How do you catch a cheating spouse who has hidden e-mail accounts? I know the user ids but not the passwords? Help?
2007-06-11 01:33:46 · 22 answers · asked by gritsgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
By forcing him to focus on protecting the accounts, he will let his guard down in other areas
2007-06-11 01:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to catch your spouse doing anything. That is inconsistent with the spirit of marriage. Marriage is not a game of cat and mouse. Marriage is when two individuals have the primary desire to be in the presence of each other. If that is not the case in your marriage you have much greater problems than an unknown password.
2007-06-11 02:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask for the password! If they start to get all paranoid about it that is the first thing that they are hiding something. Been there done that. The ones that are guilty or have something to hide are going to get mad about it. If they do not give you the password right away they have somethings they want to delete before you catch them. If you open it delete it. Take a day off and take her around!
2007-06-11 01:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jesse Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well get evidence for starters how do u know the person is cheating? Just because the have another e-mail account does not mean they are cheating but I would say get proof before startign accusing and then chasing ther person away in any case
2007-06-11 01:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deep down you know if he is cheating or not. If you feel that he is then hire someone to help you figure this out. Snoop like you have never snooped b4. Also you should ask him about the email accounts and see what he says. Its going to be a made up lie, but at least he knows you have an idea somthing is going on.
2007-06-11 01:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by Jill knows best 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide what you are going to do if you find out he/she is cheating before you ever start looking. Usually if you think there is cheating going on, it is going on. Get a copy of his/her cell phone records, credit card receipts, etc. If he/she is coming home late from work often, leaving for an errand and not coming back for hours, and any unexplained absence when he should be somewhere and isn't. Good luck. If you do think he/she is cheating and you want a divorce, you need to get with a lawyer to find out your rights in your state. Surprise him/her and know the answers.
2007-06-11 01:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would have better luck catching her in the act then just hacking passwords and if your wrong this could turn you into the bad guy.
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2007-06-13 18:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE ARE SO MANY WAY YOU CAN DO THIS . YOU CAN TRICK THEM INTO TELL YOU THE PASSWORD OR IF YOU KNOW WHEN THEY ARE GOING OUT TO BE WITH THAT PERSON YOU COULD FOLLOW THEM. BE A SPY YOU COULD ALSO CALL CHEATS THAT T.V SHOW GOOD LUCK
2007-06-11 01:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just create a new account yourself (in Yahoo or Hotmail, for example) and send him an email as if you were someone else. See how stupid he is when he responds to you and speaks to you not realizing you are his wife.
2007-06-11 02:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by QueenLori 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be Patient, Truth must come out sooner or later.....Good Luck. You could dress as someone else and follow them and wait for the slip up..
2007-06-11 01:38:49 · answer #10 · answered by ~Angel~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋