Okay, I found out my husband cheated on me, and i took him back, the one of my close friends died, then my husband told me he didn't love me anymore and that is the reason he cheated on me. As if I wasn't hurting enough, I found out that another one of my friends is in the hospital on life support and they don't know if he is gonna make it. I just don't know what to do. How do I deal with all of this??
2007-06-15 18:42:30 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Okay, I will add this, me and my husband are getting divorced cuz he doesn't want to try to make it work, so I am trying to raise our 8 month old child. And I do have God in my life, so I don't need a lecture about looking toward him and he will solve all of my problems, I need to learn to deal with this and I don't know how!
2007-06-16 10:58:58 · update #1
how do you deal with your life the way its going? you stick with your heart. your husband sounds like a real jackass! sorry but he does. its your friend not his. he can't tell you what do to. he shouldn't be telling you what you are feeling. he sounds like an ignorant asswipe! no one should treat someone like that. if they treat you badly they don't love you! i say, get rid of the idiot husband and live your life the way YOU want to.
2007-06-15 18:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just take it one day at a time. You have a lot going on in your life right now with your friend passing away and another one sick sick in the hospital. I suggest you concentrate on your marriage or your friend at the hospital. You don't want to jeopardize your relationships at this point. It must be hard holding everything together. You should pray for your friend and hope that he/she gets better. With your husband, you need to have a talk with him and find out if it's worth it to keep the marriage together, especially if he has told you he doesn't love you anymore and he cheated on you. Things should get easier then and you will find peace at the end.
2007-06-16 01:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by Curious1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pray for your friends and for your strength. You are doing all you can. Its up to you, what you will tolerate from your husband but my dear he is no man, marriage, a man, a husband or even a decent friend doesnt bail out during hard times. You need to focus on you, your dear friend, i apologize my condolences and ill say a quick prayer for them, but you are down right now, when you are down to nothing God is up to something for you. Your priority right now should be you, and you will have to go that route since that man doesnt care enough about you to do such a thing for you as far as caring about you and for you and make you a priority, I hope you see this man for what he is a coward and selfish. Good luck sweety.
2007-06-16 02:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot on your plate at this time...........take one step at a time. Don't make any "quick" decisions because there is not a quick fix to any of them and it looks as if you have to deal with it every day with your husband. Find a friend to talk to or go get some professional help. Talking with someone about it will help a lot. It will not be easy but with a friend to talk with, it will definitely be easier. : )
2007-06-16 01:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by lone_lee_days 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi Jennifer,
We're really sorry to hear of what you're going through.We(Chriist and I ) have prayed for you on this matter. I've been through this.I was heart broken, and I've lost a lot of friends as well. I've come to find that we can't do anything but go to the source of all help for all matters.Our Creator.God the Father through His Precious and Merciful Son Jesus Christ. No games.You want help.Go straight to the Healer, WHo knows you so much more then you can or ever will know yourself and all of your needs. He says,'Casting all of your care upon Him, for He cares for you.'1Peter 5:7. 'The poor man(woman)cried and the heard him(her) , and saved him(her) out of all of his(her) troubles.' Psalm 34:6. 'Be Merciful unto me O God.Be Merciful unto me, for my soul trusts in thee; yes, in the shadow of thy wings will I make my refuge, until these calamities be overpassed. I will cry unto God the Most High; unto God that performs all things for me. He shall send from Heaven, and save me from the reproach of him that would swallow me up. Selah. God shall send forth His Mercy and His Truth.' Psalm 57:1-3. 'Be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart, all you that hope in the Lord.' Psalm 31:24. ' I saught the Lord and He heard me, and delivered me from all of my fears.' Psalm 34:4,7-8,'The Angel of the Lord encamps around about them that respects Him, and delivers them. O taste and see that the Lord is good; Blessed is the man(woman) that trusts in Him.'
The Lord's Word stands fast forever and ever and is done in truth and righteousness.He will save you and deliver you out of all of your troubles, Jennifer.You must go to Him and ask Him for help in this matter.Anyone or anything else will only help but a little.But His help will be complete.God help you and grant your friends help and all of you peace in all of your troubles.Jesus loves you and He will help you....please know this.I've learned this the hard way.God Bless you. Chriist and Pastor B
2007-06-16 02:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by brian b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need God in your life.
2007-06-16 03:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋