Marriage & Divorce - 13 June 2007

porn????

Don't watch it.
Watch it ocassionally
Watch it alone
Watch it with spouce
Angry that your spouce watches porn
Dont care if your spouce watches porn
Porn is not an issue in your marriage
Never have watched porn

2007-06-13 06:46:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

about an annulment. i am trying to resolve our problems and work through this. I just wanted to know of he could file for an annulment if I am not willing to consent. these are personal issues I wanted to know if the court will issue an annulment based on this...please help since i am trying to resolve this matter....

2007-06-13 06:44:06 · 14 answers · asked by onehotcurl 1

2007-06-13 06:43:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am currently a full-time college student who works full-time as well. He is constantly nagging me about getting a better job but I am in my last 8 weeks and think it is better to wait until I have my bachelors to get a better job. He complains about my pay and we bought a new car for me to drive that he constantly reminds me is HIS. I am tired of his abuse already yet we have only been married a month. What should I do???

2007-06-13 06:42:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

how to deal with a anger when you get into an arguement with your spouse

2007-06-13 06:40:48 · 11 answers · asked by Peter R 1

I am thirteen years old and recently my parents have been arguing a lot. I am worried they are going to get a divorce.

When they argue I am usually in the room with them or in my bedroom but I can still hear them really clearly, and they say personal stuff about each other which I don't like to hear.

I love both of my parents and the thought of them arguing upsets me so much. If they got a divorce I don't know what I would do.

I am an only child so I don't have any older siblings at home who I can talk to. I have the best friend in the world who always listens to me and tries to help but she can't do anything to stop it from happening.

Please reply. I am so scared and I don't know what to do.

2007-06-13 06:32:44 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you could cheat on your partner and there would be no way you could ever get cought would you cheat.

2007-06-13 06:25:06 · 39 answers · asked by ? 3

Why would you hide information?

2007-06-13 06:24:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have kept it secret because I wanted to see if I could trust her after 24 years of marriage and she has been fantastic so should I finally tell her or should I
go and live with my 21 year old lover ???

2007-06-13 06:24:10 · 18 answers · asked by londonletch 2

So my girlfriend had her cell phone laying down and I saw it light up. I went to grab it and she immediately grabbed it and starting getting physical. I was trying to take it from her to see who it was, I've been suspecting she was cheating. She literally had a death grip on that thing. So she takes it away and runs into the bathroom with it.

I asked her what that was about and she says it was nothing, her mom called her. Well a few minutes she says it was no one. The fact is I saw her phone had a message or a call.

She says she did it because I don't show her my cell phone or let her see it. It's because I talk to my guy friends about personal stuff, I'm not texting any women.. and that was her excuse. She says she wasn't hiding anything...

What do you think?

2007-06-13 05:53:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

What happened and how did you and your spouse get through it? Did the challenge make the marriage stronger? I'd love to hear your story. Thank you for taking time to answer.

2007-06-13 05:52:04 · 15 answers · asked by historybuff33 3

My wife had left me for someone younger and wealthier than me after several years of marriage... We're still talking but I am really bitter, but she seems to be having a blast. Tonight I am going to have one final dinner with her to discuss a few things and tomorrow morning she leaves for a romantic cruise with her new man... I am determined to get back at her and that is why I am going to put some strong laxative in her food or drink... How much is enough for lets say three days of non-stopping runs?

2007-06-13 05:51:22 · 12 answers · asked by Ronnie 2

2007-06-13 05:24:22 · 22 answers · asked by thestarhooligan 1

2007-06-13 05:22:05 · 11 answers · asked by mary kay s 1

And if I were gay, could I have sex with my partner? and if I were one who adored many men, might I have many men as my partner? And if I had married several times, and loved them all, may I have sex with all of them?

2007-06-13 05:20:30 · 18 answers · asked by April 6

2007-06-13 05:15:23 · 46 answers · asked by ilovebaby 1

Last night we were arguing because my husband was yelling at our 1 year old that it was time to go to sleep. I was mad because he was screaming at him so i went to pick him up and put him to sleep myself but he wouldn't give him to me. We started screaming at each other and i said i would call the cops( i know we shouldn't do that in front of our son and i had no intention whatsoever on actually calling the cops)so he pushed the baby at me and said "you are no better than all of the other ******* women in this world who have kids just so they think they can control everything" wow...that was the most hurtful thing he has ever said to me. It hurt so bad and i want to leave. He said this morning that he didn't mean it but i don't think i can get over that. What would you do if you were in my situation?? i don't have a job right now because i was staying home with our son and collecting unemployment but that ran out last week. Help please!!!!

2007-06-13 05:02:32 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't think there is anything wrong in wanting my man to make as much or more money than me.... I know money is not the most important element in a relationship but it's the no 1. cause of divorce. Go figure.....

2007-06-13 04:55:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I deal with a husband that wont let me make decisions??? He feels that he needs to control EVERY thing in and out of our home. I'm not able to even pick out paint colors. I have 2 flower beds, without any flowers because he says that we don't need them. He wants to plant grass seed instead. We were talking about someday remodeling the kitchen. He already has it all planned out, and its not something that I want. What should I do? I could go on and on, but I won't. Dont say to go ahead and do this stuff on my own, because he also controls the money. I have a small part time job, just to get gas money and occasionally take our daughter to do something fun. Any ideas???

2007-06-13 04:42:15 · 31 answers · asked by pebbles 6

i am married and needing to end it (but will not until my child goes away to school) the man i am in love with is in a 6 year realtionship...we became friends and fell in love and now we are working to try to severe these ties with our 'others" by this time next year so we can be together!

does this ever really work? i love him and i know he loves me! do we stand a chance? i have asked God for his forgiveness but i love him so much and want this to happen so bad! i am afraid i have become blinded by it all!

2007-06-13 04:00:28 · 22 answers · asked by margee 1

found out that he hung out with and slept with someone else after I asked him for a break. He said it was nothing and that he cares about me. I know we were in essence broken up, but it pains me that he was able to do this so quickly afterwards. I know he thinks of it as just sex, but it really kills me inside to imagine him with someone else. So now I am deciding whether or not I want to pursue things again after talking to himn yesterday for the first time in over a month. I care about him so much, and we are so good together, but now I am just so confused. I do know he cares about me, but now I am dounting the reasons why he cares about me. I am also doubting how honest he is when he tells me he cares about me, since how could he have done that if he really did? We are both in our mid 20's and I am ready for a real relationship with someone I can trust. I used to feel that he was the one, and I still do in some ways, but this has scared me from letting myself fall again.

2007-06-13 03:53:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Scenario: Husband cheats on wife, wife has proof, husband even admits the adultery. Wife does not want to file for divorce but rather try to work it out. Husband wants divorce so he can be with the other woman. What options does the husband have? Can he file for divorce even though he is the one who committed the adultery? If so, would it be a wise thing to do?

2007-06-13 03:46:35 · 24 answers · asked by m35603 1

been married 5 years, at moment struggling with mental illness, not much support from husband. Lots money problems, been stuck in house 2 months now, started chatting with guy on net, absolutely lovely, going to meet, not for sex just chat and company, he's married too and unhappy! he always pays lovely compliments. I love my husband but need some fun. Am i being selfish or should i finally have some fun. Please help

2007-06-13 03:30:42 · 39 answers · asked by carolina 1

Should I wallpaper the garage?

2007-06-13 03:28:33 · 20 answers · asked by Sr Tamara Specialist 4

have been in love for two years now. I can't seem to stop them. How do I stop her getting control of the family finances?

2007-06-13 03:26:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do you think black females and males are stereotyped as always being somebody's baby's mama/daddy and having babies? Most importantly what should be done about this? Not only are blacks stereotyped by other races, but especially their own, for example, Im a 23 year old black female, no kids, pay my own bills, and working on my pharmacy degree. I find that I am constantly asked by my other black co-workers or the black community "Do you have kids?" and when I say "no", they look at me in disbelief and then try to get offended!
I know this happens to alot of blacks, not just me. I just wanted to ask this question to see if anybody feels my concern on this issue. Contrary to popular belifs, there are many young black adults trying to handle thier business with as few interruptions as possible and I feel this hardly ever goes noticed.

2007-06-13 03:24:04 · 5 answers · asked by Malc T 1

It seems like everyone blames George Bush for anything that goes wrong. I'll admit, I don't like the guy and I think we could have a better person in office but he's not the blame for everything. He's blamed for the hurricane katrina rescuers not showing up in a timely manner, he's blamed for the war, gas prices, interest rates, high taxes, oil profits, he's blamed for bringing the towers down in NY. I'm tired of people blaming one another. Even in divorces, spouses blame each other and see no fault in themselves. Grow up people!!!! Only children blame each other. Blame yourselves for high gas prices. You drive those huge navigators and expeditions to the corner store when you can just walk there or ride a bike.

2007-06-13 03:15:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband recently went and changed his checking account not to include me and has been out all hours of the night. He tells me there is nothing going on but I don't belive that. I don't want to lose him. I admitt I have not been the best wife in the world but I work he doesn't I take care of the kids, pay the bills, clean the house, etc he does not have to lift a finger. What have I done wrong?

2007-06-13 02:59:01 · 25 answers · asked by HELP ME!!! 2

i have been in this relationship for 25 yrs,From the begining there was drama with his family and religion.We past that .Then ther was the drama of his physical abuse,we past that to,but then came the mental abuse which i can honestly say i would swap the physical back .I swear my husband has had numerous encounters with other women but ofcourse he will never admit to anything.This was the when i dug myself a bigger hole to fall into i was looking for a friend after my father commited suicide i couldnt focus on anything in life and got so depressed everything in my life was dark at that time.Not that thats an excuse for my actions those i take full responcibilty for .Well to cut it short i fell for the first idiot who came along to give me a shoulder to cry on , it was one of those so called internet affair,i was so consumed with guilt i told my husband.But 6 yrs later he still wont let go.i am at the point now i would rather die than live like this ,i know i should leave but i cant.

2007-06-13 02:25:39 · 30 answers · asked by harry 1

the birth of our beautiful 4 y/o daughter. I show her that I'm still interested and always willing. She's 24 and I'm 29. I feel like she's forcing me to go elsewhere. I'm lost.I do take care of myself. It's not like I'm a pig, I shower every night before bed to smell good for her and still, no interest. I compliment her all the time. I never ever put her down from her weight. Im in good shape and shes not horrible. She has the most beautiful face, personality and heart. This is a situation that I don't wanna do something wrong and be that guy. I dont wanna hear talk to her because I already did.

2007-06-13 02:13:42 · 41 answers · asked by The Gooch 3