he mean and evil if i leave with my 2 boys, steals them frm school and outside and refuses to bring them back--- although he does not want them he does not want me to have them--- i am fighting back this time he took one i have my other son and i wont back down--- he does not want me and wants me to have no life or chance of life everything is my fault-- after 19yr of this and all his girlfriends when does it end-- if feel like i am fighting for my life everyday and it never stops-- why wont he just leave me and my son alone-- why is there no protection for woman in a situation like this? this is why women get killed---- when does it all end--- he is going to have to take me out this time i am not backing down just to be abused and worthless again--- where is the help??? it is a true life and death situation where are the advocates and support groups? Help!!!
2007-06-11 20:17:29 · 3 answers · asked by ls_mango 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
File for divorce , that way you have physical custody, if you get there first they will give it to you. If you wait they may give the kids to him and you will have to fight ot get them back. When you file for a divorce tell the laywer that he was abusive. If he tries to take the kids he will be in contempt. Advice is this if you file a restraining order and go back to him , the police wont do a dam thing for you. Also talk with a battered shelter as the others have said. File divorce, get restraining order and try to stay near a family or friend for now that will help. Men like this can be very danagerous, so watch your back because as we have all seen it they have thier way of getting around police. I am not saying this to scare you but you have to be careful for your kids sake , if he truly is this revengeful for you. Good luck dear
2007-06-11 21:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by diane33michigan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the battered women's clinic or your local police for information on assistance in your area. Also, get a restraining order, if he is threatening you.
2007-06-12 03:23:16 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where are you? can you try to find someone else near you that you can trust?
2007-06-12 03:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by simonyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋