My husband likes me to get rough with him when we are having you know what. He likes me slap him and punch him during, It really turns him on. My bestfriend says he may have r@pe fantasies, should I be worried?
2007-06-11 19:40:18 · 27 answers · asked by misswannano 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wasn't very detailed let me explain beter. He likes me to resist him as if i am trying to get away. He likes me to try to do whatever I can to get free, if it's biting, slapping or hitting. Weird huh?
2007-06-11 19:51:29 · update #1
You can be worried if you like, but as long as it is he that is getting roughed up, why the worry...do you have an aversion to it...then don't do it. If you do not mind, then go for it...the problem lies in the fact that their are two sides of the coin, and often the slappee want to be the slapper occasionally...if that happens, get the hell out of the room. Good luck After seeing our added part, your husband love the rape fantasy...so what .. it can be a lot of fun. Heep big man conquering heep weak woman...go for it, very common fantasy.
2007-06-11 19:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your husband is watching too much porn movies (Fetish) Making love should be pleasant and passionate since its a gesture or your way of showing how much you want and how much you love your husband. But it really depends on the person. I personally, its kinda weird. Slapping and punching for me is just too much. If you dont feel comfortable of the idea maybe you can discuss it with your husband. Maybe you can make love next time in a more calm and gentle way.
2007-06-11 20:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by Zhoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a fetish your husband has. I doubt it has anything to do with rape. If you are okay doing this then I wouldn't worry about it. If you aren't comfortable, then I would talk to him about it. Otherwise don't worry about it and Have fun.
Good luck.
2007-06-11 20:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by pinkribbons&walking4boobies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely a dominance fantasy, if not a rape fantasy too. It sounds creepy. I'd never do it.
Never do anything sexually that you are not comfortable with.
I'll also go as far as to say never do anything that isn't "you".
If it's not fun for you also, then quit it.
2007-06-11 19:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It doesn't sound like rape fantasies. It sounds like he wants to be dominated...He wants to be controlled. Talk to him. Only do what you are comfortable with. He may need help. You sound patient and understanding....be that for him. Don't make him feel bad for anything. Let him know you love him and if he has issues you will be there for him.
2007-06-11 19:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by db14 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Your husband simply has a fetish. He likes the roughness and he wants something new and exciting for his sex life. I wouldn't worry about it. Everyone has their little differences. Roughness is just his.
2007-06-11 19:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by CanIHelpYou? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,Dear.Heis freakish.
Mine wanted me to bite him on his back & get rough! I think it is because his mother beat him.He beat me also & I am very anti violence!
We been divorced many yrs now & he is still a freak,into porno & still abusing women.His meds & psychiatrist don't help.He needs to be put out of everyone else's misery,causehe thinks he is fine!
2007-06-11 19:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have a problem doing all that than I would say keep doing it If it turns him go for it.
2007-06-11 19:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by collectivetheresa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consenting adults find many different ways to please and pleasure their partner. You are asking a question you should ask your husband. Communication is very VERY important in every aspect of married life. Ask him!!!
2007-06-11 20:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can girls pick up hints?
2017-03-30 10:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋