Why don't you try re-connecting on an emotional level, not just sexual. You obviously had an attraction to each other outside of the bedroom, so try to re-live that time in your lives.
2007-06-15 07:11:50
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answered by MILF 5
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You have to admit one thing that if you have gone through all the efforts of pleasing him and trying your best then there is something wrong with him and not you!You should maybe sit down and talk to him about what he would like you to do,maybe the way you approach to him is not the way he likes it.Talk to him and make him see how important you are and all the things you are doing to make him happy.
If even then he does not show any positive response then i would say just wait for some time and see how he responds .Otherwise always be there for him,talk to him about any problems he is having at work,show him your other side maybe then he will slowly start to show some interest.
2007-06-15 07:17:43
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answered by Anonymous
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If you have tried the 3somes and it didn't work, you are lost. Either join a swngers group and you can both get what you want or file for divorce. Not too many other choices.
2007-06-15 08:51:20
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answered by bocasbeachbum 6
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See if he will talk to you and try to find out why he has lost interest. Is it that he can't get aroused? Is it because he did something he shouldn't have and feels guilty? Is it because he's had a bad experience, like job loss or death of a family member and he just can't "get there"... If you don't know WHY he lost interest, you will have a hard time getting him back to being interested.
2007-06-15 07:13:06
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answered by shannie 3
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You have tried threesomes? How come i wasn't informed and lets cut ur husband out of the picture. lets get one of ur girls and we can get a threesome together.
2007-06-15 11:39:37
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answered by Harinder Gill 2
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There are all kinds of reasons that he has lost interest. And you can't make someone want you. I suggest that you spend the day being respectful of him and his time. A respected husband is more likely to be in the mood to desire you than one who is nagged and overworked.
2007-06-15 07:17:48
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answered by Anonymous
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You don't have control over his libido. If it bothers him, too, have him get a medical checkup first. If he's OK medically, find a counselor or therapist who can help. You might also consider couple's counseling. If he's not bothered by it, and you can't tolerate the situation as it is, *you* find a counselor or therapist for yourself to figure out how you want to deal with it.
2007-06-15 07:13:28
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answered by Dan H 4
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Try to look pretty for him and show him that your the only girl that will satisfy his needs go out and show him a good time by invitinghim to a nice dinner or a horror flick
2007-06-15 07:12:23
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answered by In love! 6
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Win the lottery.
2007-06-15 07:27:15
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answered by acmeraven 7
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maybe he's having some"problems" if you know what i mean. Could be a medical issue--just flat out ask him whats going on?
2007-06-15 07:24:46
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answered by lsp 5
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