get home. I try to spend as little time around him as possible. I have been married 20 years and have 2 kids. I used to pray he would be abducted by aliens and taken away. Don't really want anything bad to happen to him,just go away from me.
2007-06-07 19:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by laurie p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't hate him, I hate some of the things he does sometimes. It especially bothers me that sometimes I feel that he forgets that he's my husband and tries to boss me around like he's my Dad or something. I still have my Dad if I need that.
2007-06-07 19:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by meteor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes as long as its fleeting. I feel this way sometimes and then he does something, or looks at me in a way that reminds me of just how much I love him. Marriage is hard and we feel like we need a break sometimes and that's fine!
2007-06-07 19:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by firecracker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like that you should leave. Hate that we sometimes feel makes us ill, is no good for us. So, at least for the sake of ourself, you should leave so the hate could stop.
2007-06-07 23:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by Michaela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a very big word, sounds like your marriage is over. Consider making plans for a life apart.
2007-06-07 19:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by oldcorps1947 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it is....i know that i have never had those feelings toward my wife but know know she has towards me....i dont blame her at all...does it hurt me yes it does...but what am i supposed to expect when im deployed for months years at at time and she is home with six kids....you know..you didn't' state why you have hate towards him but it must be a logical reason....one time my wife told me i hope you never come back...it's not so bad but i was in iraq and well it hit me real hard...just dont say anything to him that your going to regret because sometiems those wishes do come true.....
2007-06-07 19:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by adrik c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happens to people who are pregnant or people who started to flirt with some one else if you truly love him you wouldn't want a piece him to go away from you. so tell him if you don't love him any more don't abuse yourself.
2007-06-07 19:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by lavita k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋