2007-06-11 15:04:58 · 45 answers · asked by Mz Ruiz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I guess it depends on why you have the account. I have one and I am married. It is not to hook up or anything. I still keep in contact with a lot of my out-of-town college friends through myspace. My husband knows my password should he ever want to check it out and I have never tried to hide anything on it from him. I think that the key here is trust - how much of it there is between you. If you think that there is a reason that you cant trus your spouse to have a myspace account, then you really probably have bigger issues. I assume that your concern is that he is talking to women...guess what - he can do that on a cell phone too! No - if it is two people that have a good and solid relationship - there is not a thing wrong with it! (now if it is something that he is being weird or secretive about - then it is a different story and you need to nip that in the bud!)
2007-06-19 13:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does it matter? marriage is about love, trust, and respect and having a myspace would ruin which part of the marriage? if ur partner think that if u r having a myspace and u might cheat on him ...that means that he doesnt trust u...and that wouldnt be good. going on myspace is about meeting new peole and friends and u r just having a myspace just for fun and u wouldnt do anything bad to make ur partner disappointed or anything right? unless if u do something bad that then its not healthy..and probably u want to go through this w/ ur partner about why isnt he/ she comfortable that u r having a myspace! email me if u got problems. kangaroolovestarbuck@yahoo.com
2007-06-19 12:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by kangaroolovestarbuck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On myspace? Probably unhealthy. There are too many people on there that seem to like to flirt with others, even married couples. I'm single and don't even like the site. Mainly since most of the women seem to be fake. One friend I had for about a year would hardly ever talk to me. About the only time she would talk is if I would send her a message first and even sometimes she wouldn't send one back. I think it will likely be unhealthy. But if it is used right, it can be a good way to stay in touch with friends, as long as it doesn't go beyond that.
2007-06-11 15:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by Roller Coaster Enthusiast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would all depend on what you use it for. If you are meeting strangers on myspace then you are walking a very dangerous road. If your spouse has a big problem with you using myspace then you have to ask yourself, is it worth it? Your marriage should come first before anything.
2007-06-19 13:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by flateach33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on your and your other half, I am married and I have a myspace, I use it to keep in contact with my family. However if someone is using it for extramarital reasons than I don't think having a Myspace account is the best idea.
2007-06-11 15:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by dale454292001 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a myspace page and my husband thinks nothing of it. I don't use it to meet other guys or anything like that and he knows that. So, as long as you're not using it to cheat then I think it's healthy!
2007-06-18 15:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by J Linz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am married and have a myspace page, and my husband knows about it. It is STRICTLY for family and friends I know already. Occasionally I use it for networking for jobs and school information. Myspace allows you to block any unwanted drama. If you decide to accept friends that you know are gonna be a problem, you are making it unhealthy for your relationship. Don't put any provocative/compromising photos on there, and set your account to Private and you should be fine.. It gets unhealthy when YOU allow it to be.
2007-06-18 17:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki75 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You go into myspace as you go into any other part of the world: with the same morals and values no matter what. It works for my husband and I. I'm thankful he has a myspace. It helps him forget about his crazy, high stakes job and unwind. We are faithful to one another.
2007-06-11 15:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by Sleek 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a myspace page, and my husband doesn't. I don't use it to "meet" people though. I use it to keep in touch with all my old friends. The only people I have on it are people I actually know from real life. I think it's a problem if you are using it to mett people.
Other wise, everything is all about trust. If you trust your husband, it shouldn't be a problem. If you have reason NOT to trust him, well, then make sure you are allowed to monitor his page.
2007-06-11 15:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by Dolyn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is not safe but I think that myspace is for teens, even though i think myspace shouldn't exsist and trust me i am only 16 and i don't have a myspace.
2007-06-19 14:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by Chuchi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋