What do you suggest I look for in a potential groom? Feel free to say anything you feel like.
( P. S. this question is meant for the Indian audience ).
Thanks
2007-06-11 15:42:48 · 10 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try to follow few basic rules for searching your life partner.
1. Study in depth his behaviour and past records to know his character.
2. His family background, environment in which he/she is brought up.
3. Its always the beauty of mind and heart and not the outer look (which surely makes a dent in the selection proc)
4. Educational match is must to avoid any sort of future ill feelings.
5. Though we have turned up to modern family structure but still our rich heritage culture holds lots of positive things for we youngsters that makes the diff bet us and western world.
6.Love, respects,care, good wills and forgiveness are the pearls which very few are blessed with.
7. Pt no 6 is one of the thing that you have to observe in individual while making a final decision
2007-06-11 17:55:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now-a-days, in the name of equal rights, most of the families are spoiled: There is no proper education about the family life: A girl in Tamilnadu should not behave like a girl born in Delhi or America: The regional culture must be there:
Even though highly educated, employed with handsome money there must be politeness, affection, friendliness , hosting the guests and etc with each and every lady to run a harmonised family
selecting a match is very crucial for males
I am not commenting all the female community as critical:
Due to lack of family education from their parents,the generation in the name of freedom and rights doing some non-sensible things:
so find the suitable match with the following
1.family ..equal family
2.education not only degree.. family education and culture
3.blood .. it is a must to have a physical medical cheque up before marriage
4.age .. at least 2 to 3 years difference
2007-06-12 00:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by ar.samy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should look for someone who shares that same values as you, treats women with respect, cares about your feelings and thoughts, isn't afraid to take control sometimes but also will allow you to take control sometimes. You should enjoy some of the same interests have something in common.
2007-06-19 15:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The perfect groom would sit around the house all day while you catered to his every want and need. And he should be showered with rewards and gifts. It is your respononsibity as a wife to see to these needs, and praise him from day to day.
2007-06-11 22:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go marry a dog,
now u want to get married - u will be knowing what kind of a person u want , u will know ur needs better, how can v suggest something we all will have different choices.
marry a person that will suit ur qualities
2007-06-12 03:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by k b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy should be qualified and self dependent and girl should be a good house wife. Both should be honest to each other and devoted.
2007-06-15 11:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by baba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking for a groom or a MASTER?
2007-06-14 05:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by feysunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should have self respect first and love you the most.
2007-06-19 14:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why only indians? don't you think the rest of us know what a decent man is?
2007-06-11 22:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can get the best answer from your Mother. Ask her, rather than ask us.
2007-06-14 22:03:24 · answer #10 · answered by satishfreeman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋