I have s lot of evidence against her but she always deny. I feel I love her the more now than ever. The reason why I think she is doing it is she thinks I am doing it too but I am not. 1/01/07, I found her very wet when we want to make love after she raturned from watchnight service. This has never happened in our 8 yrs of marriage.When I asked why she was extremely wet she denied after cleaning herself pretentioustly. I the showed her the evidence in my groin and she seemed not to know anything about it. She later asked me to shave her and I refused. The next thing I saw was she was neatly shaved. This she couldnt do prior our marriage. She attempted it twice in the marriage but couldnt shave properly and I have to reshave her. But this time she claimed she did it herself. She is also in constant touch with her ex-boy friends. I always kept every known evidence to myself and pretends nothing happen. that is why she is always denying. but I could also be wrong. Is she doing it or has.
2007-06-11 02:54:02 · 16 answers · asked by kwame dzeble 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you say wet do you mean something that looks like semen or wetness from her being aroused? You could take a pair of her panties when this happens and have it DNA tested along with a DNA sample from you and see if it's a match when i was having an affair i always showered and douched before going home.
2007-06-11 03:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, nobody is going to admit that they're having an affair, wether male or female.But being wet is not enough evidence every woman has her wet and dry periods due to her ovulation. Now being in CONSTANT touch with her ex-bf, well how did u know she is in constant touch with them? For me, once ur married there is no use to be in touch with ur ex's unless u have other business with them. have a heart to heart talk with her, open up to her not about ur evidences, about ur marriage. Tell her ur feelings, that u love her more. You can do this maybe u can both have a nice dinner out and afterwards u can begin. Ask her if she is happy with u or not, so then at least u can decide wether to let go. How is ur relationship going on this past few months, where there some changes in her actions towards u?
Because u might also be wrong in accusing her, u have to be 100% sure of these things before u accuse her. Some men they tend to be overly possesive that they suspect things which are not true. Have some nice time together think of something that will spice up ur relationship. Gud luck!
2007-06-11 03:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by eigger57 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she was wet doesn't really give you evidence of cheating. But from everything else you're saying I think yeah she probably is. She has no reason to need to be in contact with her ex boyfriends and if I were you I wouldn't allow it. If it's making you upset I would leave her and find someone better. Or get some councelling with her.
2007-06-11 03:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first wife did the same thing and was with many men that I knew about, but I thought marriage was forever, so I stayed. After 16 years I finally had enough when she ran off with my best friend (I thought), but came crawling back. Life is to short, do not waste it in a marriage that has no trust. If your spouse is cheating or has cheated, and they tell you it will not happen again, your a bigger fool than I was.
2007-06-11 03:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love her so much, you shouldn't be suspicious of her. You could be wrong and to be accused of being adulterous is devastating to a woman if she is being faithful. Women get wet quite often. Why not engage a PI and confirm whether or not she is being unfaithful. Keeping things to yourself will arouse your own suspicions further. Try talking to her about how you think and feel regarding her constant contact with her ex bfs. Also be honest with her if you have been faithful. You have to be tactful otherwise you may mess things up. Goodluck.
2007-06-11 03:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by greentea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you already know the answer to your own question. It seems like your wife is cheating and it maybe harder for you to realize because like you said you love here more now than ever. You have enough evidence you just now need to decide are you going to deal with it and work things out or do you want to seperate from her. Best of luck.
2007-06-11 03:00:00 · answer #6 · answered by AilanisPlace.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a good evidence to doubt someone plan of a way you can get her red handed even if it means following her secretely it doesn't matter provided you calm the situation.Remember you will never live in a doubtful marriage for the rest of your life.All the best
2007-06-11 03:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by Kit,s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where are you from and where you live?It's funny but I had a relationship with a married woman in 1/01/07 until last week.I had to shave her one time because she says,her hubby didn't want to.
That's maybe just a curious coincidence. Hey! try to thrust your wife man, maybe nothign happend.Without thrust there is no love.
2007-06-11 03:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does seem suspicious. Since you have already confronted her, you now need to decide if you trust her or not. If the answer is no, then maybe the relationship is ending.
Tell her how you feel inside and make her look you in the eye and promise that she is not cheating. you should get a better sense of whether or not she is lying.
2007-06-11 03:01:21 · answer #9 · answered by Get Your Ex Back 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your writing skills are evident of limited education. I would say from your experiences that you have the wool being pulled over your eyes, or, she's playing some games and not being honest.
Sit down and have an honest conversation without being accusatory.
2007-06-11 03:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋